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peacesigngrl3
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Breakup during mental health issues
Relationship Stress / by peacesigngrl3
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 June 3rd, 2021
...See more Am I a bad person for ending relationship with my ex while he was struggling with depression? He said I deserved better on multiple occasions. He never had any motivation to do anything, go out on dates with me, out to eat etc. He slept/ looked at his phone a lot when we were together. But he always had motivation to be intimate at night, which I said no a lot and that annoyed him. He said I left when he could have “used” me the most and said I’d have to prove I’m worth getting back into a relationship with. His mom got all involved too and said they all still loved me and guessed I was doing the right thing for me. But then she went and unfriended me on social media. I feel so guilty. Maybe I should have stayed and things would have gotten better. I feel like I don’t deserve to be happy or to find love again. I honestly don’t feel like dating ever again either.
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Breakup from my boyfriend and his family
Relationship Stress / by peacesigngrl3
Last post
 April 3rd, 2021
...See more My long distance boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 months ago. I’ve really been struggling with it. We were together for almost 2 years. I thought I was going to marry him someday and I was close with his family, especially his parents. I’ve been trying to get him and his family out of my mind and my life but they always seem to make their way back in somehow. I got a text from his mom the other day saying “hey, I hope you’re doing well. I miss you.” It completely through off my day. Why did she contact me now? What provoked it? What was her motive? I have so much guilt and regret over the breakup. I just want things to go back to the way they were before.
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Breakup from boyfriend and his family
Relationship Stress / by peacesigngrl3
Last post
 April 22nd, 2021
...See more My long distance boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 months ago. I’ve really been struggling with it. We were together for almost 2 years. I thought I was going to marry him someday and I was close with his family. I’ve been trying to get him and his family out of my mind and my life but they always seem to work their way back in somehow. I got a text from his mom the other day after not hearing from her in almost 4 months. She said “hey, I hope you’re doing well. I miss you.” It completely threw off my day. I have so much guilt and regret. I just want things to go back to the way they were before.
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Having a difficult time with breakup-need advice
Relationship Stress / by peacesigngrl3
Last post
 March 26th, 2021
...See more I told my long distance boyfriend of almost 2 years that we should take a break. Whenever he was home for a visit, all we would do is hangout with his parents at their house and he either slept or looked at his phone when we were together. When I suggested the break, all he said was “I don’t know” and “I’m not sure”. He didn’t argue it. He was struggling with his mental health and stress with his job/health issues but I wasn’t helping him by just sitting there doing nothing. He had no motivation to do anything but, he had energy to go hunting/fishing with his dad or be intimate with me. I would usually say no considering I told him multiple times that I wasn’t comfortable doing that in his parents house (which annoyed him). He said that I left when he could have “used” me the most. I found out the break turned into a breakup by him changing his profile picture/ relationship status without even communicating with me. He said that he tried to text/call me a few days after the break, but I think he lied because I never got anything from him. I did receive texts from his mom trying to guilt trip me into staying. She said they all still loved me though but then unfriended me on social media. After a month of no contact, he told me that if we ever got back together, I would have to “prove that I’m worth getting back into a relationship with.” While I tried to communicate with him, I said that I loved, cared and hoped he finds what he’s looking for. All he said was thank you. The last words he said to me were “take care, have a good one.”
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Breakup
Relationship Stress / by peacesigngrl3
Last post
 February 14th, 2021
...See more I broke up with my ex boyfriend of a year and a half in December. We were in a long distance relationship and he’s been struggling with depression and some health issues. Every time we saw each other all we did was sit on the couch with his parents and watched tv or slept (might I add, when we did go out together, it was usually with his parents) He said he has no motivation to do anything or go anywhere. But then at night, he would want to be intimate with me and I would say no (he didn’t like that). He said I left him when he needed/wanted me the most and I got texts from his mom guilt tripping me to stay with him. Now I’m pretty sure his whole family hates me, some even unfriended me on Facebook. Was I a bad person for breaking up with him when he was going through a rough time but our relationship wasn’t going anywhere? I just didn’t know how to help him, especially if I’m here and he’s there. I feel like a terrible person and I’m having such a hard time getting over this and moving on.
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