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How to handle my boyfriend’s depression?
Relationship Stress / by kviiiie
Last post
 March 20th, 2024
...See more Last night my boyfriend got horrible news. He owns a small business with two of his friends that is struggling a lot right now, and his friends are tired and want to file for bankruptcy. The problem is, those friends have families and other ways to be supported, while my boyfriend has been on his own since he was 14 (abusive family). He’s falling into a deep depression and I have absolutely no idea what to do. I can’t be there for him 24/7 (I go to school 45 minutes away from him and am currently in my hometown 3 hours away for spring break). He asked me to move in with him to help with finances but my parents help me with rent and aren’t on board with that and that’s also causing him to spiral a little bit. I literally feel sick to my stomach right now because I’ve been crying all day. I’m at a loss for how to help him and I’m afraid if he slips deeper into depression he won’t do things he needs to do like look for a new apartment, job, etc.
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trying to break up but he keeps stopping me
Relationship Stress / by kviiiie
Last post
 October 27th, 2022
...See more I’ve been a sort of relationship with this guy for over a year now. For context, I’m 20 (F), he’s 29 and I tried to break things off with him once before because it was clear that all he wanted me for was sex since he never made any effort to see me except when he wanted sex. We only saw each other every couple months or so because he lives about 2 hours away from me and we are both in school. I also suspected that he has a girlfriend, but I have no way of proving that. every time I would get frustrated with him he would have an excuse or comeback and I wouldn’t know how to handle it, and this includes when I tried to break up with him the first time. He convinced me to just take a break for the summer since we were both busy and I would be all the way across the state. I thought that that was the end of it and he would forget about me to be honest but this august he texted me again wanting to see me again. I told him it wouldnt be the same but still caved and met up with him. Now I’m majorly regretting it. He tried texting me every 3 weeks or so with some excuse of why he hasn’t been talking to me and I think it’s solely so I’ll feel too bad to break up with him. This last week I got in a car accident and told him about it and he didn’t talk to me for a week before texting me again, not even checking up on me. I wanted to break up with him for sure this time but when he finally messaged me he had a story about how his dad was in the hospital and that’s why he was so quiet so I just couldn’t do it in case it was true. I’m not crazy right? He’s trying to manipulate me into staying? How do I get past that? I really don’t want to be with him anymore.
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Just need to rant I guess?
Depression Support / by kviiiie
Last post
 February 8th, 2021
...See more I’ll preface this by saying I haven’t been diagnosed with depression. But it sure does feel like I have some form of it. I don’t know if that’s a requirement for this section but I really didn’t know where else to post this so sorry if it’s in the wrong section haha. Ever since I started college I can’t seem to be happy about anything anymore. In august I started at a college I had initially fallen in love with. I actually made a thread before about how lonely I was there early on... it didn’t get much better from there. About 3 weeks in I realized how miserable I was there. I didn’t have any friends going there with me and covid made it 100x harder to meet people. There were some school things that upset me too, but most of my problems with that school had to do with loneliness. I talked to my parents about transferring and I did! I visited the campus of my new school and loved it, and this school has a really good music program (I’m majoring in music education). The first couple of weeks here were great. I have friends here that introduced me to other people, I’ve found an apartment for next year, and I’m doing well in my classes so far. Everything seems like it should be going fine but I just can’t seem to get happy and I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I still feel lonely a lot of the time, even though I have friends here. I also have a really busy schedule and am now taking private piano lessons with a professor that makes me feel like I don’t know anything even though I’ve been playing piano for 10 years. My voice teacher is also about 80 years old so I’m forced to do zoom voice lessons, which I know aren’t giving me everything I need to be a successful vocalist. On top of all of this, my friend is going through a really rough time with his parents and I’m scared for him. Finally, I made a mistake one night and now there’s a chance I could be pregnant... a very very VERY tiny chance, but I can’t get my mind off of it. I have no idea what to do. I know I’m letting all this stuff pile up on me and make me feel worse about it all but I don’t know how to let it all go. I’m just tired.
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Struggling to make friends in college
Depression Support / by kviiiie
Last post
 November 7th, 2022
...See more I feel like this may be kind of silly because I just moved in 3 days ago, but I just feel really lonely at college. My roommate is super nice and she even added me onto a groupchat with some others in our dorm but I haven
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