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Weekend is my worst enemy while I try to move on

I had a breakup 3 months ago. And for the pas 1 month I was feeling very down because of this. I kept remembering her, and cried a lot alone. I liked her a lot but I don't think we still have a future together even if we got back, but still I miss her because of the lonelyness. I started feeling a little better. During weekdays because of work and office colleagues, It was a lot better. But during weekend, I'm alone and I kept remembering her. I used to spend all weekend with her. I was with her since friday afternoon till sunday night, together all the time. I used to sleep at her place as she had a flat and I was living in a hostel. I used to live 1.5hr from her house, now i just live 15 mins away. This weekend i just kept remembering the things we used to do together. Meeting after the whole week, happy and exited to see each other, watch a movie together, go out for dinner, all the cuddles etc. I started feeling like whatever progress I thought i had on moving on was just fake and this weekend feels just like the 1st one after the breakup. I miss her too much but I don't want to text her and then make her go through this again.

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User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree 2 days ago

@warmheartedPond7604

Thanks for sharing with us.. 

When we go through a breakup we have extra time in our schedules all of a sudden and often we start to miss our past relationship. 

Sometimes we get in this type of situation and we remember the good times and think about "what ifs." Like What if I did this or that she wouldn't have left me and she would be back in my life again. 

It's unfortunate but every relationship or friendship may not last and we're forced to practice acceptance..

Good luck 🌲