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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Rainboho
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I'm Missy, a verified listener and would be honored to listen and support you!  🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQIA+ 🧡 Porn/sex issues & their partners ❣️ Addiction accountability partnership 💚 Cannabis (medical & otherwise)  💜 Spiritual, trans-personal crisis  💖 Confidence in love & lust  💗 New relationships  💛 Alcohol issues  💙 Survivors of child abuse  ❤️‍🩹 Living with chronic disease ❤️ Self love acceptance  💕 Mixed orientation relationships 💔 Relationship breakdowns 🖤 Grief & accepting mortality 🐶 Grieving pet loss 🐰 Animal rights advocacy support (for activists and vegan/vegetarians) If I'm set to busy or away please know I'll reply as soon as I return.
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Kristynsmama
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Note:  I am currently not accepting personal requests for chats from new members. *:・゚✧*:・゚˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚*:・゚✧*:・゚Hello!!*:・゚✧*:・゚˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚*:・゚✧*:・゚ Welcome to ✨Kristynsmama's✨ Profile Page!!  ✨I am a verified listener here on 7 cups!✨  ✨I am so glad that you have stopped by!!✨ ✨I am in CST.✨ ✨I currently am not able to accept personal requests. ✨ ✨Fun Facts✨ ✨I live on a farm.✨ ✨I love animals✨ ✨I have 6 dogs, 2 indoor cats, 6 barn cats, 2 horses, 4 chickens, 2 saltwater fish tanks, 2 fresh water fishtanks, 1 donkey, 1 llama, and a partridge in a pear tree.✨ ✨I can turn any conversation into a conversation about dogs✨ 🌻I grow all of my own fruits and vegetables and they are all organic.🌻 🌻I may grow fruits and veggies, but I still believe that Chocolate should be it’s own food group🌻 ✨My favorite colors are blue and purple.✨ ✨I have an alarmingly large collection of keychains from around the world.✨  ✨My hobbies include horseback riding and jumping.  And I used to be a barrel racer.  I also enjoy painting although I’m not great at it.  And I’m an avid cyclist.  In my spare time, I enjoy riding a motorcycle. ✨I have a chronic autoimmune disease that sometimes makes my energy plummet.  I usually update my profile at the top of my profile if I’m going to be taking a self care day. ✨If you really knew me, you would know that my passion in life is to support other people through challenges that I myself have been through.  I have lived experience in grief and loss, eating disorders, addiction, depression, anxiety, and much more.✨ My current leadership roles include: ✨Approved Adult-Teen listener ✨Chatroom Mentor ✨Teen Chatroom Mentor ✨Community Mentor Leader: grief & loss ✨Forum Supporter:  Self Injury ✨Community Mentor ✨Quality Mentor ✨Academy Mentor:  LDP ✨Safety Patrol ✨Anonymous Evaluations Team ✨Academy Outreach Project Agent ✨Anonymous Evaluations Project Agent ✨Quality Mentor Project Agent ✨Communities Leadership Project Agent ✨Peer support ✨Chat support ✨Teen Chat Support ✨Chatroom Moderator (Newbie Hub) ✨Listener Discussion Leader ✨Doorkeeper ✨Kindness Crusader nominator ✨I have completed the following courses:✨ ✨Leadership Development graduate (with honors) 12/2023 ✨Internship Graduate (with honors) 12/2023 ✨Quality Listening Program Graduate (with Honors) 01/24 ✨Inner Development Goals Program Graduate 12/2023 ✨Community Builder Course Graduate 12/2023 ✨The Listener chats that I currently host are: ✨Listener check in Mondays at 9 pm EST in the LCR ✨Listener Sharing Circle:  once a month.  I will post the date and time on my bio here on the 1st of each month. ✨Grief & Loss Group Support Chat  adults:  2nd and last Wed of each month 9-11 pm EST in Support Session Adult Room ✨teens:  1st and 3rd Wed of each month from 9-10 pm EST in the Support Session for Teens Chatroom. ✨Ask Me Anything (AMA)  next one will be Tuesday, May 7th at 9 pm EST.  After that AMA’s will be the first Wed of each month at 9 pm EST. 💖If I don’t respond right away, Please find another listener here💖 💛What is 7 cups?💛 ⭐️It IS a place for you to come where you can share life’s challenges in a safe, confidential and supportive environment! ⭐️It IS a place for you to discover your own solutions to your problems with the help and guidance of a non judgmental person. 💛What 7 cups IS NOT💛 ⭐️It is not a place for crisis intervention.  If you are actively suicidal, please understand that I will not chat with you.  Instead, I will send you a list of resources.  You are welcome to reach out to me again once you are feeling better! ⭐️It is NOT a place to discuss sexual desires, fantasies, or role plays in any capacity.  I will not take sexual chats. 💛What is the role of a listener?💛 ⭐️A listener is NOT a therapist.   ⭐️They are simply volunteers who want to support you and guide you to discover your own solutions to your problems. ⭐️A listener should never give you advice! 💛My Chat guidelines💛 ✨ Please follow the community guidelines in any chat with me.  I will always do the same. ✨Please do not chat with me about sexual topics.  This includes pornography, fantasies, asking me to role play a fantasy, and asking intimate details about my own sex life or fantasies/desires. ✨All of my chats are about 60 minutes each and my time is valuable and limited.  I will do my best to give you adequate time to chat, but please know that sometimes I’m just not available. ✨Please do not ask for my instagram, Facebook, email address, phone number, etc….  I will not give out any identifying information for your safety and for mine and because it is against community policy!  Equally I will not reveal where I live, my gender or my age.  If those things are that important to you, then it's probably best you find another listener. ✨ I follow a 3 warning system.  If you choose to disregard my boundaries, I will disconnect the chat on the third warning. 🛑 Chat Topics I DO NOT TAKE: 🛑 ✨Men’s Issues (sorry guys, I’m a lady and I just don’t have knowledge). ✨Sexual Health 🔔Green: I'm online, feel free to send me a message.  🔕Orange: I am busy, but there's a chance I might be able to reply. 📭Red: I'm offline. Replies can vary, but I do my best to reply as soon as possible.   ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Listener Twins ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Jenna Averyjr23 dreamicicle8467 Dancat1128 ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Kindness Twin: ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 AnnaSilverberg My amazing mentor is also AnnaSilverberg and credit for my adorable profile pic also goes to Anna!
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KindnessMatters2020
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Sometimes you just need someone to talk to about something difficult, sad, frustrating, or emotionally-charged. I am happy to just listen or to help brainstorm solutions.  Besides being a verified active listener, my other roles here include: -Quality Mentor -Listener Coaching Team -Safety Patrol Outreach Team -Verifier for Verified Listener Team
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ReganL
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Hello my friends, you are looking at this currently, you are amazing for that 🌟 You are taking the first steps to make you feel better 💕 I know it is scary and your probably have many things going on in your wonderful mind 😶‍🌫️ That is okie my friend, you can share those thoughts with me without any judgment 🚫 We all have a story to tell 📖 and I am more then happy to hear yours 🤝 WishfulWillow6962 (Willow) - Willow you wonderful oldie! I thank you so much for your wonderful time, the four months of dedication and speaking to this teenie will never be forgot, let the memories live on my first! Best of luck on your next adventure  My listener Twin is MollySofia - Thank you for all you have taught me and helping me become the listener I am today I will miss you much.  I would like to thank the oldies who have helped me become the listener I am today! Each one of them who has stepped up to guide me has a very special place and is the reason why I am who I am today. Little note: If you expect a Listener with good spelling I may not be the listener for you  Talking to a random person is scary! Here are some things about me so it feels a little less scary. I am a 16 year old high school student, a sophomore. I go to college during the summer months. I have had many different battles myself, so please never fear that I will judge you for what you are going through, life can be mean, and things all affect us differently. I have some medical conditions, there may be times my response time is a little slower due to this, but you matter to me, and as soon as I can I will respond  I am so glad you are looking at getting in touch with a listener today 🤗 It takes so much strength and courage to reach out for help when you are struggling 💚 I am here for you and to help you 💛 I will not judge you for who you are or what you are feeling. I will listen to what you have and offer you a supportive area.  Green Circle: Means I am ready to chat Yellow Circle: Means I am busy, but you can send me a message and I will get to you when I can!! Red Circle: Means I am offline, but you can still send me a message and I will see it when I come back online!!   Thank you so much for looking at my profile, I hope to hear from you soon! 🌈  My roles here at 7 cups:  Verified listener 🍎 Peer support 📙 Teen Chatroom Star🍌 Mod - Student Support 🍀 Mod-  Positivity corner 🌱 Host Listener Discussion Team 💠 Project Agent ~ Listener Discussion 🌀 Chat Support 🗾 Anonymous Evaluation Team 🍇 Teen Quality Star🌷 Care Team Guide 💖 Door Keeper 🌸
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sunnyWriting4806
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Hey everybody! My name is Sunny, a trained listener! Nice to meet you and I'm excited to talk to you soon :)
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LittleBirdie30
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Hello! My name is Birdie! Thank you for visiting my profile! I am happy you are here!  I am not currently taking any new chats 💙 Listener Twin: @ChillingRain 💛 My roles include:  -Chatroom Moderator -Care Team Lead Team Leader -Peer Supporter -Safety Patrol Team -Adult and Teen Quality Mentor -Quality Ambassador Please do not hesitate to reach out to me with any questions! I am here for you!  *I am not online during the weekends, so I will do my best to get back to you during the week. Thank you!* National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 & Crisis Text Line: 741-741 A list of international hotlines: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines
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SirenOfSerenity
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🚫⚠️ Topics I don't prefer are: Sexual Topics, Relationship Stress/Breakups, Depression, Abuse, Self Harm, Addiction, PTSD or Casual Chats. Depression, Abuse, Self Harm, Addiction, OCD and PTSD are the topics I lack personal experience in. * My chat availability is 30 minutes to 1 hour maximum * You can view the topics I accept in my profile's "Categories" section 🪷  ------------------------- Pronouns: She/Her, Age: 28, Eastern Standard Time Zone 🇺🇲  You can call me Siren or Serenity 🪔 I am of Light, because I have experienced and gained wisdom from my "dark". You too, can shine your way through your darkness 🌤  ------------------------- Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]  Has there been a Member or Listener in the Cups Community that has really made a positive impact on your time here? Appreciate them by clicking the blue "Peer Appreciation Form" button 💙 ------------------------- 💌 3 Fun Facts About Me: Originally from the Caribbean Islands 🌴 my zodiac sign is Taurus ♉️ sun with a Cancer ♋️ moon and my personality type is INFJ-A 🌙✨️ ------------------------- In the Listener Community, my primary roles are: ✨️ Retired Adult Listener Chatroom Ambassador ✨️Active Mentor Leader for the Listener Coaching Team ✨️ Active Listener Verifier ✨️ Active Listener Quality & Teen Transitioning Mentor ✨️ Active Listening Test Grader for AL 1 & 3 and Academy Mentor for the Content Development & Marketing Program (CDM)
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Mahad2804
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*taking a break from member chats for exams. will be back hopefully after 2 months* Heya visitor 👋👋👋 Welcome to my bio! I'm Mahad, 16, from Karachi but currently in Islamabad (click to see my time). I'm a listener here at 7 Cups (duh). Here are some of the things I'm doing/have done: *everything underlined is clickable* I offer Chat Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ApplytobecomeaChatroomMentorTeenStarUpdated_274625/] to listeners during live chats I offer Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/PeerSupport_397/ApplyToBecomeAPeerSupportInfo_298837/] to listeners after tough chats I'm an Academy Mentor Leader for the Leadership Development Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] I [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] help listeners grow and improve their listening skills as a Quality Mentor [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/MentorsandTeenStars_1964/AnnouncementQualityMentorCriteriaChange_222653/] I [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] ensure listener quality as part of the Anonymous Evaluations Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/EvelynesQualityGazebo_2101/ApplyfortheAnonymousEvaluationsTeam_230452/] I'm a guest [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561]Smile Spreader [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/InvitingTeamMembersforPeerAppreciationProgram_262624/] I'm a Project Agent for the Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/PeerSupport_397/ApplyToBecomeAPeerSupportInfo_298837/] role I host fun events with the Listener Community Discussions Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerLearningDiscussions_1896/JoinListenerCommunityDiscussionsTeam_296388/] I help recruit forum supporters as part of the Subcommunities Outreach Team I graduated from the Leadership Development Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/Archived_2244/ArchivedLeadershipDevelopmentProgramUpdatesAnnouncement_230561] with honors Here are some of my past roles: Forum Supporter for TV & Movies Community [https://www.7cups.com/forum/tv/]  Forum Supporter on Need Replies Team [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefNgW-Va7dyBx67M3d27INmkndnwm1C3Ywa7NJoFa2EscQkA/viewform] Chatroom Teen Star [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ApplytobecomeaChatroomMentorTeenStarUpdated_274625/] Off of 7 Cups, I'm a high school student and a full-time older brother to 2 little ones. Other than cupsing, I spend most of my time either reading, watching a movie, or tinkering with code (I'm a software geek and love to see how many different ways I can crash my computer). In school, I'm an avid stage speaker, love to participate in every extra-curricular event, and spend as little time in the classroom as possible. ------------------------- I'm currently in a few different leadership roles so I've reduced my regular member chats. I still take chats when I have time but please understand if I don't accept your requests, I'm likely occupied elsewhere. My status can give you the most accurate depiction of my current availability. 🟢 means I'm open to taking chats RN (if you send me a personal request during this time but don't hear back within 2-3 mins, feel free to text me as sometimes personal request notifications can be missed) 🟠 means I'm online but I'm not taking chats RN (please refrain from sending me chat requests during this time because I will likely be unable to accept them. if you need to contact me for some other reason during this time, leave me a text and I'll try my best to respond as soon as I can) 🔴 means I'm offline and not able to respond RN (I can not take chats at this time or respond to messages immediately. feel free to leave me a message and I'll try to get back to you within 48 hours) Before sending me a personal request, please make sure to check my status and the list of topics I feel comfortable discussing. I'm sorry but if you need help with a topic that is not listed, you'll be better suited to go to another listener. I'm unable to help you with them for either lack of knowledge or just uncomfortability with the topic. ------------------------- * Some Wonderful Quotes That I Live By * "The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others." ~ Mahatma Gandhi "Help others achieve their dreams, and you will achieve yours." ~ Les Brown "The best support you can offer is a listening ear, a caring heart, and an open mind." ~ Unknown "Believe you can, and you're halfway there." ~ Theodore Roosevelt "The greatest gift you can give someone is your time because when you give your time, you are giving a portion of your life that you will never get back." ~ Unknown ------------------------- I have an amazing listener twinnie @wishfulWillow6962 [/@wishfulWillow6962] a so very supportive listener sis  [/]@cristlecares [/@cristlecares] Here are honorable mentions for some of the sooo lovely people whom I have so much fun with in TL: (if I missed your name, hit up my PMs) @TabbyCat97 [/@TabbyCat97] @Suryansh [/@Suryansh] @SparklingSeashells [/@SparklingSeashells] @Tobedoctor [/@Tobedoctor] @takitoteka [/@takitoteka] @VioletNotes [/@VioletNotes] @CaringEzra [/@CaringEzra] @ReganL [/@ReganL] If you've gotten this far, 🎉🎉🎉CONGRATS!!!🎉🎉🎉 You must be hungry, here are some snacks for you  🍰   🍩           🍔   🍕 🥞           🍔  🧁           🍰 🧁                🍪               🥞  🍔                                🍪 🍰                           🍩 🧁                       🍪 🍕               🥞  🍩        🧁  🍔 Thanks for stopping by!!!
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MydogLiz8
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      *On self-Care Break*    🖤Sorry, I am not accepting new member chats at the moment🖤 ♥️Hii, Liz here, welcome to our safe space!🖤 I love to listen and support and will do all I can to make your day go a little smoother. If you have any questions, need links for resources, vent to get things off your chest, or any other support, I will do my best in helping. If I don't know the information needed to help off hand, no worries I will find it as soon as I can. No question is unvalued, too big or too small!   Please don't hesitate to reach out. If I am unavailable, I will reach back out as soon as I can, just leave a message❤️. Thanks for being here, and I hope you love 7 cups of Tea as much as I do!🫂 ✨*I wish everyone better health and hope all is able to take time for self care, allow yourself to take a break outside and enjoy some fresh air!🐕 🤔*If perhaps you're curious how I came up with my username, MydogLiz8, it's pretty simple. 1.) My dogs real name was Alizabeth, I called her Liz for short, at the time I created my username she was 8 years old. She was my sweetest companion, my best friend, supporter, listener, caregiver, plus some, and some more. I wanted to share some of her spirit, love, understanding, her judge free support we all deserve, to you all here on 7 cups. 🌟🤩 2.) She was also cuddling up against me, and staring at me when I was asked to create a username 😎🫣       🌟 My Roles 🌟   🦮 AE team   🦮 ATL listener    🦮 Chatroom Mentor   🦮 Moderator (newbie hub)   🦮 Peer Supporter   🦮 Safety Patrol    🦮 Verified Listener 👂I love to listen! ❤️ I'm here to support if you have me!! *Here is a quick link to find other listeners if I'm unavailable♥️: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners
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halcyonCloud2036
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I'm here for you 🤗 My typical schedule (in EST) is: Monday: 9am-11am and 5pm-7pm Tuesday: 7pm-9pm Wednesday: 9am-11am Thursday: 1pm-3pm
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bobCatz
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Be Brave Do one thing every day that scares you. -Mary Schmich I present you to my wonderful listener twin🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧@coolVibes.🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧 They have been an inspiration to me in my listener walk and personal life. It is my honor to call you my friend and now my twin. 
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CommunityModKay
L Marvel 11 1037
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Hello! My name is Kay and I am a Community Moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats.
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