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lakotalacole
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past trauma
Relationship Stress / by lakotalacole
Last post
 December 1st, 2022
...See more hi i’m lakota (18 f) and i’ve had a horrible dating history , and no matter what i do i can’t see to get over the traumas that came come from past relationships . they always come back and bleed into my current relationships and it’s like self sabotage type thing . i’m in my dream relationship and i don’t want to mess up bc of the past , he and i deserve so much better than that , i really don’t know what to do , any advice ?
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insecure ig
Relationship Stress / by lakotalacole
Last post
 December 1st, 2022
...See more hi i’m lakota (18 f) and well i’ve struggled with things in my relationships like codependency , starting fights , getting mad or sad when falling in love and i’ve done research and it all came down to insecurities and security . it feel likes i can’t keep a relationship and ik the type to love unconditionally and do everything to keep that person and i’m so tired of it i’m finally in my dream relationship and i want things to be different i want it to be a healthy and happy relationship i just don’t know how , ik this all over the place but i just need help i can’t express anything it just sucks , any advice ?
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body count
Relationship Stress / by lakotalacole
Last post
 January 13th, 2023
...See more i’m 18 (female) with a body count of 6 , and i hate myself bc of it . i’m scared i won’t be desirable for a long time relationship . *back story* i got in my first relationship at 17 and a 19 year old and when i lost my virginity it wasn’t consensual but at the time i count even remember how it happened and that rape count happen in relationships and well fast forward to after the break up . i wasn’t okay the relationship was really abusive my whole life surrounded him and our relationship i was just so lost . i began moving on and well i count stop myself and i went from having a body count of 1 to 6 within months all bc i wanted those guys to love me :( and well i’m now with this amazing guy who cares ab me and i’m so in love with him, but i won’t admit bc my sexual pass i feel so ashamed of it . i wish i could take it all back i wish he would be first . (we haven’t had sex yet) i’m scared that if he knows my history he won’t want me , and i get physically sick bc of that thought . he has a history and a lot more mature and experienced than me , and i personally don’t care ab that . maybe i’m overthinking and insecure i just feel like i’m gross and easy . i just need advice :)
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my bf made few disrespected
Relationship Stress / by lakotalacole
Last post
 January 19th, 2022
...See more my bf watches porn and i feel like that’s emotionally and mentally cheating bc ur doing yk to another girl and thinking about that girl and watching girls that look nothing like ur gf i’m just at a lost of woods pls help
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