ONLY TAKING CHATS WITHIN MY TOPICS. IF POSSIBLE PLEASE READ MY PROFILE BEFORE SENDING A PERSONAL REQUEST. If you're in a too bad condition at least make sure you want to talk about something within my areas of expertise.Ich spreche auch Deutsch.Urgency first: If you are facing an acute situation like panic attack, flare up or urgent urge you don't need to read the rest of the text and can just drop me a request. I'll take care of you asap. If you're not in a situation like that please read on to see if I am the right Listener for you. If yes you're very welcome to contact me but you may have to wait a bit incase I am occupied with an urgent case, specially if my status is set to busy (orange).
Hello and welcome to 7cups. I'm Nadine from Germany, 22 years old and glad you read this. I had and still have to struggle with the things I offer support with and that's why I think I can help you with it. I understand you well and maybe I have suggestions, techniques or skills to help you. My top areas are living with chronic pain or disability, self-harm and panic attacks. I also have non-epileptic (dissociative) seizures which are quite much under control by now and I'd like to exchange experience about this anytime.In the following I will describe myself as a Listener and explain in what case I am the right one for you. It does not mean that I don't welcome other people. I just don't want to waste your time and want to make it easy for you to find a suitable Listener. If you select me as your Listener and I think there is a chance that I might be able to help then I will surely try my best to do so. Yet I do not take chats with any kind of sexual content, not from Members and Guests, nor from Listeners. If you message me with that I will tell you to leave and if you don't do so I might not have another opportunity than blocking you.If I was to describe myself as a listener I would say I'm mostly supportive, reassuring and encouraging. But despite all my empathy and understanding I still tend to be somewhat challenging. If you are looking for someone to pity you or just an empty space to vent to you might be better off with another listener. I am the right one if you are ready to fight in order to make a change for yourself. I can assure that you have my greatest support if you are willing to work with me and I will be here to guide you through whatever struggle you may face. So let us unite our strengths and try to pull you out of your misery. Please understand that it may take a lot of effort, time and patience before there will be any significant change for you but I can assure you that it will be all worth it in the end. However my favorite saying that I took from the saw movies which I really enjoy (don't worry ,I'm not a creep) is "CHERISH YOUR LIFE" and I hope i can help you to do that too along the way.Send me a personal request by chatting to me or leaving me a message if:
- you want to learn strategies to live with chronic pain, especially such that gets worse in flare ups (1)
- you want to manage daily life better with a disability (2)
- you want to stop self-harm (3)
- you want to cope better with panic attacks and possibly get rid of them (4)
- you want to talk about non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion /PNES ) seizures and eventually defeat them (5)- you want to talk about a trauma and /or any kind of dissociation, including DID (6)If you send a personal request please start the chat with a code number from 1 to 5 to show you have read this. I only take requests about these topics, thanks for understanding.I do provide long term support as well! Let me know straight away if you wish that.
If I am offline you can drop me a message still and I will get in touch when I see it.You should always try and choose a topic even for general requests as long as the thing you want to talk about matches any. This increases your chances to get connected to a suitable listener as quick as possible.
As well if you are in condition for this you should always try and find some time to leave a detailed and honest rating and review after each chat with a listener. It's not only that you can give something back to a helpful listener with a good one but mainly that you can help other members to find the suitable listener for them. It should roughly include the topic you talked about, what was good or bad about the chat and if you would recommend the listener to others struggling with the same. Don't worry, you stay anonymous and also you don't have to do it if you're not comfortable.
Empathic Human BeingNote:I accept to talk with people who are ready to have a conversation based on respect and understanding. You are responsible for your life decisions. As a listener, I'm not here to solve any of your problems but to be the space that supports your healing. Any type of misconduct will lead to the termination of the chat.
***Verified listener***Hey there. I'm Emily. While you scroll through my profile, let me just say that you are beautiful. And you deserve all the love in this world.Just like a Pillow, I am here to give you comfort when you need it.Leave a message whenever you feel low and you want to talk. I'll reply as soon as possible when I'm not having exams.Take care of yourself and drink lots of water. I am here to give you love when you are unable to give it to yourself. You are important and you are valued. Stay safe. I'm here for you. And about myself, I am a medical student and an amateur writer with a taste for good music and movies and an eye and ear for deep, engaging, philosophical conversations. I can be tough sometimes so I hope you bear with me.Also trying to search for meaning and purpose in life.I've been through a lot too. I understand how it feels. I try my best to be patient and understanding without judging because I know how it feels when people judge you and stereotype.Been there, done that . I wish to give you all that I didn't get so that you don't have to feel what I went through. We're both here on a quest for happiness. Let's help each other find it.And please refrain from sexual chats. It becomes difficult and harrasing for other listeners who are not comfortable. So, please stop making people uncomfortable who are here for a good cause.Thank you! Have a good day!
Hello, honey! I am here to help you in any situation in which are you now. Feel free to message me even if I am not online. I will respond as soon as possible :)
I am a teen, who has experience in a many situations. I have gone trough depresion, selfharming, social anxiety, I was bullied for 9 years. I will try to help you
I am fine without a bio but unfortunately this sounds like a bio and I don't think what you read here is better than talking about your problems.I will listen as you please but I can't promise you will get what you came here for and please don't expect me to entertain you skip me if that's what you want.Below are issues I don't discuss:Relationship stress
Parenting Oh,I will be more than happy to accept personal requests.
If you find me offline feel free to leave a message I will reply.
I am a mature male concentrating ONLY on relationship and/or sexual issues within a real relationship (not long distance or internet relationships). If you have a genuine problem within your marriage or relationship and wish to talk about it in a sensible and mature way then please message me. I understand that talking about sexual issues can be difficult but be assured that whatever we talk about is in total confidence and will be handled sensitively and respectfully.If I am busy and reject your request then you can leave me a message with a brief outline of what you need to talk about and I will try and get back to you when I can but be aware that I probably won't respond to a one word introduction and I definitely won't respond to Hey!I am straight talking and honest and a very good listener (but I do not suffer fools or time wasters) and I will try to help to the best of my ability. My name is Dave, I am 52 years old, married and a parent so have a fair bit of life experience