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zedbee1
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Lack of libido/ intimacy
Relationship Stress / by zedbee1
Last post
 September 1st, 2023
...See more Hello! Bit if a vent/ reach out For context- I have Pcos and I am on the pill so might just be hormonal however. Me and my partner haven't had sex in around 5 months, we usually have it every 2 months however I find myself feeling more comfo woth self pleasuring at the moment. At first I thought it was just myself feeling uncomfortable being naked in my own body w someone else bc I gained some weight and started to dislike myself but got confident again (ish) First time we slept together and a few times after that were great but the last maybe 2 times I wasn't as into it and I find myself being a bit off woth sex after that. He's doffrent from other guys I've slept with size wise and I find myself not being completely satisfied w sex alone. We've kinda spoke about it but not tried again since as none of us are up for it. I however feel guilty for not 'putting out' even though he hasn't said anything. However I also sense a lack of intimacy in general as we seem to be just like roomates right now rather than lovers. Any help or advice would be great
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Feeling blank
Relationship Stress / by zedbee1
Last post
 September 10th, 2022
...See more I moved in with my partner of 7 months due to my old flatmate leaving and my current partner couch surfing However, i feel as tho i have built a wall between us, sometimes i look at him and feel nothing However i have also been thinking about a past fling i had before i got with said partner all because i wished the dude a happy birthday For context this dude was essentially a hook up with some great and loving moments however at the time he was not emotionally able to "invest in a relationship" however we have been chatting as freinds and suddenly a bunch of feelings have came flooding back as hes told me hes going to therapy and getting over his apathy and his feelings of unavailability. I am so lost and confused because i feel guilty for looking my partner and feeling small doses of love bit never as full, some friends have said space could help but i am so exhausted because of my worry
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Relationship Stress / by zedbee1
Last post
 September 9th, 2022
...See more Me and my partner of 7months live together due to mitigating circumstances however more recently i am starting to feel nothing as if there is a wall between us, i suddenly have found myself thinking of past relationships and flings and how different things could really be, i had messaged a previous fling just to say happy birthday and that triggered all of this as if i miss the past fling, however i feel guilt anytime i want to move away from said partner I am unsure of what to do Do i call it quits? Do i move? I'm so lost
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