what should i do
hi, i recently went through a breakup a little over a month ago. they broke up with me and it was due to both of our mental health. they wanted to work on themselves before being in a relationship and a lot of our personal stuff caused us to argue a lot. no cheating or falling out of love happened just a lot of stress with ourselves personally. they told me we could possibly revisit where things are at once school is done (both in our first year at university) Since the breakup ive done a lot of self improving. working out, focusing on my academic future, spending time with friends and doing a lot of emotional growth. i feel more ready to enter a relationship again but dont know where hes at. i cant help but hope he will want to try again in summer when stresses of school are gone. we both live in the same small town so it would be easy to see eachother more. i dont want to wait around for him to reach out but im scared he wont have changed his mind by then. what do you think i should do?
@kindsummer2897
I would let him come to you if he's ready. Smile and wave but let him make the first move.
@DavidEss
What if we
@kindsummer2897
He's the man. And if you make the first move you will never be sure.
Limit your approach to smiling and waving. That's OK.
Just my opinion.
@DavidEss
i don
@kindsummer2897
Well, you're right, it shouldn't really matter.
Good luck in whatever you decide.
@kindsummer2897
hi, i recently went through a breakup a little over a month ago. they broke up with me and it was due to both of our mental health. (So in their mind they had valid reason for breaking up with you) they wanted to work on themselves before being in a relationship and a lot of our personal stuff caused us to argue a lot. (They chose to breakup instead of working out a way to communicate without arguing) no cheating or falling out of love happened just a lot of stress with ourselves personally. they told me we could possibly revisit (So here they kept the door open for a possible future relationship) where things are at once school is done (This is them setting a timeline for when they might consider a relationship, again unilaterally without consideration for your feelings or thoughts) (both in our first year at university) Since the breakup i