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Hi there! Thank you for dropping by. I am Hope, I oversee 7 Cups Academy. Please expect a response time of 2-3 working days.

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New Internship Mentors Oct 2026
7 Cups Academy / by Hope
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22 hours ago
...See more Hi everyone! I hope you’re all doing well!  I’m excited to share that we have two new mentors joining our Internship Program! We’re happy to welcome these new additions to the Academy leadership team. Both of these community members have been consistently showing up, supporting trainees and interns, and contributing to the community. We appreciate the time and effort they’ve put in, and we’re looking forward to seeing them take on a bigger role in helping others learn and grow throughout the program. Please join me in congratulating our newest Academy mentors: @6Dreamwish9 @Diinnaa Welcome to the team! We’re excited to have you both on board! 💙
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Stop Maximizing, Start Living: Why "Good Enough" Beats Perfect
Site Updates / by Hope
Last post
October 13th
...See more Hi everyone! this post catches concepts that I find to be quite valuable and relevant, and I feel like they make the most sense when combined together. I've tried to make those connections, and this is sort of a melting pot of many different thoughts that really bring home the idea. So stay with me, really read through the post, and pace yourself. If you actually apply the activity at the end and really internalize the idea, it can save your most valuable resource in life: time. Your most valuable asset is also the most perishable!  We often spend days, weeks, or even years trying to engineer the perfect decision. We analyze every variable, weigh every outcome, and wait for absolute certainty before taking a single step forward. What we fail to realize in this state of endless deliberation is simple: our most valuable possession isn’t money, energy, ego, it is time!  When you wait for 100% certainty, you aren't being cautious; you are paying for an illusion with your most finite resource. By the time absolute certainty arrives, the window of opportunity has usually closed. Indecision feels like safety, but in reality, indecision is a decision. It is the choice to let time pass you by while you sit on the sidelines of your own life. In fact, refusing to make a decision is often the worst choice of all because you completely surrender control of the outcome. "People are frugal in guarding their personal property; but as soon as it comes to squandering time they are most wasteful of the one thing in which it is right to be stingy." — Seneca "It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a lot of it." — Seneca Why We Delay: Ego and the Safety of Potential If we look closely, our hesitation is rarely about a lack of information. Most of the time, we know exactly what we need to do, but we get trapped by ego and fear: * Fear of criticism: We become so terrified of being humiliated or making a mistake that we choose inaction over discomfort, fearing the opinions of people whose lives we wouldn't even want. * The comfort of unfulfilled potential: Procrastination keeps the dream alive in its pristine form. If you always wanted to write a book but never put in the work, the illusion remains that you would have made it if you tried. The mind often prefers the easy comfort of infinite possibilities over the messy reality that things might not work out as envisioned. Yet doing something imperfectly beats doing nothing every time. If you spend months overwhelmed by which diet or routine to choose and do nothing, you stay at zero. Picking any credible, widely available plan and executing it will get you 70% of the results, which is infinitely better than 0%. The 40/70 Rule and Moving Forward In life, whether you are choosing a career path, a degree, a major life direction, or a personal goal, there are infinite possible variations of how your story could unfold. There is no single "perfect" trajectory waiting to be unlocked through overthinking. You cannot outthink an experience you haven't lived through. Instead of waiting for complete clarity, aim for the sweet spot: make your move when you have between 40% and 70% of the information. * Less than 40% and you are moving blindly. * More than 70% and you are moving too slowly. Action brings the clarity that thought never can. When you make a "good enough" decision and execute it quickly, you enter the real world of feedback and growth. "In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing." — Theodore Roosevelt Satisficing Over Maximizing Psychology highlights a clear distinction between two mindsets: Maximizers, who exhaust themselves trying to find the absolute best option, and Satisficers, who choose an option that meets their high standards and then move forward. Research consistently shows that Satisficers are significantly happier, less stressed, and more productive. Why? Because they understand that a good decision made today and acted upon vigorously is infinitely better than a "perfect" decision that never leaves your head. If you spend your life terrified of making the wrong choice, you end up making no choice at all—and that is how people inadvertently settle for a stagnant life. "Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action." — Benjamin Disraeli Setbacks Are Just Data What about when a decision leads to a mistake or a setback? Accept it as a routine part of the process. A setback is not a failure; it is simply new data to inform your next choice. The person who makes ten quick decisions, fails at three, learns, and adjusts will always be miles ahead of the person still sitting at the starting line, trying to guarantee success on their first try. You do not need to see the entire staircase to take the first step. Trust that the version of you who has to deal with the consequences will step up when the time comes, adapt, and make it through. Key Takeaways!  * Treat time as your primary currency: Overanalyzing costs more than making a fixable mistake. * Recognize passivity as a choice: Refusing to decide hands over your control of the outcome. * Stop protecting potential: Facing an imperfect reality is far more powerful than hiding behind a comfortable "what if." * Act on partial information: 40% to 70% clarity is all you need to make an educated move. * Embrace the "good enough": Satisficing leads to progress and peace of mind; perfectionism leads to paralysis. Activity for you! * Identify the Stalled Decision: Write down one choice you’ve been delaying or overthinking this past month (e.g., reaching out to someone, launching a project, choosing a routine, or applying for something). * Check Your Information Gauge: Do you know at least 40% of what you need to know to take the next step? * The 10-Minute Move: If yes, spend 10 minutes right now taking the smallest tangible step forward send the email, submit the draft, buy the basic equipment, or sign up. * Release the Ideal: Remind yourself that a 70% outcome in reality beats a 100% fantasy in your head.
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Tulip Awardees October 2026
Positivity & Gratitude / by Hope
Last post
October 15th
...See more Hi everyone! Hope you’re doing well. It’s time to announce our latest Tulip Awardees 🌷 What is this award for? The Tulip Award recognizes listeners who provide consistent, long-term support to members across PMs, forums, or chatrooms. This award is based on meaningful, ongoing engagement rather than one-time interactions, highlighting listeners who show up over time and make a real difference. How nominations work * Only members can nominate listeners * Each member can nominate up to 3 listeners per month * A listener can be nominated again once a month if support continues <-- NEW (it used to be once every three months. This update has been introduced from this post) * Nominations now include a public appreciation message shared with the listener Who can be nominated? Listeners must have provided long-term support (minimum ~1 month) and must not be a newbie, ensuring the recognition reflects sustained engagement. ------------------------- 🌷 Are you a member? You can nominate a listener for the Tulip Award here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/u/0/d/1IPn8F9byw5JVFe7padOAfGoxi7E6PrrnV3ZVidk3z4o/preview] amiableTurtle2345 * An exceptional listener who is kind, patient, and genuinely caring. They create a safe space where I always feel heard and supported. Their empathy and thoughtful responses have made a real difference in my life. I’m incredibly grateful for their time and compassion and highly recommend them to anyone looking for understanding and encouragement. AnnaSilverberg * Anna has always took the time to listen n understand me even when iv been at my worst n they always try to help me understand myself n my emotions better by helping me see things in a different way. They have always been there for me n never given up on me n im real thankful we have Anna here on cups Serenesapphire01 * She was so kind and considerate and helped me. Great sense of humor. Despite her studies, she always took out time for me * Serene is soooo awesome. She's always been there for me and is the definition of compassionate, kind, understanding. I would recommend her to anyone GoldenRuleJG * Takes the time for you and is affirmative, and also flexible. neverendingCat6780 * He was always there for me when I needed. He helped me get through the bad times with his presence and empathy. He is kind and attentive, always careful with every word he says. He understands you as a person and values your emotions deeply. Genuinely, I am so appreciative of Cat. Thank you so much ❤️ 🙏 Hermionetps * she was really always there. Made me felt heard after a long time * Talking with Hermione was an absolute breath of fresh air. In a world where most people are just waiting for their turn to speak, Hermione possessed the rare gift of giving her undivided, genuine attention. When I spoke to her, I never felt rushed, judged, or dismissed. Instead, she created a safe and welcoming space through warm eye contact, thoughtful nods, and a calm, patient presence. What set her apart was that she didn’t just absorb words quietly like a sponge; she acted like a trampoline—amplifying my thoughts, asking insightful questions, and helping me arrive at my own clarity. Sharing that space and confiding in Hermione was a wonderful experience, and she truly set the gold standard for empathy and communication.  * wow she is absolutely the best listener i had. been here for quite some time. genuinely compassionate, patient, and incredibly understanding. She has a wonderful way of making you feel heard, respected, and completely comfortable being yourself. Her thoughtful responses and calm presence made the conversation feel meaningful and reassuring. You can truly tell that she cares about helping others. An outstanding listener who deserves the highest praise * she helped me with the new feelings of adoption of a girl and i felt great  * Hermione is hands down one of the absolute best listeners on the platform! She radiates so much warmth and positive energy that you instantly feel comfortable opening up to her. She is incredibly sweet, genuinely attentive, and creates a judgment-free space that leaves you feeling completely heard and validated. I went into our chat feeling down, but her wonderful support completely lifted my spirits and made me feel so much better. If you need a compassionate soul to talk to, look no further than Hermione—she is a true 5-star gem! cheerfulKiwi1776 * Kiwi is one of the most amazing people I have met. She has always been there for me, through the good and the bad, the best and the worst. Whenever I have a bad day, she listens patiently. When I share an accomplishment, she appreciates it vividly. She never fails to motivate, encourage, or comfort me. She makes me feel seen and heard each time we talk. Though she has innumerable responsibilities to fulfil for her uncountable roles on 7 cups, she always makes time for a chat. She never fails to reply to my messages, and she never just 'replies'. She always talks, listens, and understands. She doesn't listen like it's her job, she does it naturally like a friend would. I wish her the very best on her cups journey and I want her and everyone else to know she is one of a kind gem and we are lucky to have her with us! 💖✨  Luminity125 * Luminity is such a great person. She supported me so much when I needed it even if she had her own problems. She is a great asset here in 7 cups and we should be proud to have her here. She is such an amazing person. She has so many talents and she knows how to actually make you feel better. She understands you and never makes you feel bad. ✨️ She has an amazing personality and she is a lovely person🤍. I want to let her know that her efforts are enough and that whatever she puts her mind into, she can achieve. She is strong, clever and trustworthy! I loved our communication! I truly suggest her to everyone and I hope she has a great life ahead of her because she deserves it! Take care luminity and thanks for supporting me🫂 * Lumi is one of the best listeners ever, so kind, thoughtful and compassionate. She was always there for me and is an awesome listener. Always so understanding and thoughtful Ivy229 * Went above and beyond, listening during a multi-day power outage using a limited data cell phone for our chat and wouldn't cancel, saying it was important to support the members! Wow! How rare and wonderful! Listener makes me feel heard, understood, and it's nice to have someone on my side. I appreciate our time together! MentalHealthMatters01 * She has really been there for me for a while when it comes to me battling loneliness and negativity in my life. I also appreciate how patient she is with my very chatty nature hahaha. Wish every listener was as awesome as her (: Areine * Always there to listen and also provides amazing help and support back. They allow me to take my time. I have a lot in struggling with and they help a lot ArchishaCares * She's a lovely listener who listens with an open heart. Extremely empathetic and warm. Cenatra  * It's difficult, in this world, to find people who are genuinely compassionate and caring, and beyond that -people that don't give up on you when things get hard. This listener is patient, knowledgeable, empathetic, consistent, grounded, warm, and overall a good human. I'm sure they'll go far in life, but they chose to spend their spare time reaching out to people at the edge of a cliff. I personally, am grateful to have him in my corner and wouldn't be here today without the support and kindness he has shown me. It seems like he's helped a lot of people here, and deserved every bit of acknowledgement for it. PipoPositive  * When I first had a conversation with her, I genuinely felt I was being heard. She was so soft towards me. She didn't make me feel bad about my personal stuff instead she gave me insights. She helped me to look differently. We had multiple chats and she always prioritised me. Whether it was her being busy or different timezone, she never said no to me. This quality is hard to find and it's really rare in this time. So, I deeply appreciate her for that. Thus, I want to nominate her for a Tulip Award 🌷. Hey Pipo, you deserve it! ❤️ Robin007 * He is a good motivator. It was in my initial days on this platform that he supported me and guided me on how I need to use the platform. I was overwhelmed with a lot of things. Robin made the journey easier ...  NewbWanderer * An incredibly gifted listener. He will offer you compassion, a safe space, questions to ponder over, and everything you need. He's a whole package. I couldn't thank him enough for being with me through it all. TheObsidianWhisper * Talking with Obsidian has been one of the most uplifting experiences I’ve had on 7Cups. He is incredibly empathetic, patient, and genuinely caring. Every time we spoke, I felt heard, respected, and supported without judgment. His kindness and understanding created a safe space where I could open up freely. He doesn’t just listen he makes you feel valued and reminds you that you’re not alone. I’m deeply grateful for his time and dedication, and I would recommend him to anyone seeking comfort and encouragement. Truly he's an amazing listener who deserves all the stars. Congratulations! amiableTurtle2345 🌷 AnnaSilverberg 🌷 serenesapphire01 🌷🌷 GoldenRuleJG 🌷 neverendingCat6780 🌷 hermionetps 🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷 cheerfulKiwi1776 🌷 Luminity125 🌷🌷 Ivy229 🌷 MentalHealthMatters01 🌷 Areine 🌷 ArchishaCares 🌷 Cenatra 🌷 PipoPositive 🌷 Robin007 🌷 NewbWanderer 🌷 TheObsidianWhisper 🌷 @amiableTurtle2345 @AnnaSilverberg @serenesapphire01 @GoldenRuleJG @neverendingCat6780 @hermionetps @cheerfulKiwi1776 @Luminity125 @Ivy229 @MentalHealthMatters01 @Areine @ArchishaCares @Cenatra @PipoPositive @Robin007 @NewbWanderer @TheObsidianWhisper
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Academy Graduates: September 2026
7 Cups Academy / by Hope
Last post
October 9th
...See more Hi everyone! Hope you’ve been doing well.This post recognizes everyone who graduated in September. If you have graduated and are not included here, it means your graduation was processed in October and will be announced in next month’s post. Completing any course or program takes real consistency and commitment, and that effort deserves to be acknowledged.At the same time, every graduation is also a team effort. From acceptance into a program to completing the final requirements, trainees are supported at different stages by members of the Academy Leadership Team, including Academy Mentors, Mentor Leaders, and Ambassadors. Whether that support is publicly visible or happens behind the scenes, everyone involved plays a part in helping trainees stay on track and reach graduation. The journey from acceptance to completion is shaped not only by the trainee’s own dedication, but also by the guidance and support they receive along the way.So today, we celebrate our September graduates and the consistency, commitment, and effort that brought them to this milestone. We also want to recognize the Academy Leadership Team members who contribute their time and support throughout these journeys. Congratulations to all our September graduates! 🎓 ------------------------- Programs Internship Graduates I More info here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyTeam_2313/7CupsInternshipProgram2024_325505/] @HealingAlien4444 @kindEmbrace4674 @yoursmileisasradientastheSun @LovelyAnnalise @ArtisticAngel999 @ListemerFatim @Fars79 @sereneMango2512 @dreamVision6650 @peacefulSoul5964 @6Dreamwish9 @mspretentious @Courageouslistener2026 Leadership Development Program I More info here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/AnnouncementsAppreciation_2121/LeadershipDevelopmentProgram2024_325615/] @Brightlynx77 @talktome610   Quality Listening Program I [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/AnnouncementsAppreciation_2121/LeadershipDevelopmentProgram2024_325615/]More info here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/QualityListeningProgram2024_325618/] @SimplyCompassionate @GoldenRuleJG @cuddlySugar1501 @Ednamius @GCares @ApplePie8587 ------------------------- Courses Time Management I More info here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/7CupsAcademyTimeManagementCourse_280718/] @Fars79 @raspberrySpring29 @Sindhu03 @courageousListener2026 @Hermionetps @FriendlyDaisy003 @colorfulSpace @clairebear04 @YashasJourney @Cchar3 @SolaceBruno Community Building I More info here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/CommunityBuildingCourse_2308/CommunityBuildingCourse_291468/] @dreamVision6650 @courageousListener2026 @Justiny @peacefulSoul5964 @LovelyAnnalise @confidentSky59 @6Dreamwish9 @Fars79 @ListemerFatim @YashasJourney @Eph320 @mspretentious @ListenerIntern @eeemilyyy @FriendlyDaisy003 @colorfulSpace @clairebear04 @resourcefulVision3565 Inner Development Goals I More info here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/idg/General_2633/InnerDevelopmentGoalsCourse_318284/] @yuliiablossom @patientUnicorn3590 @6Dreamwish9 @courageousListener2026 @yoursmileisasradientastheSun Congratulations! @HealingAlien4444 @kindEmbrace4674 @yoursmileisasradientastheSun @LovelyAnnalise @ArtisticAngel999 @ListemerFatim @Fars79 @sereneMango2512 @dreamVision6650 @peacefulSoul5964 @6Dreamwish9 @mspretentious @Courageouslistener2026 @Brightlynx77 @talktome610 @SimplyCompassionate @GoldenRuleJG @cuddlySugar1501 @Ednamius @GCares @ApplePie8587 @Justiny @confidentSky59 @YashasJourney @Eph320 @ListenerIntern @eeemilyyy @FriendlyDaisy003 @colorfulSpace @clairebear04 @resourcefulVision3565 @raspberrySpring29 @Sindhu03 @Hermionetps @Cchar3 @SolaceBruno @yuliiablossom @patientUnicorn3590
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The Trap of "What If" (And Why the Past Couldn't Have Happened Any Other Way)
Site Updates / by Hope
Last post
October 10th
...See more Hi everyone! We have all been caught in the mental loop of a past mistake, a missed opportunity, or a project that went sideways. The brain immediately starts bargaining with reality: "If I had just spoken up earlier..." or "If I had only double-checked that file, this wouldn't have happened." But there is a difficult, surprisingly stabilizing truth about the past: it was never optional. Consider this quote from Marcus Aurelius: * “Whatever happens to you has been waiting to happen since the beginning of time. The twining strands of fate linked your existence and the occurrence together from the start.” A similar idea is captured by Alberto Barajas in How to Stop Worrying and Start Living: * “It is so for it can’t be otherwise.” What both thinkers point to is the structural reality of cause and effect. Once something has happened, it could not have unfolded in any other way given the exact chain of circumstances, decisions, knowledge, and variables that led up to it. The Illusion of the Alternate Timeline A lot of our mental suffering comes from a psychological glitch called hindsight bias. We look back at a situation holding the knowledge we gained after the event, and we use that future knowledge to judge our past selves. We tell ourselves we should have known better, creating the illusion that a different outcome was actually on the table. But the past is not a set of open possibilities. It is a fixed sequence that has already played out. You made the decision based on the exact mental state, context, and information available at that exact second. This isn't just an abstract philosophical concept. It aligns directly with the Islamic understanding of Qadr (Divine decree). Whatever has occurred was decreed in accordance with divine wisdom. There is a well-known Prophetic tradition that states: “Know that what has passed you by was not going to befall you, and that what has befallen you was not going to pass you by.”  Reference: Jami’ at-Tirmidhi Hadith 2516 (part of a longer hadith) Across different traditions and languages, the underlying principle is identical: reality unfolds as it is meant to within its system. Accepting this is not a sign of cold detachment, but a quiet recognition of reality. Acceptance is Not Passivity: The "Next Play" Mentality It is easy to misread this as fatalism, the idea that if the past was fixed, our actions do not matter. But accepting that the past couldn't have happened otherwise is actually the ultimate tool for high performance. In sports psychology, legendary basketball coach Mike Krzyzewski drilled a two-word phrase into his players after every mistake: "Next play." When an athlete turns the ball over, that event instantly becomes fixed history. If they spend three seconds holding their head in frustration, they fail to get back on defense, and the opponent scores an easy basket. That is the Double Penalty: * The First Penalty: The original mistake (which unfolded according to its causes). * The Second Penalty: The extra damage caused by being mentally absent for the next moment because you were busy mourning the past. When you run a mental simulation of "If only I had...", you are split-tasking. You are spending a chunk of your current cognitive bandwidth on an outcome that no longer exists, leaving you with less energy to navigate what is right in front of you. Releasing the past is not about throwing your hands up in surrender. It is about recovering 100% of your bandwidth for the present moment. Putting It Into Action: Moving From "Rewriting" to "Executing" Instead of getting stuck in the trap of rewriting what has already happened, try applying a simple two-question filter the next time a project hits a snag or a mistake is made: 1. "What are the facts of the current board?" Strip away the judgment, guilt, and alternate timelines. State only what is physically true right now. Not: "I ruined the client meeting because I did not prepare enough." Instead: "The meeting did not go well, the client expressed concerns about the timeline, and the revised deadline is Friday." 2. "Given where the board stands, what is the next play?" The past is closed. The current board is all you have. What is the single most effective action required right now to move forward? By separating the cause (which is done) from the response (which is open), you stop wasting energy on blame and instantly pivot back into agency. Over to You We often think of resilience as a massive, heroic trait. But real resilience is usually much quieter. It is simply the ability to drop the dead weight of "what should have been" and respond cleanly to "what is." * Where in your current work or life are you paying a "Second Penalty" by dwelling on an outcome that is already fixed? * What would it look like to call "Next Play" on that situation today? Let's discuss in the comments below.
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Life, As It Is (Reflections) - Sep 2026 and onwards
Site Updates / by Hope
Last post
2 days ago
...See more Hi everyone, I hope you’ve been well. Life, however you look at it, is not easy. It’s demanding, unpredictable, and often doesn’t go the way we plan. It can also feel isolating at times, like you’re the only one dealing with certain challenges, or like you’re stuck in patterns of thinking that don’t really help. But if you look into philosophy, psychology, or even religious and spiritual traditions, you’ll notice something consistent. People have been dealing with the same kinds of struggles for a very long time. And over time, they’ve developed different ways of understanding and handling those realities. Just adding a bit of context to this thread. I usually share a reflection every Monday and Friday with the admin team. There’s no fixed theme. The idea is simply to revisit useful ways of thinking about life, often drawn from people who have spent time studying it deeply or have navigated it well. Most of these lean optimistic, but not in a surface-level way. More in the sense of helping make peace with challenges, uncertainty, and the limits of our control, and finding ways to think about them that are a bit more steady. I’ll try to post these here as well. You can subscribe to the thread if you’d like to get notified when I add a new reflection. Expect about one or two posts per week. Feel free to respond, add your own thoughts, or just read quietly. And you can ignore it entirely too. Just putting it out there in case it’s useful to anyone.
Feedback & Reviews
Hope has some magical charms that lighten up chatrooms and they are always there, patient and understanding when you needs them. Can't thank them enough
Hope is one of the best mods out there and is a really wonderful person
Really very good helper
Exceptional listener
Hope is very helpful and it is always easy to reach her. She responds timely to questions, also her academy projects are all interesting, I would like to join.
amazing listener
Truly an amazing listener. She was emphatic, understanding, and very very validating. I think the chat went amazing! Thank you, Hope 💕
She's UH May Zing!! 😂
Hope is thoughtful and understanding of others. I appreciate the volunteer work that she does here.
hope is really nice i like the way she runs cups and if we have a problem she will answer them right aways she makes cups a happy place
Hope was the best listener I have ever talked to in 7Cups. She is really helping me.
Her name say it all, You are amazing Hope
She empathized with my problems really well, typed quickly, said the right words, and gave me a nice idea to implement. Thank you, Essie!
Best listener. Very caring and empathetic. One in a million personality!
You are always kind, sweet and compassionate..I’m so grateful for your help and support. I hope I can help someone else in the future like you've helped me :)
Replied to messages with care and compassion, and made me feel heard, understood and validated as a person. Thank you, very much
Thank you for talking to me and keeping me distracted. It was very nice to talk to you. You are a very nice person. take care
Awesome listener! Thank you for listening to me and using great empathy! I wonder what corn, pineapple and mashed cauliflower would make :p I dunno. But I'd cook you a nice meal 🥘 cause you're sweet and kind to me.
Wow, this listener was something amazing! I was very concerned about my girlfriend but after talking with them, I feel more confident what I should do. They gave me brilliant knowledge how to react and act when your loved one has Eating Disorder and they calmed me down. Thank You so much!
Really helpful and kind. Thanks
Excellent listener. Truly cares
I feel slightly better than what I was before, I will definitely use this website again.
So Professional
Very empathetic person who knows what she is saying and tries to help you with your problem. I recommend her for everyone :)
Such a caring and sweet listener, genuinely cares :) one of the genuine listeners on here!
It was awesome to talk to Hope, I really enjoyed talking to her for 30 minutes, A great listener.
GREAT listener
You are one of the most incredible listeners I have ever met and not only helped me as a member, but gave me ideas on how I can improve as a fellow listener based on your conduct to me as a member. Thank you for everything you do. Keep shining ❤
EssenceOfHope is a super awesome listener and they helped me feel better when I was obsessing about some eating disorder stuffs
Perfect
An amazing listener
Have no words to describe how awesome you are. You care about what I'm going through. Thanks for the kind words and efforts taken to understand me. Thanks.
Hope is amazing. Very supportive.
lovely person!
Great experience
Thank you very much!
'An inspiring ray of hope’
There are two types of listeners, the first merely listen to your words and the second those who listen to your feelings as well as your words.
This inspiring listener falls in the second category. Didn't pry & helped me feel better. An intelligent, caring & empathetic listener.
Highly recommend & I'm glad I got a chance to speak to you.
Well done, you earned it.
Beauty of this soul lies deep within its soul.
There are two types of listeners, the first merely listen to your words and the second those who listen to your feelings as well as your words.
This listener falls in the second category. Very intelligent, caring & empathetic. Thanks for a pleasant chat.
Highly recommend this listener. Well done!
Best listener ever. Talks to the point, replies back quick and also checks up on you. Super caring, friendly and non judgemental. An excellent chat overall. Thanks for being there. Would like to talk to you again. Bless you.
You are the best listener! Such an amazing person! I am so happy to have met you. Excellent listener, Truly caring and intelligent. Thank you so much
A soul ? NO. A gem and a beautiful soul !!!An angelic, caring, special person, She is so kind and caring,, Smart, Wise, Understanding, I have no words, God's gift. :). I am so glad to have met this person and listener. They are great. unbelievable. Talking to them always lifts me up ! :) Thanks for being here
Soul is the most genuinely caring listener I've had the pleasure of talking to. She understands what I'm going through really well and makes me feel heard and not alone. She can be really motivating with her positivity and help bring a different perspective to things. I am proud to have such a wise and mature listener. Thank you so much for what you do here
very nice. great in-tune responses
She is lovely
Isweet SoulyPooh :P
So glad to have InnocentSoul to support & motivate me in getting healthier in weight!
Sweetest listener ever!!!!
thanks for helping me out you do a great job
Soul is such a lovely,kind,caring and special person. Soul is unique.She understands your issues really well, is patient, calm and always professional.
She is just one of a kind and talking to her makes one's day, she is god's gift.
Thanks for being here at 7 cups I am sure you are changing millions of lives.
Such an awesome listener
The best, most beautiful spirit.
Uplifts you just effortlessly with her kindness. A really amazing person.
She is warm and friendly. She made me feel like I was chatting with my best friend. She knows when to ask questions and when to empathise. An excellent and satisfying chat :)
Best person ever
Perfection xx
Very helpful and patient and knowledgeable, most recommended !
A kind, caring, empathetic, understanding, good and a lovely person. Soul is just awesome and I felt really understood and listened to without any judgements. She motivated me too with her compliments which can make anyone's day. Lucky to have met her !
Really sweet and easy to talk to. Very attentive :D
Best listerner ever :)
The listener is awesome. They have great empathy.
Great great listener! Really listened to me and helped me see my progress.
A lovely and great friend who i am lucky to have met ❤
Awesome Listener
She even messaged me today to see how I was doing. I know she probably won't always remember but I really appreciate her asking about me today.
A kind and understanding soul, with gentle and calm replies. Acts like an older sibling and makes you feel safe.
Amazing
I am so glad Innocentsoul is here. One of the best listeners on 7 cups. I feel that i can talk about anything and that i am understood and cared for. I needed a listener that would be there for me. Not just for one chat. Thank you Innocentsoul you're amazing💜
Very very kind and empathetic. Patient and made me feel welcomed and cheered me up. Thank you so much!!!!!
I don't know who you are but you are really amazing. I need you. Thanks for being there 4 me. U reply very fast and caring for me despite not knowing me. God bless you
Was very easy to chat with. A kind listener.
ohhh woww is all i can say woww kindness peace to share she is
Professional, giving positive spirits :)
Good listener. Exactly what i needed .. thank you!
Friendly and engaging
Thank you
A lovely person to talk to.
Very helpful, was upbeat and made me feel like my problem was worth their time.
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