Am I in the wrong?
So update on my boyfriend wanting space,
I regrettably messaged him I missed him today and I felt super guilty for giving him updates today. He came home and said he doesn’t feel any better, said he’s feeling worse and we are fighting. He said I don’t love him and I never comfort him. He feels numb and his inner child isn’t protected by me anymore. He feels betrayed and utterly broken because I gave him a solution of leaving his job when all he does is tell me how tiring and breaking and mentally challenging his job is.
He said I ruined his night, his sleep, and I tried to explain my feelings to him but I feel like he keeps twisting my words. He won’t listen to me and I know I have to understand him and listen to him and feel his pain. He took off our matching bracelet and said he will most likely break up with me. I don’t know what to do. I’m going to explain how I feel and let it run it’s corse I suppose. I feel so lost and tired. It’s so demeaning to hear from him that I supposedly don’t love and care for him just because I gave him a solution after being denied all week.
sorry guys, thanks:(
@lilypad06
It sounds like you're feeling lost and tired. I understand that you might be feeling guilty about reaching out to him and expressing your feelings but remember that you deserve to communicate your needs and emotions in a relationship. It's not fair for him to make you feel like you don't love or care for him just because you offered a potential solution or expressed your own concerns. In situations like these, it's important to have open and honest communication where you both can express your feelings and concerns without feeling judged or misunderstood. It's not healthy for a relationship to be one-sided, where your feelings and needs are consistently dismissed. Maybe take some time to reflect on the patterns and dynamics in your relationship. You deserve to be with someone who values and supports you
