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greenmango2007
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Hi, I’m a high school senior and I enjoy fashion design and bubble tea. I want to be the person people can come to about anything because I know how hard it is when no one is there to listen. You are loved 💗

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How should boyfriends act in a relationship?
Relationship Stress / by greenmango2007
Last post
 November 12th, 2025
...See more I just had a break up and it made me wonder how a boyfriend should act. I know every guy is different and everyone has their own preferences, but I feel like a boyfriend should at least be a certain way. Before my relationship ended, I (gf) always made the plans, called, asked to hang out, bought him gifts, and just did a lot of things first. My ex just kind of took everything I gave him and didn’t give anything back. He also broke up with me only days before my bday. I don’t know how a boyfriend “should” be, I feel like I won’t ever know because each time I’m the one caring more or putting in the effort for two people.
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Should I stop hoping after my break up?
Relationship Stress / by greenmango2007
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 November 10th, 2025
...See more My ex broke up with me a few days ago, right before my bday. We were fine a week and a half ago, and then he switched up and gave me silent treatment, eventually leading up to his break up. I called him and told him I didn’t understand and that I didn’t want to break up. He said it was the stress between me, his mom, and his sister. I had stopped being friends with his sister a year ago because she would blow up in my face and start drama. Her mom usually sides with her. I told him that it was messed up that he did it this way and that he did it right before my bday that he promised he would go to. He then started to yell at me “yk what’s f***ed up, that I have to deal with the issues between you and my sister, and I tried to fix everything!”. He also said he wanted to “move forward” and that he “didn’t want this”. A week ago, he told me he loved me and that we should try to be good. The family wouldn’t let me see him unless I was apart of their family meetings, which every time was so uncomfortable and it just made the whole situation worse. I started crying on the phone and just hung up and blocked him on everything. But before all that, we were totally fine and he was so nice. We would text and call every day, he would say he cared about me, etc. But I was the one putting in the most effort, making plans, getting him random gifts, and calling him. A few days before the break up (Halloween) I just stopped by his house and gave him two gifts and told him I loved him, since he was going on a trip that weekend. He mumbled it back, when before he would just say it. It was so weird to me that he switched up and a part of me is hoping he’ll just show up. We did a jacket exchange, my friend went to drop it back and my ex’s dad was there. My friend told me that my ex was there too. I keep hoping that he’ll try to come back or get his friend to message, or just anything from him. I just need someone to give me clarification or like honest truth because although I know what he said on that call, I keep thinking he regrets it or still cares. Other notes *I don’t contact him bc I said I already blocked him *The family is controlling and toxic *The sister sent a voicemail to me saying I was wrecking their family ( I was barely at their house and didn’t do anything besides break the friendship off) *The jacket exchange was just to get my jacket back, it was special beforehand
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Bf broke up with me before bday
Relationship Stress / by greenmango2007
Last post
 November 6th, 2025
...See more Hi, my bf broke up with me last night, and my birthday is on Saturday. I feel so empty and sad, and when I talk to people I feel better, but feel instantly horrible when I’m alone. We were fine a week ago, and then he gave me silent treatment for a week. Then he text me and said he wanted to break things off. I called him and told him I didn’t want to break up and I didn’t understand. There were issues with his family previously and he said it was that. I told him it was kind of messed up that he would do this right before my bday he said he would go to, that even though he’s hurt me so many times I stayed, and that I waited him for him so much. He began to shout and said “yk what’s messed up, that I have to deal with the issues between you, my sister, and my mother, and the repercussions of all the drama, and every time you came over, I would always be told something”. And I was crying and I said yeah, and I was there for you each time they said something and I always told you what was happening wasn’t your fault. And then he said he didn’t want this anymore, so I hung up. And I blocked him on everything. I just feel so sad because he would tell me these things about the future and that he cared/loved me, but it seems like he’s fine with everything that happened. And I loved him so much and gave him whatever I could. And idk how to move on and I feel like I’m going to have such bad trust issues if I date someone else later on.
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