There is no greater feeling than the feeling of happiness on someone else's face and thats precisely why I'm here to help people in anyway I can to ensure that they find what they are looking for and to put a smile on their face.
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Hi! My name is Lynn, and I'm glad you've found me! I'm a trained listener with a degree in English and psychology as well as professional training in peer counseling. I am NOT a professional psychologist, and I cannot provide therapy services. My scholarly focuses were in ethnic, cultural and gender studies, and psychological studies in abnormal psychology and human sexuality. You'll find me to be exceptionally open-minded and able to talk about practically anything that is on your mind. I am GLBTQ+ friendly. I have personal experience with a number of things, and my professional training has focused mostly on sexuality, depression/anxiety management, and autism spectrum disorder. In my free time, I enjoy writing, movies, and MUSIC!!! Feel free to reach out to me anytime I'm online, and if I'm not, I'll respond to messages as soon as I can after getting notice.
Please read previous member reviews before connecting with me. If you're a fellow listener, I appreciate your interest, but I will hold you accountable to the listener agreement and will not provide emotional wellness support outside the parameters of that agreement, no exceptions!
I am, in general, an acute situation listener. I focus on immediate needs. This means I'm not likely to "just chat" though I am open to doing so. Just note that I focus on emotional crisis first. I do not have long-term relationship availability at this time.
I am also a person living with ASD. My vocabulary and style of speech has been accused of being mean, harsh, aggressive, you name it, I've heard it. I cannot help it, and I cannot change it. Believe me, I've tried. If you're sensitive to that sort of thing, it's best to move on! This being said, I am a person and I have feelings. All I can do is try my best, but I limit my support list for a reason and ask certain questions at the start so we can be on the same page.
My style is to talk about progressive approaches and necessary steps, whether or not they "feel good"... I'm not one to try and package up harsh realities in fuzzy packages. I firmly believe that every adult has the ultimate responsibility for their feelings and their response to those feelings, so a discussion with me will be about accountability, self-honesty and can sometimes be a "rude" reality check. My expectation for members that talk to me is that they have read this description and accept that this is what they will get from me; that I expect them to be a grown adult, able to speak about issues with maturity and a desire for affirmation and change, and will understand that it is up to them and them alone where the power lies. I am simply a facilitator in your own conversation with yourself; if something I say is sharp, hits home, there is a reason.
Generally speaking, I do not provide support for relationship issues, domestic violence, sexual trauma, discussions of incest and/or other non-consensual sexual experiences. I do not provide detailed discussions of sexual desires, fetishes or dysfunctions; if you need help in this area, I recommend working with a professional.I cannot discuss self-harm, suicidal ideation/events, or abuse events. Please seek support from another listener if you need this kind of help, or reach out to suicide.org
As any listener on here has the right to do, I reserve the right and ability to set conversational boundaries and protect myself as an emotional being. If at any time I feel that either involved party is at risk during our conversations, I will advise as much and do my best to direct the member to the best path.
While I have professional training and education, I cannot provide therapy services or fill in as a replacement for your mental health professional.
I am very interested in helping others mainly because it is the only way to live this life in a meaningful way. The alternative is only self absorption which is not only bad for mental health and bad for the body and the world as well.
I hope I can connect with others since I know that loneliness is a problem of our times.
UPDATES BELOW↙....😊 Hi hi and never low! I'm a trained active listener. Please comment/review what worked for you. I am a psychologist who can help as often as I can. This is of course as the website states, free. $o come right over, don't forget to recommend me to others. SomeOne SomeWhere may just have been waiting for those exact life changing words...Relate to shared experiences...➕require these active listening moments
Not only do I take pleasure in empowering & enriching the life journey of myself, loved ones and others, your helping advance my trainig on 7cups . I welcome you all in your moment of need, contemplation and uncertainty.
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I'm glad you have found me on seven cups!A little bit about myself.
I'm 21 years old and from The Netherlands.
My motivation to listen to members despite having my own problems is
Trying to make a positive impact on the world in my limited lifetime.
And trying to positively influence someone's life.chatting
Baby steps are always better than making a break for the finish line and finding out about halfway through your sprint that the finish line was just a little bit further than you expected.
That's why i think it's important to know where your limits lay and that you respect those.
If you're not ready to talk about something, we will work to a time when you are.Ready to chat?Don't hesitate to send me a message!
Facing darkness together and living our lives with meaning ❤Value systems and deep moral concerns
are offered safe space to discuss.
Rainbow closet embracing diversity.
Be your shoulder.☆For Members☆
My time zone is GMT+8 / UTC+8 / EST+11 / WITA
Feel free to set up a time together in advance,
or message me at any time.
Messages are usually replied
within 1-2 days.