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warmheartedPond7604
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Why is it so tough to move on?
Relationship Stress / by warmheartedPond7604
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...See more I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago. I initiated the break up because I was scared and didn't want to hurt her in future, idk what was going on in my mind. But then I started missing her, a lot. It's been a month, I cry at night, I can't focus on my work properly. Everything reminds me of her. I used to live 2hr away from her, but now it's just 20 mins, but I can never see her again. In every 1 2 days I feel like i'm getting over my break up, but then randomly something hits and i'm back at square 1. I think I really want her back but I'm not sure if she even has any feelings for me now. also I'm not sure if we have a permanent future together, It can be my lonelyness but I'm not sure. How to get over her? I can't live like this😭
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Weekend is my worst enemy while I try to move on
Relationship Stress / by warmheartedPond7604
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 2 days ago
...See more I had a breakup 3 months ago. And for the pas 1 month I was feeling very down because of this. I kept remembering her, and cried a lot alone. I liked her a lot but I don't think we still have a future together even if we got back, but still I miss her because of the lonelyness. I started feeling a little better. During weekdays because of work and office colleagues, It was a lot better. But during weekend, I'm alone and I kept remembering her. I used to spend all weekend with her. I was with her since friday afternoon till sunday night, together all the time. I used to sleep at her place as she had a flat and I was living in a hostel. I used to live 1.5hr from her house, now i just live 15 mins away. This weekend i just kept remembering the things we used to do together. Meeting after the whole week, happy and exited to see each other, watch a movie together, go out for dinner, all the cuddles etc. I started feeling like whatever progress I thought i had on moving on was just fake and this weekend feels just like the 1st one after the breakup. I miss her too much but I don't want to text her and then make her go through this again.
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How to let go?
Relationship Stress / by warmheartedPond7604
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 2 hours ago
...See more I had a really nice but short relationship, i loved her, i loved me. We never fought. It was never toxic, we both were considerate and deeply cared for each other. But then for some reason i thought it might not work. Just a gut feeling, and i didn't want to hurt her in future which would have been worse. So i initiated a break up. This happened 2 months ago, but then after some time i started missing her, and started feeling lonely, started crying. So i texted her, as i wanted to patch up things. We talked the whole night. Really great chat, but then she told me she's going out with a guy and she likes him. Then the memories kept getting more frequent. I feel lonely and down all the time. It's affecting everything. I love her and just wants her to be happy and for that I have to move on because I think i'll just be a hurdle in her life now. I have done enough damage. I don't want to make it worse for both of us, but i cannot stop remembering her. Everything reminds me of her, i really wish i had given it some more time. I know i' the wrong guy here. I just wish she get what she deserves and she definitely deserves someone better than me, someone who loves her, misses her like i'm doing it right now but with her. How to move on? How to let go of her?
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