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How to eliminate the fear that EVERYONE is lying?!
Anxiety Support / by goldenPlane2884
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 March 27th, 2024
...See more I don’t know what it is…. But I can’t trust for ***. When someone says they love me, I don’t believe it. When they tell me they promise to be honest, I accuse them of lying. When I ask them a question, I automatically assume their response is a lie. And my mind will twist everything someone says into a reason why it’s not true. i don’t understand why I still have this issue with my partner after 7 years of him being consistently faithful, honest, and transparent in our communication. we’re currently on a break because of my inability to trust him & my inability to respect a few small and simple boundary he established long ago. I want to be a better partner and I need to learn quick! I love him & I know he deserves just as much as he gives & I want to be able to do that. Please help!
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Are breaks ever a good thing?
Relationship Stress / by goldenPlane2884
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 March 27th, 2024
...See more My boyfriend of 7 years and I have had a really good relationship.. with some minor consistent issues that pop up sporadically. But truly nothing that is relationship ending. but a few days ago he told me he wants to go on a break & focus on ourselves. We live together so every day he tells me he loves me still & that he’s doing this to save the relationship.. but it’s so hard for me to believe him. I don’t understand the point of a break.. I think it’s just a way for the one initiating the break to go be single while keeping that option of a relationship open to them.. while the one that doesn’t want the break sits around waiting for their partner to choose them. I am hoping that is not this case in my situation, but you never know. from past experience, breaks make me feel unworthy of love, damaged, ugly, unwanted, and undesirable.. I love this man so much & I truly want to be with him for the rest of my life.. but I’m so scared that he’s just out there being a f-boy meanwhile I’m sitting in our home balling my eyes out and trying to heal a broken heart without knowing if I should even be heartbroken. I am trying to be okay with this break, as we’re are in our mid 20s & have been together for almost 7 years.. so I do believe it’s important to experience life to truly know this is what we want.. but I’m so scared to lose him. I’m scared he’ll realize he doesn’t want me. everyone always says “you’d rather know now if he is or is not the one compared to in another 7 years” but tbh, I don’t know that I want this answer.. I just want to be loved by him, even if it’s just a little longer.
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