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looking to receive advice for my relationship and to better my health ♡

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Am I in the wrong?
Relationship Stress / by lilypad06
Last post
 August 10th, 2023
...See more So update on my boyfriend wanting space, I regrettably messaged him I missed him today and I felt super guilty for giving him updates today. He came home and said he doesn’t feel any better, said he’s feeling worse and we are fighting. He said I don’t love him and I never comfort him. He feels numb and his inner child isn’t protected by me anymore. He feels betrayed and utterly broken because I gave him a solution of leaving his job when all he does is tell me how tiring and breaking and mentally challenging his job is. He said I ruined his night, his sleep, and I tried to explain my feelings to him but I feel like he keeps twisting my words. He won’t listen to me and I know I have to understand him and listen to him and feel his pain. He took off our matching bracelet and said he will most likely break up with me. I don’t know what to do. I’m going to explain how I feel and let it run it’s corse I suppose. I feel so lost and tired. It’s so demeaning to hear from him that I supposedly don’t love and care for him just because I gave him a solution after being denied all week. sorry guys, thanks:(
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He wants space..?
Relationship Stress / by lilypad06
Last post
 August 8th, 2023
...See more So I made a post like two days ago and kept it very brief. my boyfriend of two years decided yesterday that he doesn’t want to have the boyfriend role for a little while after experiencing an event that made him uncomfortable in public. He said I’m very draining and overwhelming and he even said he started to question whether or not he should settle for me. I’m into very soft aesthetics and he’s super into hardcore goth. So he was wondering if he should find someone that dresses like him and not “simple and boring” like me. I wanted to add more context to my other post, I want to get out of my relationship but I feel trapped. I feel unsafe during our fights. He was the sweetest guy and I suppose love bombed me for two months and then randomly dropped everything. He then classified me as his therapist and all we ever talk about is his emotions. Again, he is super sweet for two days and he will send me gifts and make me coding surprises on his computer. So he isn’t terrible all the time, but it’s rare to see him all lovey. We often fight because I never talk about mine, but he has never created a safe space for me to talk about them. He often told me I exploded or over explain. He says “I’m not good with words” or usually responds to a huge paragraph I send with “okay.” I really want to get out but I don’t know how to responsibly and maturely do it without causing a huge fight. He often swears at me and is aggressive when talking to me during them. I finally after two years realized that our relationship isn’t healthy and I just want some outside opinions on how to properly get out and keep myself safe. I know he’ll be very upset and block me on everything for the five thousandth time. I just need some guidance:( (this is the sprinkles of our relationship too, so much has happened)
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I don’t know what to do:(
Relationship Stress / by lilypad06
Last post
 August 7th, 2023
...See more for some context, me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. however I would like to point out this is a ldr, and he wants me to visit him this December. I don’t feel happy anymore and I don’t know how to tell him. He struggles with mental health, severely. I don’t want to hurt him, but he had hurt me so many times and I don’t have anything left to give. He’s my first boyfriend and I’m not really sure what to do or what to say, how to say, y’know? I want to be respectful and kind, but I know we will both be upset and most likely argue:(
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