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maddcatter
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts28 Forum posts9 Forum upvotes13 Current upvotes13 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2026 Member sinceAugust 15, 2020
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Looking for similar pen pal!
Pen Pals / by maddcatter
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 September 23rd, 2025
...See more Hello, I’m looking for a pen pal/friend to talk to about life and whatever else. Over 30 preferably. Currently dealing with anxiety, depression , relationship issues and paranoia. If anyone is interested message me
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I don’t know what’s going on…
Eating Disorder Support / by maddcatter
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 September 26th, 2025
...See more This may sound silly to some, and I am not intending to be insensitive by saying anything here. I just feel like I don’t know if I have some sort of eating disorder. I was much heavier this time last year, I started eating better, and whatever, and I lost some weight. But it got to the point of not eating much of anything, and now I’m skinnier than I’ve been since high school (i’m 30) and I’m just hating my body but this is what I wanted? I hope this makes sense. I don’t put eating first, I smoke a lot of cigarette’s and I feel like, I’m lost as far as my physical appearance.
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How to not hate everything about myself?
Self-Esteem / by maddcatter
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 November 5th, 2025
...See more I don’t know what my problem is, I can’t feel confident no matter how hard I try. I’m constantly thinking about all my flaws and how others see me; and it affects my day to day life. I know I’m not all around bad looking a bad person etc, but I just find myself comparing myself to everyone and thinking everyone is better than me in all aspects.
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I don’t know what to do…
Relationship Stress / by maddcatter
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 September 21st, 2025
...See more for the first time in my life, i am in a relationship where i really see a figure and really love and care for the person. i am also realizing how many toxic patterns and reflexes I have and I don’t know how to get better, but he’s getting sick of certain things and I don’t blame him. he was very patient for a while but it keeps happening and I keep saying I’ll change, and I want to more than anything but I don’t know what to do. I always think everyone is the problem, but as I’m getting older, I’m realizing the same thing happens in every relationship, and usually ends the same way, and always the same fights and arguments. It’s to a point where I need to own up to that I’m the problem and I want to fix it, I guess I’m just lost on what to do or where to start. Any advice is appreciated.
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