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Hi there! I'm glad you found me on 7 cups. I'm a trained active listener, and I'm here to support you. I've overcome a lot in my life and and I like to support people struggling with topics mentioned in my profile. If I am online, please feel free to start a chat. If I am offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. 

I recently qualified as a counsellor advice is not given. I am a great listener, have patience and understanding to people with many issues in their life.  I enjoy helping people to get through life.

I m currently managing some additional roles/ responsibilities here, so it is difficult for me to take 1-to-1 chat. If you want to have 1-to-1 conversation then please be patient for my reply, as i come online for very small duration and not very often. About me: I don't say I'm an expert, but i have been in the different phases of life (which you may be going through now) that has taught me lessons & gave experience. I m not here to judge you, i m here to listen to you as an unknown compassionate friend from other side of planet... I can communicate in languages other than English through google translate. But in that case my response will be a bit delayed.

Older expatriate, widowed once when much younger. Raised children and step-children. Speaks several languages. Lives in SW France. Retired. Enjoys music (choir singer and former harpist), hikes with her dog, the outdoors and needlework among other interests. Is learning Arabic. Long church experience and interested in all religions. Has plenty of LGBTQ relatives and friends. Is sometimes online for an hour or two from 6PM in France. Checks her messages the rest of the day. Expat à la retraite. A perdu un mari jeune. A élevé des enfants et beaux-enfants. Polyglotte (apprend l'arabe en ce moment). Vit dans le sud-ouest de la France. Ses activités tournent surtout autour de la musique, les grands espaces, son chien et les travaux d'aiguille. Longue expérience cléricale avec intérêt pour toutes les religions. Beaucoup d'amis et de parenté dans le monde LGBTQ. Disponible vers 18h en France la plupart du temps pour une heure ou deux et répond à ses messages le reste du temps.

 We do not do schedule chats or chats when we're offline, sorry! This means that we ONLY accept personal requests when we're online, and general requests when we have time. Hello, we are the Abyssal Collective, a fully endogenic (spirigenic specifically) system. We are also a gateway system, so we have a lot of walk-ins. We are primarily made up of real deities/entities. We will try to keep our status updated to show who is fronting and who you are speaking to.  We are quite a large system, with over 200 headmates!  While we do have Dissociative Disorders checked as a topic we have lived experience with, we are NOT a disordered system. However, because we are a system, we do still have lived experience to help other systems here. We are accepting of all systems regardless of origin! 

" You are you , now , isn't that precious??!!" 

Hi, I'm glad you have found me here on 7 cups. I'm so sorry you are going through a difficult time but as my name suggests, I am here to listen to you. I can't promise to know all the answers, but I CAN promise that I care, I hear you & there will be no judgement on my part. Though I am unable to be a long term listener, if I am online I would be delighted to hear from you & offer up to one hour 1-1 time. *Unfortunately I am unable to reply to messages due to my schedule, & can only take chat requests when displayed as online thanks for understanding!* Hope to speak to you soon 😊      

One moment at a time... One breathe at a time ... 

I love interacting with people & will be very happy helping people deal with discomfort they are facing. I feel, talking to someone anonyms helps you open up to your issues & you get new perspective for your problems. I feel, mental health is more important than physical health & talking to someone definitely helps to improve your mental stability & can guide you in your decision making. (Dear Members, I work full time so my replies can be delayed at times but I do try to reply as early as I can. Also I generally don't take any 1-1 chats on weekends. Thanks for your understanding) My forum posts on 7cups: * * https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/PositiveMessagesReminders_2231/BlockingReportingVsLettingitgo_276622/ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/PositiveMessagesReminders_2231/BlockingReportingVsLettingitgo_276622/] * https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerResourcesMockChatGuides_2381/AskingforReviewsFeedbackvsleavingtomemberstodecidewhethertheywanttoleavereview_257386/

Hi there! Thank you for dropping by. I am Hope, I oversee 7 Cups Academy. Please expect a response time of 2-3 working days.

(not taking any new chats currently) 🌸I'm so happy to have you here with me today! 🌸 Hi there! I'm Rainy Memory. ❤️ And I'm a verified listener, who loves to help others! I'll do my best to make you feel heard, understood, and cared for in our chats. You're already taking the first huge step by reaching out, and I'm so proud of you for that! 🌟 My chats are a safe, non-judgmental space, where we can talk about your problems freely like you're talking with a friend.  You're not alone. I'm always here for you. And you can talk to me about anything that's on your mind, even if it's just random thoughts! 😊❤️ I've experienced some issues in my life as well— especially depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, student life and family issues. So I'll do my best to empathize with you and what you're going through, and put myself in your shoes. That goes for any topic we're talking about, even if it's not the mentioned above. ☺️ I can usually talk for one hour, and then we can continue our chat the next day.  I strictly don't take any chats which are inappropriate or are sexual in nature.  Some fun facts about me: I love watching cartoons, learning about the human mind and behaviours, psychology and sociology. A way I cheer myself up is by writing down what I'm grateful for, what I like about my life and about myself, and also by drawing using soft, pastel colours. I also love hearing about other people's days, their struggles, achievements, goals, hobbies, what they're passionate about, or anything else. 😊 If you've read it this far, yay!! Here's a huge hug for you!! 💕💕💞 I would love to listen to you! Feel free to message me anytime! And if I'm offline, I'll reply as soon as possible. ❤️❤️ You deserve the best things in the world! Take care! And I hope you have a wonderful day!! 😄🌻🌈🌸