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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Sunrise110
L Marvel 14 5613
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* Currently not taking new chats * Hello and welcome! I'm a trained verified listener and I like to help by listening & supporting people struggling with an issue. If I'm online feel free to message me, If I'm offline then send a message and we can set up a time to connect. 
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sweetmikayla
L Maven 5 2153
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Some years ago, I was in a very dark place. I wish I had someone to talk to, at least so that I could feel less lonely in this world. I've overcome a lot of struggles completely alone, but now I'm here to be the help I've never had. Everyone should use some help fighting their struggles, and that's why I'm here: I want to help you by listening to you and giving you all the support I can give. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to contact. Glad you are here! Please don't ask me for sex chats, my personal phone number or social media profiles. I've been asked too many times and I always refused because of some past experience, so I'd rather you didn't ask. Thank you.
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RarelyCharlie
L Epitome 11 7593
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Not taking new chats. ------------------------- Coming, going, the waterbirds don't leave a trace, don't follow a path. I'm Charlie and I'm trained, verified and experienced as an active listener for both adults and teens. I like to support people who are struggling with something. Also people who aren't struggling with anything. And people who aren't sure whether they're struggling with anything or not. Please do not message me hoping to start a chat. I am not taking new chats. The poem is said to be by Eihei Dōgen, a Japanese poet who wrote it around eight hundred years ago. I don't know why I like it. I just do. My photo is the moon shining on the sea. There's some darkness and some clouds there but the light of the moon shines on everything. I like this too. Thank you for reading my profile. I'm glad you are here! ------------------------- In an emergency or a crisis: If you are in an emergency or a crisis—for example, if you are at immediate risk of suicide or other serious harm—7 Cups is not the right place, because we cannot deal with emergencies or provide crisis counselling. Click here for information about getting help: Get emergency or crisis support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/howto/crisis] Listener support: I'm happy to support other listeners with issues related to listening, although I don't have any official role. Please do not message me from a listener account to chat about personal issues. Use a member account for that. To understand why, see: Listener and Member Roles [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/GlensThoughts_143/ListenerandMemberRoles_210/1/] Schedule: I don't have a fixed schedule. I'm online some weekdays between about 4:30 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. US Eastern Time. In the UK this is 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. On other days and at weekends I'm often online too, but at times that are not predictable. If you message me or tag me in a forum I'm usually able to respond within a day or two. Miscellaneous resources: For some other resources, mainly for listeners, see my unofficial companion site: The 8th Cup [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/]
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GreatestClassiest
L Pinnacle 3 7284
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As Salamu Alaikum  The weird listening wizard. Made In Bangladesh And So Easy To Understand, I am An Asian. Don't Be A Racist Claiming Asians Aren't Good In Listening. Serving This Ground Since 2016. I Claim Myself The Greatest And Classiest Because I Have Never Taken a Break From This Ground Since I Entered. Now Easy To Understand Because Other Listeners Here Who Show Too Much Excitement And Passion For Listening Often Break Their Own Mind And Hide Themselves Suddenly. I Can't Be That Careless Like Others, So That's My Biggest Point To Claim Myself The Greatest And Classiest of 7 Cups. Consistency Matters Most When The Task Is Voluntary. I Believe Taking A Break And Hiding From Those Who Seek Help Is Cowardice.  People Often Call Me A Narcissist, But I'll Say To Be A Narcissist, It Needs Some Unique Ability To Define Your Statement, And I Have That. And Lastly, Don't Waste My Time By Showing a Lack Of Consistency. I Trade Modesty, So Be Modest. Also, I'm A Muslim, So Choose Those Topics That Suits A Muslim Because It's Fun To Kick Someone When He Selects A Wrong Topic To Share With Me. 
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hummingbirdheart2
L Epitome 19 36235
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One of my favorite songs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYQX627Ucag Topics I take: Relationships stress and Breakups  For all other topics, please choose another listener.  Please note I DO NOT take inappropriate sex chats or suicide chats. 
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beautifulmind2822
L Marvel 13 5354
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I have been through tough times and times when I felt I had no one to turn to. I believe everyone needs reassurance and sometimes to hear the words " I understand ". This is all that's needed to make a person feel valued. I will leave a light on to show people that they are not alone . This is still a beautiful world.
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Mahad2804
L Virtuoso 13 1025
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Heya visitor 👋👋👋 Welcome to my bio! I'm Mahad, 17, from Karachi but currently in Islamabad (click to see my time). I'm a listener here at 7 Cups (duh). Here are some of the things I'm doing/have done: *everything underlined is clickable* I offer Chat Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ApplytobecomeaChatroomMentorTeenStarUpdated_274625/] to listeners during live chats I offer Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/PeerSupport_397/ApplyToBecomeAPeerSupportInfo_298837/] to listeners after tough chats I'm an Academy Mentor Leader for the Leadership Development Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] I [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] help listeners grow and improve their listening skills as a Quality Mentor [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/MentorsandTeenStars_1964/AnnouncementQualityMentorCriteriaChange_222653/] I [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] ensure listener quality as part of the Anonymous Evaluations Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/EvelynesQualityGazebo_2101/ApplyfortheAnonymousEvaluationsTeam_230452/] I'm a guest [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561]Smile Spreader [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/InvitingTeamMembersforPeerAppreciationProgram_262624/] I'm a Project Agent for the Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/PeerSupport_397/ApplyToBecomeAPeerSupportInfo_298837/] role I host fun events with the Listener Community Discussions Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerLearningDiscussions_1896/JoinListenerCommunityDiscussionsTeam_296388/] I help recruit forum supporters as part of the Subcommunities Outreach Team I graduated from the Leadership Development Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] with honors Here are some of my past roles: Forum Supporter for TV & Movies Community [https://www.7cups.com/forum/tv/]  Forum Supporter on Need Replies Team [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefNgW-Va7dyBx67M3d27INmkndnwm1C3Ywa7NJoFa2EscQkA/viewform] Chatroom Teen Star [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ApplytobecomeaChatroomMentorTeenStarUpdated_274625/] Off of 7 Cups, I'm a high school student and a full-time older brother to 2 little ones. Other than cupsing, I spend most of my time either reading, watching a movie, or tinkering with code (I'm a software geek and love to see how many different ways I can crash my computer). In school, I'm an avid stage speaker, love to participate in every extra-curricular event, and spend as little time in the classroom as possible. ------------------------- I'm currently in a few different leadership roles so I've reduced my regular member chats. I still take chats when I have time but please understand if I don't accept your requests, I'm likely occupied elsewhere. My status can give you the most accurate depiction of my current availability. 🟢 means I'm open to taking chats RN (if you send me a personal request during this time but don't hear back within 2-3 mins, feel free to text me as sometimes personal request notifications can be missed) 🟠 means I'm online but I'm not taking chats RN (please refrain from sending me chat requests during this time because I will likely be unable to accept them. if you need to contact me for some other reason during this time, leave me a text and I'll try my best to respond as soon as I can) 🔴 means I'm offline and not able to respond RN (I can not take chats at this time or respond to messages immediately. feel free to leave me a message and I'll try to get back to you within 48 hours) Before sending me a personal request, please make sure to check my status and the list of topics I feel comfortable discussing. I'm sorry but if you need help with a topic that is not listed, you'll be better suited to go to another listener. I'm unable to help you with them for either lack of knowledge or just uncomfortability with the topic. ------------------------- * Some Wonderful Quotes That I Live By * "The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others." ~ Mahatma Gandhi "Help others achieve their dreams, and you will achieve yours." ~ Les Brown "The best support you can offer is a listening ear, a caring heart, and an open mind." ~ Unknown "Believe you can, and you're halfway there." ~ Theodore Roosevelt "The greatest gift you can give someone is your time because when you give your time, you are giving a portion of your life that you will never get back." ~ Unknown ------------------------- I have an amazing listener twinnie @wishfulWillow6962 [/@wishfulWillow6962] a so very supportive listener sis  [/]@cristlecares [/@cristlecares] Here are honorable mentions for some of the sooo lovely people whom I have so much fun with in TL: (if I missed your name, hit up my PMs) @TabbyCat97 [/@TabbyCat97] @Suryansh [/@Suryansh] @SparklingSeashells [/@SparklingSeashells] @Tobedoctor [/@Tobedoctor] @takitoteka [/@takitoteka] @VioletNotes [/@VioletNotes] @CaringEzra [/@CaringEzra] @ReganL [/@ReganL] If you've gotten this far, 🎉🎉🎉CONGRATS!!!🎉🎉🎉 You must be hungry, here are some snacks for you  🍰   🍩           🍔   🍕 🥞           🍔  🧁           🍰 🧁                🍪               🥞  🍔                                🍪 🍰                           🍩 🧁                       🍪 🍕               🥞  🍩        🧁  🍔 Thanks for stopping by!!!
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Valorous
L Marvel 12 5215
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"Pain is real but so is hope" All we do here is support each other so do not hesitate to reach out. Remember "A conversation is where it begins". I've been on this platform for a while now and it's a wonderful place to support and learn. I'm not gonna say much about my skills as a listener since my reviews would do it more. Let's converse and get to know each other better 😊. Help is just one click away.
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DreamTouch
L Exemplar 1 1544
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Hello there! Thank you for checking out my profile. I'm Dream, a listener here since January 2020. I'm here to provide a safe and non judgmental place for you to share your thoughts or feelings.  Unfortunately I'm not able to take 1-1 support chats currently. Please click here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to view other available listeners. Some topics I'm more suited to provide support includes depression, anxiety, panic attacks, self-harm, student life and a few other I've mentioned in the 'categories' session below. Please note that I do not take any chats on sexual health or related topics. Thank you for understanding! I believe that personal development and self-improvement is a life long journey of trial and error. We are all work in progress and we all deserve respect and understanding in the process of self-discovery. ------------------------- What I do on 7cups: Adult-Teen Listener Academy Ambassador (LDP) ------------------------- My listener twins: @positivePumpkin22 and @lueurspace
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A1b1c2d2
L Supporter 9 224
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Welcome to my profile. I am a kind, open minded listener that is here completely and 100% for you. Shoot me a message anytime and I will respond as quickly as possible. When you come to me, you know that you will get an amazing, one on one chat where I really give it my all to understand and assist you. See you soon          
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GreyCoyote
L Beginner 2 15
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Hello! I'm new here 😮❤️ but I'm ready to try my best and hear you out. World is like a garden of flowers, we are all different and need different things but we come together beautifully. Let's work through our differences, take what we can make use of, and give what we don't need anymore.  🖤🩶🤍💚🤍🩶🖤 (I'm sorry if i don't reply to you immediately, but I'll try to do so as soon as i see messages. Im not around here much, but will try to change it in upcoming time.)  ------------------------- Pronouns: they/them ------------------------- Useful resources : https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-worksheets/anxiety/none (: Crisis resorces: https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis ------------------------- Quotes: 🐬 Ernest The old man and the sea   * "but a man is not made for defeat. A man can be destroyed but not defeated." * 🐳 🌷 Things never go the way you want them, they have their owm way. 🕯️🕯️🕯️
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ChaoticListener
L Intermediate 6 64
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✨Updated Availability ~ I have no time and will respond to DMs when I see them in 1-5 business days✨ 📚Thank you for understanding as I am a public school educator📚 A chaotic listener. Vegan & Forest power! Chats will usually be ~30 minutes. Here are some free mental health apps  — * https://tinyurl.com/Big-List * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=is.vertical.ptsdcoach * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=id.com.WorryDolls&pli=1 * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.woebot * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bluepilltech.liberate.ocdapp * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.jacksontempra.apps.whatsup&gl=US ------------------------- The NAMI website where you can find a bunch of free mental health resources as on 7 cups - https://www.nami.org/Home NAMI and 7 cups as well as these free mental health apps have really helped me in my healing. No matter what you feel or what you have been told regarding the amount you need to do to "just not feel depressed (or insert any other mental illness here)" know that whatever you do for yourself is enough, mental illness can be debilitating, and the fact that you are here shows you are doing the healing work. I wish for you the world, I wish for you the power to change age old systems of oppression and to heal yourself in the process.
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