insecure ig
hi i’m lakota (18 f) and well i’ve struggled with things in my relationships like codependency , starting fights , getting mad or sad when falling in love and i’ve done research and it all came down to insecurities and security . it feel likes i can’t keep a relationship and ik the type to love unconditionally and do everything to keep that person and i’m so tired of it i’m finally in my dream relationship and i want things to be different i want it to be a healthy and happy relationship i just don’t know how , ik this all over the place but i just need help i can’t express anything it just sucks , any advice ?
@lakotalacole your past can't magically disappear. You will get recurring thoughts. Plus perfections is an illusion. It's great that you have a wonderful new relation but don't worry so much about it not being perfect. You have to be yourself and you will build happy memories together even if you're not fully healed.
@lakotalacole
each relationship is different and IMO....... NO one knows how to make everything happy and healthy all the time in a relationship.
You do know yourself and if you do things that will be harmful to relationship but there is no magic steps that others know and you have not seen or learned ........ we all are just trying our best. there is no perfection in life that is an illusion