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kindsummer2897
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meeting for coffee
Relationship Stress / by kindsummer2897
Last post
 May 7th, 2019
...See more my ex and i broke up almost 3 months ago because he was in a bad place mentally and couldnt handle a relationship. now were both done school for the summer (were in uni) and back in the same small town for 4 months. i asked if he wanted to meet for coffee and he agreed saying it would be nice. i want to get back together but i dont know if he does or if hes ready for a relationship. i have done a lot of growing since the breakup and if we got back together, i would want the relationship to be much different and more mature/positive. how should i go about this when seeing him? i know not to have too many expectations.
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what should i do
Relationship Stress / by kindsummer2897
Last post
 April 5th, 2019
...See more hi, i recently went through a breakup a little over a month ago. they broke up with me and it was due to both of our mental health. they wanted to work on themselves before being in a relationship and a lot of our personal stuff caused us to argue a lot. no cheating or falling out of love happened just a lot of stress with ourselves personally. they told me we could possibly revisit where things are at once school is done (both in our first year at university) Since the breakup ive done a lot of self improving. working out, focusing on my academic future, spending time with friends and doing a lot of emotional growth. i feel more ready to enter a relationship again but dont know where hes at. i cant help but hope he will want to try again in summer when stresses of school are gone. we both live in the same small town so it would be easy to see eachother more. i dont want to wait around for him to reach out but im scared he wont have changed his mind by then. what do you think i should do?
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Broke up due to depression
Relationship Stress / by kindsummer2897
Last post
 February 26th, 2019
...See more Recently my boyfriend broke up with me after being together for a little over a year. We met in my hometown where we went to the same school together but as soon as university came, we went different ways and tried to keep the relationship going. We did stay together for more than half of the school year but broke up with only under two months left. He has had depression since before we got together and has struggled with it throughout the relationship. I began to struggle with insecurities especially when university came and these two things weve dealt with clashed at times but every time we visited in person we had amazing times. I did not expect this breakup to happen and he told me its because he needs to focus on himself since his mental health is extremely low right now and wants me to work on myself too. He has also turned to drugs to cope. I still am in love with him and I know he is too. I would love to be together again but he doesnt seem certain on anything right now. He said he wants to leave the door open for us to be together again and we could revisit the situation once school ends. Do I move on from him or still keep hopeful while I do my best to focus on myself?
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