Numb
Me and my partner of 7months live together due to mitigating circumstances however more recently i am starting to feel nothing as if there is a wall between us, i suddenly have found myself thinking of past relationships and flings and how different things could really be, i had messaged a previous fling just to say happy birthday and that triggered all of this as if i miss the past fling, however i feel guilt anytime i want to move away from said partner
I am unsure of what to do
Do i call it quits?
Do i move?
I'm so lost
wanting more of a connection and not a wall between you or even something special you had in another relationship is a common thing IMO......
relationships go through down times where things feel stagnant can be complicated by the minor irritations when living with someone .... many people wonder what if .........about previous flings or even someone you just meet etc.
i think too many people think guilt is because you still have feelings............ but in reality you may not want to hurt someone.
i have had guilt over leaving for example a job that really did not fit me........ but i needed to move on
in short examine your other feelings but doing things because guilt is not a good enough reason IMO
