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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

incognitoknight0101
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On Break! Responses could take 48 hrs or more. Till then have chocolates 🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫 Glad you are here. :) “The moth prefers the moon and detests the sun, while the butterfly loves the sun and hides from the moon. Every living creature responds to light. But depending on the amount of light you have inside, determines which lamp in the sky your heart will swoon." “Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars." “Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror. But you are eternity and you are the mirror."
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Heavenisforreal07
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Hi! I love helping people. If you're having a bad day send me a message. I would love to help and listen.
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sia1325
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-Inactive- Feel free to click here to check my farewell post!  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/DiscussionsSelfCareandResources_931/ListenersFarewellTakingaBreakReturningThreadSendYourRegards_37727/8/#2857905] ~Not accepting any member chat~ My name is Sia and I'm so glad to have you here! I may or may not relate to your situation, but I promise to try my best to understand what you are experiencing. I believe that having support is more valuable than having direct solutions to our problems and it would be my pleasure to support you in any way I can. I highly believe in acknowledging and reacting and once we acknowledge the problems & take steps towards them, we are two steps closer to improvement. My chats are always a non-judgmental, compassionate and safe place for everyone. I admire you so much for being there for yourself and reaching out for support. I may not be able to solve your problems, but I can surely be a companion on your path towards healing. Your feelings are valid and I truly believe in you, your inner self who believes that things will improve. You aren't alone and no matter how hard your current situation is, I am certain that you will overcome it. Stay you because you are truly wonderful. Much love! ♥  ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────   ~Few clickable resources that you may find useful~ | Crisis Resource [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis] | Runaway Safeline [https://www.1800runaway.org/] | Live through this [https://livethroughthis.org/] | RAINN [https://www.rainn.org/news/rainns-new-app-offers-support-anytime-anywhere] | IMAlive [https://www.imalive.org/] | Project Semicolon [https://projectsemicolon.com/] | Grounding Techniques [https://www.healthline.com/health/grounding-techniques] | Childline [https://www.childline.ie/] | HelpGuide [https://www.helpguide.org/] | Su*c*de Hotlines [http://www.suicide.org/] | Love is respect [https://www.loveisrespect.org/get-help/] |  Self-Harm Distraction [http://www.selfinjury-staging.com/perch/resources/distraction-techniques-pm-1.pdf] | Practicing Self-Love [https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-12428/10-wonderful-ways-to-practice-selflove.html] | The Trevor Project [http://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help-now/] | Overcoming negative thoughts [https://www.happify.com/] | Overcome Social Anxiety [https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/565957/tips-for-overcoming-social-anxiety-disorder] | Find Free Mental Health Services [https://www.healthyplace.com/other-info/mental-illness-overview/free-mental-health-services-and-how-to-find-them] | Self Help resources [https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/Resources/Looking-After-Yourself] | How To Get Control Over Thoughts [http://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/abcde.htm] | Dealing With Panic Attacks [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportShareYourStoryHowdoyoufeelrightnow_667/Panic_191059/] | Coping w/ flashbacks [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/flashbacks] | Warmline [https://warmline.org/] | Domestic Violence [https://www.thehotline.org/] | Self-Harm Alternatives [https://becausewecandothistogether.tumblr.com/alternativesforselfharm] | Calming and Relaxing Gifs [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Gifstohelpyourelaxandcalmyoudown_54192/1/] | Coping with Panic Attacks [http://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupportCommunity_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/TipstoCopewithaPanicAttack_50795/?notifyID=164697429] | Self-Care Techniques [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/selfcare] | Grounding101 [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/grounding101] | Dealing with teen depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/teenagers-guide-to-depression.htm] | Coping with depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/coping-with-depression.htm] | Showing love to yourself [https://www.7cups.com/forum/MindfulnessSupportCommunity_106/MindfulnessPracticesSkills_490/HowCanIShowLoveToMyself_101447/1/] | Self care [https://www.7cups.com/forum/BipolarSchizophreniaPsychosisSupport_63/BipolarSupport_589/SelfCare_207145/] | Boosting Self-esteem [https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/self-esteem.html] | Self-Harm Alternatives 2.0 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SelfHarmRecovery_65/InformationandResources_1079/SELFHARMALTERNATIVES_2480/] | Reducing Self- Injury [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/post/69035624465/its-not-as-simple-as-just-stop-a-guide-to-reducing] | Handling Anxiety Attacks [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/anxiety] | Self-Harm Alternatives and Distractions [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/alternatives] | Coping with loneliness [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupport_52/CopingwithLoneliness_599/CopingwithLoneliness_252302/] | Stress relief [https://www.pixelthoughts.co/] | Atlas of Emotions [http://atlasofemotions.org/] | Healthy Distractions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/SelfCareandResources_931/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317/] | Healthy living tips [https://www.anxietycanada.com/sites/default/files/HealthyLiving.pdf] | Bullying & Cyber Bullying [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/bullying-and-cyberbullying.htm] | Managing Anger [https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/anger-management.html] | Healthy sleep tips [https://www.sleepfoundation.org/sleep-hygiene/healthy-sleep-tips] | Healthy Relationships [https://www.thehotline.org/resources/healthy-relationships/] | Dealing w/ rejection [https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/a30719895/how-to-deal-with-rejection/] | (Click here to check out these resources in a document format) [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1icuMsYk9d2B1iUvDCI_nABXg-mhYMKTqzZmSuTcwxws/edit?usp=sharing] ( last updated January 2022   ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────  ~Some people I admire~ @beach120 @calmingMermaid5761 @EmmaE @Basorexiaaa @Mango3 @SillyGoose11 @optimisticMagic0014 @shiningSky3745 @considerateParadise6717 @kieran000 @Iamsidhere @mamtasha22 @ShiningStars1 @Jessrabbit7 @HelpfulGem04 @SeriouslyLey123 @itssoren @empatheticLavender2924 @VicK5123 @whenitsdarklookforstars @Greenchoice1 @BeautyOfGrace @thisisirene @MikuoniandBlueCheese @starmelon7 @HealingBrokenWIngs (in no particular order) ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────  My Past Involvements Active Listening Test 2 Grading Team, Care Team Guide, Chat Support and Peer Support, Doorkeeper, Forum Supporter, Global Chatroom Moderator, LDP Mentor, Listener Coach, Listener Chatroom Supporter, Listener Verifier, Safety Patrol Team Member, Teen Chatroom Star, Teen Community Star, Teen Quality Star and Teen Listener Coaching team Teen Star Leader  Click here to visit the most amazing person’s profile! [https://www.7cups.com/110900955]
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bookworm274
L Maven 3 334
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Not currently taking new member chats  Hi there! I'm bookworm274 but you can just call me bookworm, book or worm. My chat style: My chat times range from 20 minutes (typically a more casual chat) to 60 minutes. However, I am always happy to do longer chats as long as they have been scheduled. Please scroll down to the list that states the topics that I am comfortable taking before asking to chat with me, thank you. Status meanings: My status is typically on Red or Orange, I hardly ever have it on Green. So please feel free to send me a message no matter what colour my status is because I may be on the site! If I'm not on the site when you send me a message then I will get back to you in a minimum of 24 hours as I check 7 Cups at least once a day for messages!  My roles: Verified Listener - I have been verified for my active listening skills which means you can trust that I am a high quality listener! Project Agent - I am a Project Agent for the 7 Cups Leadership Community mainly focusing on the Needs Reply team as the team-lead and onboarding new Forum Supporters but also working on overall subcommunity areas. Listener Twins: @tami150 - my first 7Cups twin - if I'm unavailable check out her account. She's an amazing listener and person and super sweet and helpful!  @Azalea98  - my supportive twin - she's super amazing and is always there to support me!   
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chyni
L Expert 3 611
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“success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” —winston churchill 🦋🦋🦋 IMPORTANT NOTICE 📣  please DO NOT send me a message saying "hi" or "hey" as i normally overlook these messages as spam/nothing serious, and rarely reply or never. i also ask users to do this as it helps me to understand better about the topic we’d be speaking on, as i’m not comfortable discussing certain things. if you have an issue that you'd like to speak on, please send me a brief message stating your issue/s and I'll get back to you ASAP when I'm available, thank you. also, my chats are normally 30-60 mins, depending on you 😊  hello there, my name is chyni. welcome to my profile and to the 7 cups of tea site. there are a range of issues that i’m comfortable offering compassionate support for. these include:  anxiety •• breakups •• bullying •• chronic pain •• depression •• domestic violence •• loneliness •• managing emotions •• relationship stress •• social anxiety •• student life •• exercise motivation •• family stress •• forgiveness •• financial stress •• getting unstuck •• grief •• obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) •• panic attacks •• self-esteem •• spirituality •• work stress i am a trained and verified listener, my goal here while serving my time on the 7 cups of Tea site is to, change or help change patterns of your thinking or behavior that are behind your difficulties, and so, change the way you feel.  🦋🦋🦋 my leadership roles: peer support verified listener room supporter — depression support  forum supporter — motivation & accountability community  forum supporter — 7 cups academy community  chatroom supporter — listener support room  🦋🦋🦋 i don’t have a specific time for my availability, it’s whenever my status indicates that i’m available. if the status color is green, it means that i’m online, yellow– busy, and red– offline.  i look forward to chatting with you and understanding how best I can help you.  best wishes, chyni 🤍
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RationalMe7
L Discoverer 4 430
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Hi There! I am available for member chats on weekends (Saturday and Sunday). I can give you 30 minutes to 1 hour of my time depending upon your issue. As a listener, my aim is to give you emotional support without bias, judgement or any form of advice. Topics I love to discuss: - Spirituality - Growth Mindset - Hopefulness Always remember - Hope is a good thing. Maybe the best of the things and no good thing ever dies! Please give me 48 hours to respond to your messages. In case you need urgent assistance, kindly go here: Crisis [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis].
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HopefulBambi
L Specialist 2 416
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Izzy274
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Hi, I’m Izzy. I used to be very active on 7 Cups a couple years ago, and helped out in many different leadership positions, hence the large number of badges you can see on my profile. I am no longer in these positions, please reach out to a current mentor if you are a listener seeking support 💕. I’m rejoining 7 cups because I want to be able to make a difference. Over the past few years I’ve learned a lot about mental health through my own personal struggles, and I know the power that having someone to listen to you holds. I’m not here to solve your problems. That’s almost certainly something I cannot do. But if you’d like to chat something through, bounce ideas off a buddy or simply get something off your chest, feel free to shoot me a message. I am happy to talk about most topics aside from those sexual in nature. I have most lived experience with: eating disorders, anxiety, social anxiety and depression. I am also autistic and asexual so am happy to support neurodivergent individuals and those who are part of the LGBTQ+ community :).
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Daf8
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Note: My mental health has been low and I'm trying to slowly get back to my normal Cupsing. If I didn't reply to you yet, please know that I will as soon as I can. *Sending hugs and love* <3 ❤️ ¡Hola! ❤️ ❤️ Me llamo Daf. ❤️ ❤️ Soy una chica que ama estar acá para vos. ❤️ ❤️ No puedo solucionar tu vida, pero prometo apoyarte tanto como pueda. ❤️ Sobre mí: ❤️ He pasado por muchas cosas, por lo que comprendo y valido que te sientas como te sentís. ❤️ ❤️ Entre otras cosas, padezco síntomas de depresión, ansiedad y estrés. ❤️ ❤️ Sé y entiendo que no es fácil, y no voy a intentar convencerte de lo contrario. ❤️ ❤️ Básicamente, soy la rara de la clase. La introvertida, la que canta cuando nadie la escucha, la que devora libros, la mejor amiga de los/as gatos/as, y la amiga que siempre te respeta y está para apoyarte. Si me lo permitís, seré esa amiga. ❤️ ❤️ Mis conversaciones tienen un único objetivo: apoyarte tanto y como pueda. ❤️ ❤️ Entiendo que estás pasando un momento realmente difícil, con todo lo que eso trae. ❤️ Estados: ❤️ Cuando mi estado se representa con el color rojo, significa que no estoy, y no voy a responder inmediatamente. Sin embargo, ¡podés enviarme mensajes! Me encantará recibirlos, y contestaré cuando pueda hacerlo. ❤️ ❤️ Cuando mi estado se representa con el color naranja, significa que estoy, aunque hay posibilidades de que no responda inmediatamente. ❤️ ❤️ Cuando mi estado se representa con el color verde, significa que estoy de forma total: ¡escribime! Me encantará leerte y responderte. ❤️ ¡¡¡¡ATENCIÓN!!!! IMPORTANTE: ❤️ Estoy para vos ❤️ ❤️ Hi! ❤️ ❤️ My name is Daf. ❤️ ❤️ I'm a girl who loves to be here for you. ❤️ ❤️ I can't solve your life, but I promise to support you as much as I can. ❤️ About me: ❤️ I have been through many things, so I understand and validate that you feel the way you feel. ❤️ ❤️ Among other things, I have symptoms of depression, anxiety and stress. ❤️ ❤️ I know and understand that it is not easy, and I will not try to convince you otherwise. ❤️ ❤️ Basically, I'm the weirdest in class. The introvert, the one who sings when nobody listens to her, the one who devours books, the best friend of cats, and the friend who is respectful and always there to support you. If you allow me, I will be that friend. ❤️ ❤️ My conversations have only one objective: to support you in any way and as much as I can. ❤️ ❤️ I understand that you are having a really difficult time, with all that that brings. ❤️ Status: ❤️ When my status is represented with red, it means that I am not here, and I will not respond immediately. However, you can send me messages! I will love to receive them, and I will reply whenever I can. ❤️ ❤️ When my status is represented with orange, it means that I am here, although there are chances that I will not respond immediately. ❤️ ❤️ When my status is represented with green, it means that I am totally here: message me! I will love to read and respond to you. ❤️ ATTENTION!!!! IMPORTANT: ❤️ I am here for you ❤️
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unique73
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“Asking for help is never a sign of weakness. It's one of the bravest things you can do. And it can save your life.” - Lily Collins  Hi there! I am unique73 (as my username suggests), I also go by Aanya, and I am passionate about helping others who may be struggling with mental health problems. I believe that sometimes the most powerful way to help someone is simply to listen to them. I also believe that reaching out and asking for help is one of the bravest things a person can do. I am a compassionate and empathetic listener with a deep passion for mental health and wellness.  Having struggled with my own mental health challenges in the past and still struggling (manageable) I understand the importance of having someone to talk to who can provide a safe and non-judgmental listening ear. As a listener, I am committed to providing a safe and supportive space to share your feelings and thoughts.  I have more than 2 years of experience in listening on 7 cups and supporting others outside of cups too, whether it’s been as a friend, a family member, or simply a listening ear for someone in need. I have had my fair share of life and yet to experience a lot more. I get that everyone is unique and everyone’s journey of life is different. I am open to listening to your life experiences, views, struggles, insights, anything. I am also open to casual chats as long as they are appropriate and abide with the site guidelines. I understand and relate to not being able to talk and still need someone to be there for you, I assure you that I can be your companion in silence too. <3  If you feel I can provide you the space you need, feel free to reach out. I am available to chat mostly on weekends around afternoon (IST time zone). I keep my status online (green) if I am available to take a chat, if my status is busy (orange) my replies will be late, I try to give my undivided attention to the person I am listening at a time, and if my status is offline (red) I am not logged in to the website, you may expect my replies within 48 hrs. Looking forward to having a conversation with you.  Take care and have a great day/night/evening ahead.    “Your acts of kindness are iridescent wings of divine love, which linger and continue to uplift others long after your sharing.” ― Rumi
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Eloja3
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Hello! My name is Eloja :) A chat with me will be without any judgment and don't be scared to talk to me about anything! (Except the topics mentioned below) I am experienced with several mental health issues, which you can see under my profile. However, I can always provide a listening ear, when you feel like no one else will, experience or not. I only want the best for you  If you see that I'm online, I'm available for chatting with you! Topics I can't provide support with: - PTSD/trauma - Domestic violence - Addiction issues  
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YourFriend247
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Namaste🙏  You can call me "Friend" or whatever you want. I'm just a text away, I will try to reply asap. (not taking serious chats) Thankyou.  
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