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hardworkingDrum2863
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Need help about it
OCD & Related Behaviors / by hardworkingDrum2863
Last post
 January 11th
...See more Hi everyone, how did you overcome retroactive jealousy?! What actually helped you stop overthinking and intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past?!
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Anxiety
Anxiety Support / by hardworkingDrum2863
Last post
 December 27th, 2025
...See more Hi, I’m struggling with anxiety and intrusive thoughts that I can’t seem to control. My mind keeps replaying images and questions over and over, even when I don’t want to think about them. Sometimes I try to distract myself or calm down, but the thoughts always come back, and it makes me feel exhausted. These thoughts often come at night, and they make it really hard for me to sleep or relax. I feel trapped in my own mind, and it’s overwhelming at times. I keep asking myself questions in my head, analyzing, and replaying scenarios, and even though I know it’s not helpful, I can’t stop. I would really appreciate someone just to listen and support me, to help me feel calmer and safer. I just need understanding and guidance for how to cope with my anxiety and intrusive thoughts Thank you for being here and listening.
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The past
Relationship Stress / by hardworkingDrum2863
Last post
 October 22nd, 2025
...See more How did you accept the past of your partner and you were able to move forward , and to not make the past a problem ( I can’t get over my partner past ) it makes me so uncomfortable to think of him with another girl .. and i wish i can know how to not stress and overthink about it
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Feelings..
Relationship Stress / by hardworkingDrum2863
Last post
 October 16th, 2025
...See more Its really hard for me to survive , i think there is still beauty inside me , but i cant find it anywhere , I’m struggling each day , every emotion turned into anger , jealousy , self disrespect , how can i find the beauty i lost inside that world of feelings inside me , i was an art , i made my husband see me as an art , but i dont know from where i can start to make him see this again in me , i feel kinda loosing myself and loosing him , maybe i will figure it out all , maybe not
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Men who follows the herd
Relationship Stress / by hardworkingDrum2863
Last post
 July 20th, 2025
...See more So many men today blindly follow the herd , It’s crazy how many men today move like clones same reels, same trends, same TikToks, same girls , same comments. Double tapping recycled beauty and losing sight of what truly matter . They confuse attraction with depth, and attention with connection , Then they step into relationships thinking loyalty is just a title, not a mindset Where’s the depth, the individuality, the substance? does social media kill originality or just expose the lack of it? If your heart follows the herd, how will your love ever stand out? What’s your take can someone really love you while they’re busy liking everyone else? Real relationships need real minds. Not boys chasing trends
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Jealousy
Relationship Stress / by hardworkingDrum2863
Last post
 July 18th, 2025
...See more My past trauma still haunting me i can’t let go what happened in my past , that causing me a lot of jealousy and doubts on my partner how can i get over this
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