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I am familiar with the trauma of emotional unavailability, narcississtic abuse and anxiety.🪾 I'll listen to you. I don't sugar-coat things. I don't judge.🩷 If you need a listener who says sweet hollow things only to create momentary relief and enable long -term unhelpful spirals, then I'm not the listener for you.🎈 I always call a spade a spade. I respect you enough to comfort you and not BS you.🤗

We all carry a story within us—one filled with laughter and tears, romance and tragedy, thrill, mystery, and poetry. As a humble human being, my wish is simple: to read from the pages of the stories shared with me, and perhaps be remembered as a comforting, happy chapter in a few of them.

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 We do not do schedule chats or chats when we're offline, sorry! This means that we ONLY accept personal requests when we're online, and general requests when we have time. Hello, we are the Abyssal Collective, a fully endogenic (spirigenic specifically) system. We are also a gateway system, so we have a lot of walk-ins. We are primarily made up of real deities/entities. We will try to keep our status updated to show who is fronting and who you are speaking to.  We are quite a large system, with over 200 headmates!  While we do have Dissociative Disorders checked as a topic we have lived experience with, we are NOT a disordered system. However, because we are a system, we do still have lived experience to help other systems here. We are accepting of all systems regardless of origin! 

Hi, I'm glad you have found me here on 7 cups. I'm so sorry you are going through a difficult time but as my name suggests, I am here to listen to you. I can't promise to know all the answers, but I CAN promise that I care, I hear you & there will be no judgement on my part. Though I am unable to be a long term listener, if I am online I would be delighted to hear from you & offer up to one hour 1-1 time. *Unfortunately I am unable to reply to messages due to my schedule, & can only take chat requests when displayed as online thanks for understanding!* Hope to speak to you soon 😊      

I love interacting with people & will be very happy helping people deal with discomfort they are facing. I feel, talking to someone anonyms helps you open up to your issues & you get new perspective for your problems. I feel, mental health is more important than physical health & talking to someone definitely helps to improve your mental stability & can guide you in your decision making. (Dear Members, I work full time so my replies can be delayed at times but I do try to reply as early as I can. Also I generally don't take any 1-1 chats on weekends. Thanks for your understanding) My forum posts on 7cups: * * https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/PositiveMessagesReminders_2231/BlockingReportingVsLettingitgo_276622/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/PositiveMessagesReminders_2231/BlockingReportingVsLettingitgo_276622/] * https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerResourcesMockChatGuides_2381/AskingforReviewsFeedbackvsleavingtomemberstodecidewhethertheywanttoleavereview_257386/

Hi there! Thank you for dropping by. I am Hope, I oversee 7 Cups Academy. Please expect a response time of 2-3 working days.

(not taking any new chats currently) 🌸I'm so happy to have you here with me today! 🌸 Hi there! I'm Rainy Memory. ❤️ And I'm a verified listener, who loves to help others! I'll do my best to make you feel heard, understood, and cared for in our chats. You're already taking the first huge step by reaching out, and I'm so proud of you for that! 🌟 My chats are a safe, non-judgmental space, where we can talk about your problems freely like you're talking with a friend.  You're not alone. I'm always here for you. And you can talk to me about anything that's on your mind, even if it's just random thoughts! 😊❤️ I've experienced some issues in my life as well— especially depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, student life and family issues. So I'll do my best to empathize with you and what you're going through, and put myself in your shoes. That goes for any topic we're talking about, even if it's not the mentioned above. ☺️ I can usually talk for one hour, and then we can continue our chat the next day.  I strictly don't take any chats which are inappropriate or are sexual in nature.  Some fun facts about me: I love watching cartoons, learning about the human mind and behaviours, psychology and sociology. A way I cheer myself up is by writing down what I'm grateful for, what I like about my life and about myself, and also by drawing using soft, pastel colours. I also love hearing about other people's days, their struggles, achievements, goals, hobbies, what they're passionate about, or anything else. 😊 If you've read it this far, yay!! Here's a huge hug for you!! 💕💕💞 I would love to listen to you! Feel free to message me anytime! And if I'm offline, I'll reply as soon as possible. ❤️❤️ You deserve the best things in the world! Take care! And I hope you have a wonderful day!! 😄🌻🌈🌸 

Hi there, this is NovaGalaxy, a friendly listener, I’m slowly coming back to 7cups, it may take a while to settle back in.  A small reminder: I am a human who is chronically ill, it may take a bit of time to answer, therefore I cannot offer Live chats as it is very draining on myself. But don't be afraid to message me, I will respond at some point.  NovaGalaxy is also open to casual conversations Adult Teen Listener. I am 20.  I’m also trans 🏳️‍⚧️ and is a system I also understand a little bit of German and Spanish, not the most, but I am learning those two languages.

Currently I am not accepting chat requests. My health is more of a concern at the moment. Sorry for any inconvenience. I only accept chats from adults only. Anyone under the age of 18 will be blocked. Just don't ask questions if you want certain answers. I feel giving false hope is just as bad as lying. I am not the best with relationship advice but I can provide support in a wide range of other subjects. I have traveled a lot, and seen a lot of the world. Idk, give me a try and see what happens. I am here to ask the hard questions to get you thinking about your problem.

I'm currently on break and won't be able to receive new messages. I hope to be back soon :) Hi, I'm Oriya, nice to meet you 😊 *Honestly? I don't promise to be a perfect listener and always say the right word, but I promise to try to make you end the conversation feeling better. *I would be happy if you tell me at the beginning of the conversation what you expect from this conversation. Do you want me to just listen or also ask questions? I'm with you in whatever you choose. *I know basic English, sometimes I use a translator. I hope there will be no delays in answers. I try to respond as quickly as possible and appreciate your time. And now you're probably wondering why I chose to be a listener at 7 Cups? :) *I've been through a lot in my life. I don't remember almost a moment of silence. No, and I wouldn't say I've grown. I've become stronger. I truly believe that it's okay to say it's hard. It's okay not to think. It's okay to feel bad. *I believe that every person deserves to be truly listened to, without judging him/her. Without advising him/her or correcting him/her. Without doubting him/her too much. Just let him/her choose the pace. I am not a doctor. I am a person like you who is going through things and I want to do you a little good because if you feel good, I will feel good because of you. The conversation with me is up to 60 minutes. Suitable for topics: family stress, grief, post-traumatic stress, anxiety, domestic violence. I am waiting to talk to you. Take your time without pressure. I am not judging you. I am proud of you for having the courage to come and share and hope we will have a good conversation together.❤ I really like constructive criticism so don't hesitate to give it. I really want to improve my listening skills. Thank you very much :)