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🌸🫧 Hi there, I’m Lex 🫧🌸

Welcome — I’m so glad you found your way here 💖. Reaching out takes courage, and I want you to know you don’t have to go through things alone anymore. When you chat with me, you’ll step into a safe space that’s filled with gentleness, patience, and care.

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🌼 Availability 🌼
☀️ I’m usually around 9am–9pm (weekends included).
☁️ Sometimes notifications don’t come through, so if I don’t reply right away, don’t worry — I’ll get back to you as soon as I see your message.
🌙 I take personal requests/PMs only — so even if I look offline, you can still send me a note.
🌸 Chats are usually 30–45 minutes, but if you’d like to connect long-term, I’m more than happy to be a steady listener over time.
💌 Feedback means so much to me — if you feel supported, leaving a review helps me grow and connect with others.

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🎧 My Listening Style 🎧

🌿 My style is soft, validating, and steady. I don’t rush you or push you to share more than you want. Instead, I’ll hold space for your feelings, sit with you through the heavy stuff, and remind you that you matter.

🌿 I believe in walking beside you — I won’t “fix” things for you, but I’ll help you notice your own strength and resilience. I’ll ask gentle, thoughtful questions to help you reflect, and I’ll always lead with empathy.

🌿 You’ll never be “too much” here. No matter how messy, foggy, or heavy things feel, I’ll be there to listen without judgment.

🌿 I also know that sometimes the best support is guiding you to someone else — if I think another listener could help more, I’ll be honest and kind about that.

🌿 At the heart of it all, I want you to leave each chat feeling a little lighter, a little safer, and a little more seen than before.

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🌷 About Me 🌷
🌸 I’m 21 and currently in college, studying psychology, education, and human development. Helping others is something I feel deeply called to do, and 7 Cups is one of my favorite ways to offer support.
🌸 I’ve been listening on Cups since March, though I’ve been offering support for around 4 years now.

🌸 I’m bubbly and lighthearted (hence my name 🫧), but I also bring calmness and grounding energy to my chats. I can be a little shy at first, but I warm up quickly and love meaningful connections.
🌸 Outside of Cups, you’ll usually find me watching Grey’s Anatomy, The Resident, The Rookie, or Station 19,playing sports, or catching up on some much-needed rest 🌙.
🌸 The areas I take include: anxiety, depression, breakups, PTSD, eating disorders, self-esteem struggles, bullying, self-harm, and weight management.

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✨ My Roles at 7 Cups ✨
Along with listening, I’m also active in the community in many ways:
🌼 Verified Listener & Peer Support
🌼 ATL & Chat Support
🌼 Listener Chatroom Supporter & Chatroom Mentor
🌼 Teen Chatroom Mentor & Community Mod 
🌼 Community Leader & Listener Verifier

These roles simply reflect how much I care about supporting both members and listeners here at 7 Cups.

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🚫 Topics I Don’t Take 🚫
Just so you know upfront, here are the areas I’m not the best fit for:
❌ Sex, sexual health, or relationship-related topics
❌ Financial struggles
❌ Disabilities
❌ Chronic pain

If you’d like to talk about these, I’ll gently point you toward another listener who may be more equipped to support you.

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🌸 A Gentle Reminder 🌸
This is your space. You don’t have to have the “right words,” and you don’t need to apologize for your feelings. I’ll meet you right where you are — with empathy, patience, and care. Healing takes time, and you don’t have to walk through it alone.

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💬 Quotes I hold close to my heart:
🌱 “Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means it no longer controls you.”
🌙 “Sometimes the bravest thing you can do is just show up.”
🫧 “Even the tiniest bubbles can lift the heaviest waves.”

Twin Listener: @compationaterainbow64 

Some listeners that have truly impacted my 7cups journey, @ChillingRain @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @Jenna @AnnaSilverberg @SelfCareMatters @daydreammemories 

With warmth and kindness always,
— Bubbles 🫧🌼✨






















































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🌸 Emotional Energy 🌸
Newbie Hub / by LexListens2025
Last post
 Thursday
...See more hi everyone! ♡ 🧸 For those who don't know me yet, I'm Lex, and I'm a listener here on 7 Cups. One of the things that means the most to me is being able to offer people a safe, gentle, and non-judgmental space where they can talk about whatever is on their hearts. I believe that sometimes, we don't need someone to fix everything or tell us what to do. Sometimes, we just need someone who is willing to sit with us in our feelings, listen without judgment, and remind us that we don't have to carry everything alone. ♡ Today, I wanted to create a little space for a conversation about something so many of us experience, but don't always talk about enough: the emotional exhaustion that comes with struggling with our mental health. 🌧️ ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧ 🌸 the parts of mental health that people don't always see 🌸 I think one of the hardest things about struggling with our mental health is that the world doesn't stop just because we're hurting. Life keeps moving. Responsibilities still need to be taken care of. People still need us. There are still messages to answer, conversations to have, expectations to meet, and things we're expected to show up for, even on the days when we're barely holding ourselves together. Sometimes, getting out of bed feels like an accomplishment. Sometimes, taking a shower, making something to eat, answering a message, or simply getting through the day takes more effort than anyone could imagine. And sometimes, even when we're doing all the things we're supposed to do, we're still struggling underneath it all. We can smile, laugh, support our friends, go to work, attend school, and carry on with our usual routines while quietly fighting battles that nobody else knows about. We can look completely fine on the outside while feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, anxious, sad, or completely disconnected on the inside. And I think that is something we don't talk about enough. Struggling doesn't always look like falling apart. Sometimes, it looks like continuing to show up when every part of you desperately needs a break. 🫂 Mental health struggles can affect so many parts of our lives. They can change how we see ourselves, how we interact with others, how we handle everyday situations, and how much energy we have to give. They can make even the smallest things feel enormous. They can leave us feeling frustrated with ourselves for not being able to do things that once felt easy. Sometimes, we become our own harshest critics. We tell ourselves that we should be doing more, that we shouldn't feel this way, that other people have it worse, or that we have no reason to be struggling. We compare our progress to everyone else's and forget that we are all carrying different things. But please remember this: you don't have to reach a breaking point for your pain to matter. You don't have to prove that you're struggling enough to deserve compassion. ♡ Your feelings are valid, even when they're difficult to explain. Your exhaustion is real, even when other people can't see it. And your struggles deserve kindness, even on the days when you don't understand them yourself. 🌷 You are allowed to find things difficult. You are allowed to have bad days. You are allowed to be a work in progress. ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧ ☁️ the emotional energy nobody sees ☁️ Something else I've been thinking about is just how much emotional energy it takes to get through an ordinary day when you're struggling with your mental health. We often talk about being physically tired, but emotional exhaustion can be just as heavy. It can come from overthinking every interaction, trying to manage overwhelming feelings, fighting negative thoughts, worrying about the future, navigating relationships, or simply trying to convince ourselves to keep going when everything feels difficult. Sometimes, our energy is spent before the day has even properly begun. It can take energy to get out of bed when your mind feels heavy. It can take energy to reply to someone when you don't know how to explain what you're feeling. It can take energy to be around people when you're overwhelmed, to reassure others when you're struggling yourself, or to pretend you're okay because you don't want anyone to worry. Even resting can feel exhausting when your mind won't switch off. And sometimes, we don't realise how depleted we are until the smallest thing pushes us over the edge. We might become quieter than usual, withdraw from people, struggle to concentrate, feel irritable, or find ourselves needing more time alone. We might feel guilty for not having the energy we used to have, even though we're using so much of it just trying to get through what we're experiencing. If this sounds familiar, I hope you can offer yourself a little understanding. You are not lazy for needing rest. You are not a bad friend for having less energy to give sometimes. You are not failing because you cannot do everything you once could. You are a person, not a machine. You deserve care, too, especially when so much of your energy is being used just to cope. 🩷 You don't have to earn rest by exhausting yourself first. You don't have to be productive every day to be worthy. And you don't have to keep giving pieces of yourself to everyone else until there is nothing left for you. Sometimes, taking care of yourself means doing less. Sometimes, it means asking for help. Sometimes, it means admitting that today is hard instead of pretending that everything is fine. And sometimes, getting through the day is enough. ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧ 💌 a little question for you 💌 I've love to hear from you all, if you're comfortable sharing. ♡ 🌷 What's something you do every day that takes far more emotional energy than people realize? Maybe it's getting out of bed, going to work or school, keeping up with conversations, managing anxiety, dealing with intrusive thoughts, being there for other people, or simply trying to keep yourself together when things feel overwhelming. Maybe it's something that seems small to everyone else but takes so much out of you. Whatever it looks like for you, I'd love to hear about it. You don't need to have the perfect words, and you don't need to explain everything. A few words, a little reflection, or a longer response are all welcome here. There is no pressure to share more than feels comfortable. 🫶🏻 Let's make this a space where we can listen to one another, learn from each other's experiences, and remind each other that the struggles people cannot see are still real. You never know who might read your words and think, "I'm not the only one who feels this way." ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧ 🧸 before you go, a gentle reminder... 🧸 Please be kind to yourself today. You might not be where you want to be yet. You might still be figuring things out, learning how to cope, or trying to understand feelings that seem too big to put into words. You might be tired of having to be strong, tired of explaining yourself, or tired of fighting battles that nobody else sees. But you are still deserving of patience, care, understanding, and love. You don't have to have everything figured out. You don't have to hide your struggles to make other people comfortable. And you don't have to face every difficult moment entirely on your own. If nobody has told you lately, I'm proud of you for continuing to try, even if your progress looks different from what you expected. Please give yourself credit for the little things, too. They count more than you might realise. 🌸 And if you ever need someone to listen, talk things through with, or simply give you a space to let some of those feelings out, I'm only a message away. ♡ As a listener, I'm here to offer a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can feel heard. You don't need to pretend to be okay, have everything organised in your head, or apologise for having feelings. You matter beyond what you can do for others. You matter on your difficult days, your quiet days, your unproductive days, and the days when all you can manage is getting through. Sending each of you a little extra kindness today. Please remember to save some of that kindness for yourselves, too. 💗 With warmth and care, Lex 🌷 ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧ you don't have to be okay all the time to deserve a little softness. ♡
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🌸 Hope and Grief 🌸
Newbie Hub / by LexListens2025
Last post
 Thursday
...See more 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 ♡ a little space for the heavy hearts ♡ somewhere between the hard days, the healing, and everything we carry... there's room for you here. 🤍 hi everyone! ♡ for those who don't know me yet, my name is Lex, and i'm a listener here on 7 Cups. i've been a listener for quite some time now, and honestly, being able to listen to others and offer a little bit of comfort during their difficult moments is something that means so much to me. i've always loved being someone people can turn to when things feel overwhelming. there's something really special about being trusted with someone's thoughts, feelings, and experiences, especially the ones they might not feel comfortable sharing anywhere else. my listening style is very much centered around empathy, patience, validation, and creating a space where people feel safe enough to be themselves. i don't believe every difficult feeling needs to be met with advice or a solution. sometimes people just need someone who will genuinely listen, understand, and remind them that their feelings matter. i want people to know that they don't have to pretend to be okay with me. you don't have to have the perfect words, and you don't have to explain everything perfectly. you can simply show up as you are. whether you're having the hardest day of your life or just need someone to talk to about the little things, i'm happy to listen. 🫂 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 🧠 mental health is so much more than what people see i think mental health is something that can be incredibly difficult to understand, especially when you're the one experiencing it. sometimes people see mental health struggles as simply feeling sad, having a bad day, or needing to think more positively. but for so many of us, it's so much deeper than that. mental health can affect almost every part of our lives. it can change the way we see ourselves, the way we interact with others, the things we enjoy, our motivation, our confidence, and even our ability to get through the simplest parts of the day. sometimes it's waking up already feeling exhausted, even though you've done nothing but sleep. sometimes it's having a million thoughts running through your head while feeling completely numb at the same time. sometimes it's wanting to reach out to someone but not knowing what to say, or wanting to do something you love but feeling like you just don't have the energy anymore. and sometimes, it's putting on a smile and carrying on with your day while quietly struggling with things nobody else knows about. depression, especially, can be such a lonely experience. it can make the world feel a little quieter, a little heavier, and a little harder to navigate. things that once brought you happiness might suddenly feel meaningless. getting out of bed can feel like an accomplishment. replying to a message can feel overwhelming. even being around people you love can feel exhausting. and the hardest part can be not understanding why you feel this way. you might have things to be grateful for. you might have people who love you. you might have a life that looks perfectly fine from the outside. and yet, you still feel this heaviness that you can't quite explain. i think it's important to remember that depression isn't something you can simply talk yourself out of. you aren't ungrateful for struggling, and you aren't weak for needing help. other mental health conditions can bring their own difficult experiences, too. anxiety can make even the smallest things feel terrifying. trauma can leave you feeling unsafe long after something has happened. eating disorders can turn something as ordinary as eating into an exhausting battle. and conditions that affect emotional regulation can make feelings seem so intense that it's hard to know what to do with them. sometimes we spend so much time trying to manage what's happening inside our minds that we forget how much energy it takes just to exist. and i think that's something we don't talk about enough. mental health struggles don't always look like falling apart. sometimes they look like trying your absolute hardest to hold everything together. if that's you right now, i hope you know that your struggles are valid. you don't have to compare your pain to someone else's, and you don't have to wait until things become unbearable to deserve support. ♡ 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 🕊️ grief... the kind of pain that doesn't follow a timeline i also wanted to talk a little about grief, because i think grief is something that can be so incredibly difficult to navigate. when we hear the word grief, we often think about losing someone we love. and while that is such a heartbreaking experience, grief can come from so many different places. we can grieve people, relationships, friendships, opportunities, experiences, and even versions of ourselves. we can grieve the life we thought we would have. we can grieve the things we never got to experience. we can grieve the person we were before something changed us. and sometimes, we grieve things that other people don't even realize we've lost. i think one of the hardest things about grief is that there isn't a timeline for it. there isn't a certain number of weeks, months, or years after which you're supposed to be okay. there isn't a moment where you suddenly wake up and everything feels normal again. sometimes grief feels quieter as time passes. sometimes it feels like you've learned how to carry it a little differently. and sometimes, out of nowhere, something reminds you of what you've lost, and suddenly you're right back in that moment again. a song. a photograph. a familiar place. a date on the calendar. a memory you weren't expecting. and suddenly, the feelings are there all over again. i think people sometimes forget that grief doesn't always mean crying every day. sometimes grief is feeling numb. sometimes it's avoiding certain places or memories because they hurt too much. sometimes it's laughing at something and then feeling guilty because, for a moment, you forgot about what happened. sometimes it's being happy and sad at the exact same time. and sometimes it's simply wishing you could have one more moment with something or someone you've lost. 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 🤍 the things grief takes from us i think grief can take so much more than people realize. it can take our sense of safety. it can take our motivation, our energy, our confidence, and sometimes even our ability to recognize ourselves. it can change the way we look at the world. it can make ordinary days feel different. it can make certain moments feel incomplete because there's someone, something, or some version of ourselves that we wish was still there. sometimes grief takes away the excitement we once felt about the future. sometimes it makes it difficult to imagine a life that looks different from the one we had planned. and sometimes, it takes pieces of us that we don't even know how to explain. maybe you've lost someone and found that you're not quite the same person anymore. maybe you've experienced something that changed the way you trust people. maybe you've had to let go of a dream that once meant everything to you. maybe you're grieving a version of yourself that felt happier, more confident, or more hopeful. and perhaps the hardest part is that the world doesn't always stop for our grief. life keeps moving. people continue with their routines. responsibilities don't disappear. and sometimes we feel like we're expected to keep going, even when a part of us is still trying to understand what happened. we might feel pressure to be okay for other people. we might worry that we're taking too long to heal. we might even feel guilty for still being affected by something that happened a long time ago. but grief isn't something you can rush. you don't have to be over it by a certain date. you don't have to stop missing someone or something just because time has passed. and you don't have to pretend that you've moved on when you're still learning how to live with what you've lost. healing doesn't mean forgetting. it doesn't mean that what happened no longer matters. and it certainly doesn't mean that you have to leave your feelings behind. sometimes healing simply means learning how to carry the memories while slowly making room for life again. and that takes time. so much time, sometimes. please remember that you're allowed to have good days while grieving. you're allowed to laugh, make memories, experience happiness, and look forward to things. none of those things mean that you've forgotten what you've lost. and you're allowed to have difficult days, too. you're allowed to miss someone. you're allowed to feel sad about the things that didn't happen. you're allowed to wish things had been different. you don't have to apologize for the way grief shows up in your life. ♡ 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 🌸 a little reminder for anyone who needs it if you're struggling with your mental health, grieving something or someone, or simply trying to get through a difficult season of your life, i hope you know that you don't have to figure everything out today. you don't have to be the strongest person in the room. you don't have to have everything together. you don't have to turn every difficult experience into a lesson or find the positive in everything that hurts. sometimes things are just hard. and sometimes, the kindest thing you can do for yourself is acknowledge that. give yourself permission to feel what you're feeling. give yourself permission to take things slowly. give yourself permission to need support. you deserve kindness on the days when you're doing well, and you deserve it just as much on the days when you're barely holding on. 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 💌 a little note from me to you if you've made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read my little heart-to-heart. 🤍 i'd love to hear your thoughts, your experiences, or anything this post brought up for you. and if you'd rather keep things private, please know that my PMs are always open. whether you need to talk about something heavy, have a difficult day, need a little reassurance, or simply want to say hi, you're always welcome to send me a message. you don't need a big reason to reach out. you don't need to have the perfect words. and you don't need to wait until you're struggling the most. sometimes a simple "hey, how are you?" can be the beginning of a really meaningful conversation. ♡ please take care of yourselves, friends. be gentle with your hearts, give yourself a little grace, and remember that even when things feel heavy, you deserve to be met with understanding, patience, and love. sending each of you a little warmth today. 🫂 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 you don't have to be fully healed to deserve a little happiness. ♡ 🌷 ───────────── 🌷
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💗 Takeaway 💗
Newbie Hub / by LexListens2025
Last post
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...See more Hi everyone! ♡ For those of you who may not know me yet, my name is Lex, and I'm a listener here on 7 Cups. I absolutely love being part of this community and having the opportunity to connect with people, offer a little kindness, and hopefully make someone feel a little less alone in whatever they're going through. Being a listener means so much more to me than simply being someone who responds to messages. It means creating a safe space where people can show up exactly as they are. A space where you don't have to pretend, explain every little thing, or feel ashamed of what you're struggling with. And today, I wanted to talk about something that I think so many of us can relate to. Something that doesn't always get talked about enough. ♡ The parts of ourselves that mental health struggles take away. ♡ ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧ 🌧️ the quiet struggles nobody sees Sometimes, struggling with your mental health is so much more than having a bad day. It's waking up exhausted before the day has even begun. It's trying to convince yourself to get out of bed when everything inside you wants to stay there. It's feeling overwhelmed by things that once seemed so simple. It's wanting to explain how you're feeling but not knowing where to begin. It's smiling when someone asks if you're okay because explaining the truth feels too exhausting. It's laughing with your friends while carrying thoughts and feelings that nobody knows about. It's being surrounded by people and still feeling incredibly alone. And sometimes, it's not even knowing why you're struggling. You can have people who love you, things to look forward to, and moments that should make you happy, yet still feel like something inside you is hurting. Mental health struggles can be so confusing because they don't always make sense to the people around us. And sometimes, they don't even make sense to us. We try to cope. We try to push through. We try to remind ourselves that things could be worse. But just because someone else's pain looks different from ours doesn't mean our pain isn't real. You can be grateful for your life and still be struggling to live it. ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧ 🥀 the things we lose along the way I think one of the hardest parts of struggling with your mental health is realizing just how much it can take from you. And not always in ways that other people notice. Sometimes, it takes away your confidence. You begin questioning yourself, your worth, your abilities, and whether you're truly enough. You start second-guessing the things you once felt certain about. You become so used to criticizing yourself that you forget what it feels like to be kind to yourself. Sometimes, it takes away your joy. Things that once made you excited don't feel the same anymore. Hobbies become difficult. Your favorite activities feel like obligations. You find yourself going through the motions of life, wondering where the excitement and happiness you once had went. Sometimes, it takes away your relationships. Not because you don't love people, but because you're struggling to show up for them. You cancel plans. You stop replying. You withdraw because you don't have the energy to explain what's happening inside your head. And then comes the guilt. The guilt of not being the friend you want to be. The guilt of feeling distant from people you love. The guilt of needing support when you feel like you should be able to handle things yourself. Sometimes, it takes away your sense of identity. You begin wondering who you are outside of your struggles. You look back at old pictures and remember a version of yourself who felt different. You miss the person you used to be, even when you can't quite explain what has changed. You miss the little things. The way you used to laugh without thinking about it. The way you used to make plans without feeling overwhelmed. The way you used to look forward to things. The way you used to feel comfortable being yourself. And perhaps one of the most heartbreaking parts is that you can begin grieving someone who is still here. Yourself. You grieve the parts of you that feel lost. You grieve the opportunities you missed, the memories you couldn't fully enjoy, and the experiences you were too overwhelmed to take part in. You grieve the time spent simply trying to survive when you wanted so desperately to live. And sometimes, you don't even realize how much you've lost until you stop for a moment and look back. ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧ 🫂 the loneliness of struggling Mental health struggles can be incredibly isolating. Because how do you explain something that you can barely understand yourself? How do you tell someone that you're exhausted when you've spent the entire day doing things that don't look particularly exhausting? How do you explain that you're hurting when you're still managing to smile? How do you ask for help when you're afraid of being a burden? Sometimes, we become so good at hiding our struggles that people genuinely don't realize how much we're hurting. We become the people who check on everyone else. The people who offer comfort, encouragement, and kindness. The people who make sure everyone around them feels seen. But when it comes to ourselves, we struggle to admit that we need the same things. We tell people we're fine because we don't want to worry them. We stay quiet because we don't want to be misunderstood. We keep things to ourselves because we've learned that not everyone knows how to hold the parts of us that are hurting. And sometimes, the hardest thing isn't being alone. It's feeling alone while surrounded by people. It's wishing someone would notice that you're not quite yourself. It's hoping someone will ask twice when you say you're okay. It's wanting someone to understand that you're trying, even when your trying doesn't look like much from the outside. If that's you, I hope you know that you don't have to earn kindness by being okay. You don't have to be productive to deserve rest. You don't have to hide your pain to make other people comfortable. And you don't have to have the perfect words to deserve to be heard. ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧ 🌸 a little reminder for anyone struggling I know that mental health struggles can make it feel like you've lost so much of yourself. But I hope you remember that the parts of you that feel lost are not necessarily gone forever. You are still worthy of love, even on the days when you don't recognize yourself. You are still deserving of friendship, even when you don't have the energy to be present. You are still deserving of happiness, even when happiness feels far away. And you are still you, even when your mental health makes it difficult to feel that way. Healing isn't always about becoming the person you were before everything became difficult. Sometimes, it's about learning to love the person you are now. It's about finding little pieces of yourself again. It's about allowing yourself to change, to grow, to rest, and to take things one day at a time. And sometimes, it's simply about making it through today. That counts, too. ♡ ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧ 💭 a question for you... I'd really love to hear from anyone who feels comfortable sharing. What has your mental health taken from you that people don't realize? Maybe it's your confidence. Maybe it's your relationships, your happiness, your motivation, or your ability to enjoy the little things. Maybe it's a part of yourself that you miss dearly. Or maybe it's something that you've never felt comfortable talking about before. Whatever your answer may be, I hope you know that this is a space where your feelings matter. You don't have to share anything you're not comfortable with. But if you do choose to share, I hope you'll know that someone is listening. ♡ ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧ 🌷 A little reminder from Lex: 🌷 My PMs are always open. Whether you're having a difficult day, feeling overwhelmed, struggling with something you can't quite put into words, or simply wanting someone to talk to, I'm only ever a message away. And even if you don't have anything heavy to share... Even if you just want to say hi, tell me about your day, or have a little chat... I'm always here. ♡ You don't have to be struggling to reach out, and you don't have to have the perfect words. Sometimes, a simple hello is enough to begin. Sending so much love and kindness to everyone who needs a little extra today. You matter more than you know. 🌸 With love, Lex ♡ ୨୧ ─────────────── ୨୧
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♡ things we pretend don't hurt ♡
Newbie Hub / by LexListens2025
Last post
 Thursday
...See more hi everyone! 🤍 i've been thinking a lot lately about how much people can be struggling without anyone around them ever really knowing. how easy it can be to smile, laugh, make conversation, show up for other people, and carry on with your day while there's a whole other world of feelings happening inside you that nobody gets to see. i think sometimes we become so good at pretending we're okay that even the people closest to us don't realize when we're hurting. we learn how to laugh things off, change the subject, say "it's fine" when it really isn't, and reassure everyone else that we're doing okay because explaining what's actually going on feels like too much. and sometimes, we do it so often that people stop asking. not necessarily because they don't care, but because we've become so good at making our pain look like something that doesn't exist. ♡ 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 ☁️ the things we carry quietly i think one of the hardest parts of struggling with your mental health is how lonely it can feel, even when you're surrounded by people. you can have friends, family, people to talk to, and still feel like nobody truly sees what's happening inside your head. you can spend an entire day around other people and come home feeling completely alone. you can be the person everyone turns to when they're having a hard time, yet struggle to find the words to tell anyone when you're the one who needs support. sometimes you don't even know how to explain it yourself. you just know that something hurts, that you're tired in a way sleep doesn't seem to fix, or that the smallest things feel heavier than they should. and there's something especially difficult about going through something that other people can't see. when there's no obvious sign that you're struggling, it can feel like you have to keep proving to yourself that your pain is real. you might even find yourself minimizing it because someone else has it worse, or because you can still get out of bed, go to work, answer messages, and get through the day. but just because you're functioning doesn't mean you're not struggling. just because you can smile doesn't mean you're happy. and just because you haven't told anyone how much something hurts doesn't mean it hasn't hurt you. you don't have to fall apart in front of someone for your pain to count. 🫂 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 🩷 the masking we don't always talk about sometimes masking looks like being the funny friend because making everyone laugh is easier than explaining why you're sad. sometimes it looks like being the strong one because you're afraid of what might happen if people see you struggling. sometimes it looks like saying "don't worry about me" when you desperately wish somebody would. sometimes it looks like pretending a comment didn't hurt, pretending you aren't disappointed, pretending you don't miss someone, or acting like something doesn't matter because admitting how much it matters feels too vulnerable. maybe you've learned to smile when someone says something that breaks your heart. maybe you've learned to act unbothered when you feel rejected. maybe you've learned to pull away before anyone notices how badly you want them to stay. and maybe, somewhere along the way, you started believing that keeping everything to yourself was easier than letting someone see just how much you're hurting. i think we sometimes forget how exhausting it is to constantly manage how other people perceive us while we're already trying so hard to manage what's happening inside us. it's exhausting to be hurting and still feel responsible for making everyone else comfortable with your pain. it's exhausting to always say the right thing, keep the peace, avoid being a burden, and make sure nobody worries too much about you. and you deserve moments where you don't have to do any of that. moments where you can admit that something hurt you. where you can say that you're disappointed, lonely, overwhelmed, or scared without feeling like you have to apologize for having feelings. you deserve to be cared for even when you're not cheerful. you deserve support even when you can't explain yourself perfectly. you deserve people who make room for your difficult feelings, not just the parts of you that are easy to be around. 🤍 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 🌙 it's okay to admit that something hurts maybe there's something you've been trying really hard to convince yourself you're over. maybe you're still hurt by something someone said to you. maybe you're grieving a relationship that changed, a friendship that ended, or a version of yourself you miss. maybe you're disappointed in where life has taken you, or you're struggling with the feeling that everyone else is moving forward while you're just trying to get through the week. maybe you're tired of being strong. maybe you're tired of explaining yourself. maybe you're tired of pretending that things don't affect you because you don't want anyone to think you're too sensitive. whatever it is, i hope you know that you don't have to dismiss your own feelings just to make them easier for other people to understand. you can be understanding of someone's intentions and still acknowledge that they hurt you. you can love someone and still feel disappointed by them. you can be grateful for the good things in your life and still admit that some things are really hard right now. two things can be true at once. you can be making progress and still have difficult days. you can be healing and still feel hurt by what happened. you can be strong and still need someone to hold space for you. you don't have to pretend something didn't hurt just because you're trying to move forward from it. sometimes the first step toward feeling a little lighter is simply allowing yourself to be honest about what you're carrying. 🌷 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 💭 a gentle question for you... What are you pretending doesn't hurt? you don't have to share anything you're not comfortable with, and there's no pressure to have an answer. maybe it's something you've been keeping to yourself for a long time, something you laugh about even though it makes you sad, or something you wish someone would notice without you having to explain it. maybe it's a little thing that has been weighing on you more than people realize. maybe it's something much bigger. whatever comes to mind, your feelings are allowed to take up space here. you don't have to make your answer sound positive, turn it into a lesson, or pretend you've already made peace with it. sometimes we just need somewhere to admit, "this actually hurts me, and i'm tired of acting like it doesn't." and if nobody has reminded you lately, you don't have to carry everything quietly to be deserving of kindness. 🤍 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 💌 one last little reminder if you're reading this and things have been feeling a little too heavy lately, please know that you don't have to go through it all alone. my PMs are always open if you ever need a chat, a place to vent, or simply someone to listen without judgment. you don't need to have the right words, and you don't need to wait until things get really bad to reach out. sometimes it's enough to start with a simple "hey, i'm not doing too great today." please be gentle with yourselves, friends. you never know how much someone might be carrying behind their smile, and that includes you. you deserve the same patience, understanding, and compassion that you so freely give to everyone else. 🫂 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 you don't have to pretend you're okay to deserve a little tenderness. ♡
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I See You 🌸🦋
General Support / by LexListens2025
Last post
 October 23rd
...See more hi everyone! ♡ if we haven't met before, hi! i'm Lex. i'm a listener here on 7 Cups, and one of my favorite things about being here is getting to meet people from all different walks of life and being someone they can talk to when things feel a little too heavy. i've always wanted my listening space to feel like a place where you don't have to put on a happy face. you don't have to make your feelings sound pretty or explain them perfectly. you can ramble, cry, be confused, be angry, or be completely unsure of what you're feeling — and that's okay. sometimes we don't need someone to immediately fix everything. sometimes we just need someone to sit with us and say, "yeah... i can see why that hurts." 🤍 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 🧠 mental health can take more than people realize i think mental health is one of those things that's so much bigger than people realize. sometimes we talk about mental health as though it's just feeling sad or having a bad day, but for so many people, it's something that follows them into almost every part of their life. it can affect the way you wake up in the morning. the way you talk to yourself. the way you see yourself. the way you interact with people you love. the things you enjoy. the things you're able to do. the things you dream about. and sometimes, it takes things from us so quietly that we don't even notice at first. maybe you stopped doing something you used to love because you just don't have the energy anymore. maybe you stopped reaching out to people because talking feels exhausting. maybe you became quieter. maybe you're not as spontaneous as you used to be. maybe you don't laugh as much. maybe getting through the day has become your biggest accomplishment. 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 🌙 and sometimes... we grieve those things i think there can be a really strange kind of grief that comes with missing a version of yourself that feels so far away. you might look at old pictures or remember old memories and think, "i want to feel like that again." you might miss how excited you used to get about little things. you might miss having plans and actually looking forward to them. you might miss the friendships you had before your mental health became difficult. you might even grieve opportunities you couldn't take because you simply weren't okay enough at the time. and sometimes nobody else realizes you're grieving any of that. because from the outside, you might still look completely fine. you might still go to work. you might still go to school. you might still make people laugh. you might still answer "i'm good!" when someone asks how you're doing. but nobody sees the amount of effort it took to get there. they don't see the mornings where getting out of bed felt impossible. they don't see the thoughts you replay in your head. they don't see the exhaustion after pretending to be okay all day. they don't see how hard you're trying to keep everything together. 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 🫂 if you're struggling right now... i hope you can be gentle with yourself. you haven't failed because you're struggling. you aren't lazy because you don't have the energy you used to. you aren't a burden because you need support. and you don't have to constantly prove that you're struggling enough to deserve kindness. sometimes surviving the day is enough. sometimes taking a shower is enough. sometimes replying to one message is enough. sometimes simply staying here and getting through another day is enough. you are still you, even underneath all the things you've been carrying. 🌷 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 💭 so here's my question for you... What has your mental health taken from you that people don't realize? maybe it's something really big. maybe it's something that seems small to everyone else but has actually affected you deeply. maybe it's a hobby you stopped doing, a friendship you lost, a part of your personality that feels different, confidence you don't have anymore, experiences you feel like you missed, or simply the ability to enjoy life in the way you used to. whatever it is, i'd genuinely love to hear your thoughts. and if you're comfortable, maybe we can remind each other that we're not the only ones who have lost pieces of ourselves along the way. 🤍 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 💌 a little reminder and please remember that my PMs are always open if you ever need someone to talk to. you don't need to have a big reason, and you don't need to know what to say. you can literally just send me: "hey, i could use someone right now." and that's enough. 🫂 take care of yourselves, friends. drink some water, take a breath, give yourself a little kindness, and remember that you don't have to have everything figured out today. one day at a time. one breath at a time. one little step at a time. 🌙🤍 🌷 ───────────── 🌷 you deserve the same gentleness you give everyone else. ♡ 🌷 ───────────── 🌷
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🫶 I Understand 🫶
Newbie Hub / by LexListens2025
Last post
 October 24th
...See more hi, lovely humans. ☁️ if we haven't met yet, my name is Lex , and i'm one of the listeners here on 7 Cups. i just wanted to take a little moment to introduce myself and hopefully create a soft, cozy little corner of the community where you can feel welcome. ♡ being a listener means so much to me. i don't think listening is about having all the right answers or knowing exactly what someone should do. honestly, sometimes there isn't a perfect answer. sometimes someone just needs another person to sit beside them for a little while and say, "you don't have to go through this moment alone." as a listener, i want people to feel like they can come exactly as they are. you don't have to organize your thoughts before talking to me. you don't have to make your feelings sound reasonable. you don't have to pretend you're having a good day when you're really not. you can be messy, confused, emotional, quiet, or completely unsure of what you need. i'll still listen. 🤍 ₊˚ʚ 🌷 ɞ˚₊ that's one of the reasons i love 7 Cups so much. there's something really special about having a place where you can put down some of the things you've been carrying, even if it's just for a little while. mental health struggles can be so incredibly lonely. sometimes we can be surrounded by people and still feel completely alone inside our own heads. we can laugh with friends, go to work, go to school, answer messages, take care of other people, and somehow still be struggling underneath all of it. sometimes struggling looks like crying and feeling like you can't take one more thing. sometimes it looks like sleeping all day because you're exhausted. sometimes it's barely sleeping because your thoughts won't quiet down. sometimes it's overthinking every little thing you've said. sometimes it's feeling completely numb and not understanding why you don't feel anything at all. and sometimes it's simply saying "i'm fine" because you don't know how to explain that you're anything but. ₊˚⊹ ☁️ ⊹˚₊ i've had my own experiences with mental health struggles too, and i won't go too deeply into my own story, but i've learned firsthand how much it can mean to have someone genuinely listen. there have been moments where i've wished someone could just understand what i was feeling without me having to find the perfect words for it. i think that's something so many of us can relate to. sometimes we aren't asking someone to fix everything. we aren't asking them to make the pain disappear. we just want someone to notice. someone to say, "i can tell you're having a hard time." someone to say, "you don't have to explain everything." someone to say, "i'm here." and sometimes, those little words can mean more than people realize. 🌿 ₊˚ʚ 🫧 ɞ˚₊ being heard can feel like such a small thing, but when you're struggling, it can mean everything. there are times when you can feel invisible even when people are standing right beside you. you might wonder if anyone really notices how tired you are. you might feel like a burden for needing support. you might convince yourself that other people have bigger problems and that you should just keep your feelings to yourself. but you don't have to wait until you're completely falling apart before you're allowed to need someone. you deserve to be heard on the ordinary hard days, too. you deserve someone who will listen when you don't know what to say. you deserve kindness when you're overwhelmed. you deserve a space where you don't have to hide the parts of yourself that feel difficult or complicated. and even if someone can't completely understand what you're going through, your feelings are still real. your experiences still matter. you still matter. 🤍 ₊˚⊹ 🌸 ⊹˚₊ when you're talking to me, i want you to know that i see you as more than just the words on my screen. i see someone who has a whole life outside of this conversation. someone who has probably carried things other people don't know about. someone who has had good days, terrible days, little victories, setbacks, moments of hope, and moments where simply getting through the day was enough. i hear the things you're able to put into words, and i also understand that sometimes there are feelings underneath those words that are much harder to explain. you don't have to make yourself smaller here. you don't have to apologize for needing someone. you don't have to pretend you're okay for my sake. you can just be you. 🌷 ₊˚ʚ 🤍 ɞ˚₊ so, with all of that said, i'd love to leave you with a little question: ☁️ What's one thing you'd like someone to simply say, "I understand" to? maybe it's something you've been carrying for years. maybe it's something that happened recently. maybe it's something you don't even know how to explain yet. you don't have to share anything you're uncomfortable with. you can write a whole paragraph, a single sentence, or simply sit with the question for a little while. there's no right answer here. ♡ ₊˚⊹ 🌙 ⊹˚₊ and before you go, please remember that my PMs are always open. if you ever need somewhere to vent, talk, ramble, sort through your thoughts, or simply have someone sit and listen for a little while, i'm always just a PM away. no judgment. no pressure. you don't have to have the perfect words. just a safe little space to be heard. 🤍 please be gentle with yourself today, lovely. you deserve to be seen. you deserve to be heard. and you deserve to have someone remind you that what you're feeling matters. i'm glad you're here. 🌷☁️
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Hello, It’s Lex! 🌸🦋
Newbie Hub / by LexListens2025
Last post
 September 24th
...See more 🌷 Hi there, I’m Lex! Welcome in. ♡ ╭─────────────── ⋆｡°✩°｡⋆ ───────────────╮ A little corner to meet the listener behind the profile. A place where you don’t have to have the perfect words, explain everything perfectly, or pretend that you’re okay. 💙 ╰─────────────── ⋆｡°✩°｡⋆ ───────────────╯ Hi everyone! ♡ I thought I would take a little moment to properly introduce myself and share a bit about who I am as a listener here on 7 Cups. I’ve been a part of this community for quite some time now, and being a listener has become something incredibly meaningful to me. There is something so special about being able to sit with someone during a difficult moment and remind them that they don’t have to carry everything completely alone. I’m someone who genuinely loves listening. Not because I think I have all the answers I definitely don’t! but because I believe sometimes what we need most is simply a person who will stay, listen, and try to understand. 🌸 🦋 My listening style My approach to listening is very much centered around validation, empathy, patience, and understanding. I’m not here to tell you what you should do or immediately try to fix everything. Instead, I like to give you space to talk about what is actually going on inside your head and heart. Sometimes that means asking gentle, open-ended questions. Sometimes it means reflecting something back to you. Sometimes it means sitting with you in the messy feelings without trying to make them disappear. And sometimes… you just need to say, “Today was awful,” and have someone respond with, “Yeah, that sounds really hard.” And that's okay too. 🤍 You don't have to make your feelings sound reasonable before you share them with me. You don't have to apologize for taking up space. You don't have to worry about being “too much.” You are allowed to show up exactly as you are. 🌼 A little about my journey here Over time, I’ve had the opportunity to take on quite a few different roles within the 7 Cups community. I’ve been a Verified Listener, Peer Supporter, Adult Teen Listener (ATL), Chat Supporter, Listener Chatroom Supporter, Chatroom Mentor, Community Leader, Listener Verifier, Teen Chatroom Mentor, Community Moderator, Smile Spreader, and part of the Listener Coaching Team. I’ve also had the opportunity to mentor and support other listeners, including helping newer listeners find their footing and feel more confident in their own listening journeys. Every role has taught me something different, but one thing has stayed the same through all of them: I really, really love being here. 🫶🏻 I love watching someone come into a chat feeling completely overwhelmed and slowly feel a little lighter after being heard. I love seeing new listeners discover that they can make a difference. I love the little moments of connection that happen here — the ones that might seem small from the outside but can mean so much to the person experiencing them. 💌 A little milestone I’m proud of Over my time here, I’ve been incredibly lucky to receive 180+ reviews and a 5-star rating. ⭐️ Those numbers honestly mean a lot to me, but not because they feel like an achievement to collect. Each review represents a person who trusted me enough to share a small piece of their world with me. And that is something I never want to take for granted. Behind every number is a real person. A real conversation. A real moment where someone decided to reach out instead of keeping everything bottled up. That means so much more to me than any number ever could. 🌷 🕯️ So, what can you expect from me? You can expect me to meet you where you are. You can ramble. You can cry. You can be angry. You can be confused. You can say the same thing ten different ways because you don't know how else to explain it. You can tell me about the good things too! ♡ You don't have to come into a chat with a huge crisis. Maybe you're having a bad day. Maybe you need to vent about something tiny that has been bothering you all day. Maybe you just feel lonely and want some company. You are still welcome here. I want my chats to feel like a little safe corner where you can take a breath and let your guard down for a while. 🌙 I can't promise that I'll always know exactly what to say, but I can promise that I'll listen with care, treat your feelings seriously, and do my best to make sure you feel heard and respected. 🌸 If you need someone… If you're reading this because you're having a difficult day, feeling alone, or simply wishing you had someone to talk to, you are welcome here. You can comment below with anything you'd like to share, even if it's just a simple “I could use someone to talk to.” I'll do my best to get back to you as soon as I can. 💌 And if you'd rather keep things private, you're always welcome to message me directly when I'm available. You don't need to know exactly what you want to say. You don't need to have everything figured out. You don't need to make your feelings smaller. Just come as you are. 🤍 ╭─────────────── ⋆｡°✩°｡⋆ ───────────────╮ 🌷 A little reminder before you go: You are not a burden for needing someone. You are not “too much” for having feelings. And you don't have to go through every difficult moment completely by yourself. If you need a safe space to talk, there's always a place for you here. 🫶🏻 ╰─────────────── ⋆｡°✩°｡⋆ ───────────────╯ 💙 Come say hello below! Tell me something about yourself, share how your day is going, or simply leave a little hello. I'd love to meet you. 🌸 — Lex ♡
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Letting Go
General Support / by LexListens2025
Last post
 September 22nd
...See more 🌷 Learning to Let Go 🌷 🌸 ─────────────── 🌸 For those who don’t know me, I’m a listener here on 7 Cups, and I’ve been part of this community for 5 years now. 💗 7 Cups has become such a meaningful part of my life, and being able to give back to a place that has meant so much to me is something I’m incredibly grateful for. Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of listening to so many different people and hearing pieces of stories they may not feel comfortable sharing anywhere else. I never take it for granted when someone trusts me enough to let me into even a small part of their world. My listening style is very gentle, validating, and non-judgmental. You don’t have to have the perfect words or know exactly what you’re feeling before reaching out. Sometimes you just need someone to sit with you through the uncomfortable moments without trying to fix everything. That’s one of the things I love most about 7 Cups. There’s room here for the messy parts of being human. 🌷 🌸 ─────────────── 🌸 Sometimes mental health can make life feel heavier than it looks from the outside. You can be smiling, going to work or school, talking to people, and still feel completely exhausted inside. You can be fighting battles that nobody else knows about while constantly telling everyone that you’re “fine.” Sometimes we spend so much time trying to keep everything together that we forget how tired we actually are. Anxiety can make us overthink every little thing. Depression can make even simple tasks feel impossible. Low self-esteem can make us question whether we’re good enough. And sometimes our minds hold onto things that we desperately wish we could stop thinking about. When you’re already carrying so much emotionally, letting go can feel almost impossible. We can hold onto old memories, mistakes, people, feelings, or versions of ourselves because they feel familiar. Sometimes we even hold onto pain because part of us feels like we deserve to keep hurting over something we wish we had done differently. But letting go doesn’t mean saying that something didn’t matter. It doesn’t mean forgetting or pretending that something never happened. Sometimes letting go simply means accepting that we cannot change the past and slowly learning that we don’t have to keep punishing ourselves for it. 💭 What is something you’re still trying to make peace with? Maybe it’s something from your past. Maybe it’s a mistake you still think about, a relationship that ended, something you wish you had handled differently, or a version of yourself you miss. Whatever it is, you don’t have to have everything figured out yet. Sometimes making peace takes time. Sometimes we think we’ve moved on, only for an old feeling to come back. That doesn’t mean you’re back at the beginning. Healing isn’t always a straight line. 🫧 🌷 ─────────────── 🌷 And sometimes the hardest part of healing is being honest with ourselves. Mental health can make us hide parts of ourselves because we’re scared of being judged, misunderstood, or becoming a burden. We might say we’re okay because admitting we aren’t feels too scary. Sometimes we’re afraid to admit that we’re tired. That we’re hurting. That we miss someone. That we need help. That something still affects us. Or that the life we’re living isn’t the life we thought we wanted. 💭 What is something you’re afraid to admit, even to yourself? You don’t have to share anything you’re not comfortable with. This can simply be something you quietly think about for yourself. And if you’re struggling to admit something, please remember that acknowledging a feeling doesn’t make it stronger or make you weak. Sometimes being honest with ourselves is the first little step toward understanding what we need. 🌼 ─────────────── 🌼 If you’re carrying something heavy right now, please be gentle with yourself. You don’t have to let go of everything all at once. You don’t have to make peace with everything today. You don’t have to suddenly become okay just because you’ve been trying to heal. Sometimes one small step toward acceptance is enough. Sometimes getting through the day is enough. Sometimes simply saying, “I’m still working through this,” is enough. 🤍 Take your time. You’re allowed to heal at your own pace, and you’re allowed to have difficult days along the way. If you ever need someone to listen, my PMs are always open. You don’t have to carry everything alone. 💌
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Feedback & Reviews
Really kind and helpful 💕
So kind, empathetic...God really created her as a listener....made my day, gave me a new hope in life...the best listener on Earth
Very good at listening and validating my emotions when no one else did
Lex was amazing. She helped me come up with tips and ways to get thru guilt. Would def talk to her again. She helped a lot more than she may know.
Very sweet, and knows how to comfort people!
She was good person, she listened to me politely and helped me and given me motivations.
literally the best. listens, understands, cares and actually helps. also incredibly sweet and kind.
Such a very good, smart, kind, caring and observant listener!! I told her about my struggles, and she is so good at analyzing my struggles, by pointing out things that is your strength and she is very supportive!! I love her as my listener! I felt so much better and I feel so safe to finally talk to someone. Thank you again!
Very helpful, direct when needed, great listener and a understanding person.
She’s truly a very compassionate and understanding person. As someone that lived with guilt about my feelings and wondering if I was being too much, I felt like I was truly seen. 💗
she's simply amazing, I feel totally at ease knowing that i have an angel for a listener :)
She was great at listening to my struggles and validating my feelings. I felt able to say anything that went on without fear of judgement or negativity.
Amazing listener
Lex was very nice. She listened to me attentively and made me feel heard. I felt like I was talking to someone who understood what I was going through.
She’s a truly great listener
Very patient listener
Nice listener I am glad to have seen her patiently listen to my problem in detail I am very very thankful to talk to her
Very validating and compassionate. Thank you.
Was so nice and reassuring
Very intuitive, a calm person to chat too x 🌸
so cute.. the best..
she is so kind and so beautiful..
really good listener🤍
She made me feel heard and understood. She displays so much emotional awareness while being very understanding, compassionate and supporting at the same time. She is definitely unique and special with her approach. I have so much appreciation for our chat. Great listener (:
The best professional listener I love how she handled the situation 💕💕
You are a very compassionate, kind, and caring person. Thank you so much for listening and for your time.
Nice person and supportive
Nice to talk to
So supportive and so kind
Great listener!!
So attentive and cares for your story
Supportive. Kind ear. And it has been nice to feel empathy on the other side of the conversation. Thank you.
- bubbles very help, they help stop nightmares and give tips! thank you bubbles!! -
Great listener--thoughtful and kind!
Genuinely help me out and realize what I needed to do
Very sweet and helped a bit!
Very compassionate and understanding,it feels completely safe to talk with her ,and free from judge
amazing people.
She is wonderful!!❤️😊
She's officially the best listener.
Amazing. Thoughtful. Really listens and replies to your needs and situation. Blessing.
An extraordinarily amazing and kind person who's very understanding and helpful!
She is such a sweet and gentle friend
Amazing listener
Very Kind gave in dept answers and seemed like they genuinely cared was quick to respond when asking for a follow up weeks later the best example of a listener on 7cups
Very caring and compassionate ,makes you feel understood and seen ,feels like a friend and older sister ^^! Very nonjudgmental and gentle 🤍
She was really kind and empathetic. Also thank you for listening to me
I'm so thankful for the chat with her. She helped me arrange my thoughts and find solutions myself and I wa able to actively work on thing I was struggling with about my studies and able to apply. I can't believe how safe and un judged I felt. I had long messages that she considered so well and helped me collect those thoughts into productive things. I was able to go through the week so easy by first 2 chats with her and completed the task I was so worried about cause it could have wasted an year of mine in the first week of chat with her. But it's not about what she helped me solve cause that should not be something she should feel pressurised to do. But providing the space and maturity to help me feel so confident and able to do it. Thanks again, you are really thoughtful. I really appreciate the convo I had with you.💞💚
Bubbles seems like a great listener even for something he’s not been through or really good at talking about. He helped me talk through a situation and help me to get something off my chest so I don’t need therapy for certain things. Would highly recommend him! Seems very understanding and supportive and open to talk about most things.
She has been an outstanding listener, understood what I was going through and explained my feelings and feelings. I appreciated her honestly and willingness to listen patiently.
Really kind, patient and understanding
In my case,she answered quick she’s a great and amazing listener. I hope she will make me feel better about myself🥹❤️ i recommend her, she’s kind.
She finds the perfect words to respond, I've never felt as heard and relieved after talking than with her
Wonderful kind and empathetic listener truly understood what I was going through gave dietailed but easy to understand answers and helped me calm down.
One of the most amazing listeners I talked with 🩵💙
Amazing listener,had a great time talking to someone who actually understands what you are feeling, friendly and kind.
A very lovely and mindful listener!! Brightens my day and helps me feel calm and lighter , shows understanding ,genuine care and constantly checks in ^^🤍🤍🤍
Very nice and listen to me so well
Great listener, active and helps a lot
very helpful and kind. makes you feel heard and seen
Amazing listener, very helpful
Very kind person, gave me a lot of support and responded very quickly to my messages. Thank you very much 💕
Thank you bubbles. You are so sweet and kind and listen. I appreciate you much
Actually know what to say to make someone feel better and is very helpful
Good listener and answers quick
Truly wonderful, thoughtful and compassionate listener. 6 stars wouldn't be enough!
One of the most amazing people ever!!! So helpful and genuinely empathetic!
Patient and supportive; I truly felt heard
Great person, very kindhearted! So nice and caring!
its really good
very kind and gives long responses that shows that they actually listen, its hard for me to express my feelings but even in a short amount of time they helped me
Outstanding listener who devotes a lot of time to supporting members. There are a myriad of positive words that could be used to describe them; however, the most important one that comes to mind is amazing. - M217
Bubbles is a very understanding, nice and motivating listener
They are very much understanding & kind. One of my best listeners on cups, your amazing bubbles
She is very supportive and sweet
amazing listener, talked without judging, i feel like a weight has been lifted off my chest after talking to her
One of the best listeners ever~cas
Kind a doesn’t judge
Very kind and sweet and you can really feel the amazing vibes she gives off!🫶🏼🫶🏼
so understanding and no judgment at all
She's really caring and kind
Truly the most wonderful person ever and the most wonderful listener ever. This is the first time I feel like I am talking to someone who understands me. I am really very grateful to her, and I am not exaggerating, but she is truly the most wonderful person who has ever listened to me The best character literally listens to anyone ❤️❤️❤️ .
She was nice and friendly
Great listener. If you ever need someone nice and respectful to talk to, this is the person
bubbles is literally the best, from the start i felt extremely comfortable. she was very understanding honestly the best person ever.
She's really flexible and easy to talk to!
She was kind and supportive and had patience to hear.
Really sweet a nice. Helped me rethink a lot of things.
Lovely listener
Very thoughtful responses
Have never ever felt more understood by someone, honestly such an amazing person!🫶
Came across as compassionate, respectful and understanding. Made me feel better and provided helpful tips for dealing with anxiety
They so nice an understanding kind an fun make sure you will be comfortable in Thier chats n make you feel safe n warm ❤️
She is quite wholesome and nice
Really great listener😊bubbles puts effort and puts her heart into it.
Really kinda and patient she really helped me encouraged me that I got this and she’s very supportive that she would always be there for me 🩷
Such a wonderful person, genuinely kind and warm💗
Really dedicated to my struggle, more than understanding she is fun and finds a way to make telling my troubles comfortable
Really helpful, calming
Helpfull and sweet
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