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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

incognitoknight0101
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On Break! Responses could take 48 hrs or more. Till then have chocolates 🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫 Glad you are here. :) “The moth prefers the moon and detests the sun, while the butterfly loves the sun and hides from the moon. Every living creature responds to light. But depending on the amount of light you have inside, determines which lamp in the sky your heart will swoon." “Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars." “Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror. But you are eternity and you are the mirror."
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chyni
L Expert 3 611
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“success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” —winston churchill 🦋🦋🦋 IMPORTANT NOTICE 📣  please DO NOT send me a message saying "hi" or "hey" as i normally overlook these messages as spam/nothing serious, and rarely reply or never. i also ask users to do this as it helps me to understand better about the topic we’d be speaking on, as i’m not comfortable discussing certain things. if you have an issue that you'd like to speak on, please send me a brief message stating your issue/s and I'll get back to you ASAP when I'm available, thank you. also, my chats are normally 30-60 mins, depending on you 😊  hello there, my name is chyni. welcome to my profile and to the 7 cups of tea site. there are a range of issues that i’m comfortable offering compassionate support for. these include:  anxiety •• breakups •• bullying •• chronic pain •• depression •• domestic violence •• loneliness •• managing emotions •• relationship stress •• social anxiety •• student life •• exercise motivation •• family stress •• forgiveness •• financial stress •• getting unstuck •• grief •• obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) •• panic attacks •• self-esteem •• spirituality •• work stress i am a trained and verified listener, my goal here while serving my time on the 7 cups of Tea site is to, change or help change patterns of your thinking or behavior that are behind your difficulties, and so, change the way you feel.  🦋🦋🦋 my leadership roles: peer support verified listener room supporter — depression support  forum supporter — motivation & accountability community  forum supporter — 7 cups academy community  chatroom supporter — listener support room  🦋🦋🦋 i don’t have a specific time for my availability, it’s whenever my status indicates that i’m available. if the status color is green, it means that i’m online, yellow– busy, and red– offline.  i look forward to chatting with you and understanding how best I can help you.  best wishes, chyni 🤍
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Daf8
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Note: My mental health has been low and I'm trying to slowly get back to my normal Cupsing. If I didn't reply to you yet, please know that I will as soon as I can. *Sending hugs and love* <3 ❤️ ¡Hola! ❤️ ❤️ Me llamo Daf. ❤️ ❤️ Soy una chica que ama estar acá para vos. ❤️ ❤️ No puedo solucionar tu vida, pero prometo apoyarte tanto como pueda. ❤️ Sobre mí: ❤️ He pasado por muchas cosas, por lo que comprendo y valido que te sientas como te sentís. ❤️ ❤️ Entre otras cosas, padezco síntomas de depresión, ansiedad y estrés. ❤️ ❤️ Sé y entiendo que no es fácil, y no voy a intentar convencerte de lo contrario. ❤️ ❤️ Básicamente, soy la rara de la clase. La introvertida, la que canta cuando nadie la escucha, la que devora libros, la mejor amiga de los/as gatos/as, y la amiga que siempre te respeta y está para apoyarte. Si me lo permitís, seré esa amiga. ❤️ ❤️ Mis conversaciones tienen un único objetivo: apoyarte tanto y como pueda. ❤️ ❤️ Entiendo que estás pasando un momento realmente difícil, con todo lo que eso trae. ❤️ Estados: ❤️ Cuando mi estado se representa con el color rojo, significa que no estoy, y no voy a responder inmediatamente. Sin embargo, ¡podés enviarme mensajes! Me encantará recibirlos, y contestaré cuando pueda hacerlo. ❤️ ❤️ Cuando mi estado se representa con el color naranja, significa que estoy, aunque hay posibilidades de que no responda inmediatamente. ❤️ ❤️ Cuando mi estado se representa con el color verde, significa que estoy de forma total: ¡escribime! Me encantará leerte y responderte. ❤️ ¡¡¡¡ATENCIÓN!!!! IMPORTANTE: ❤️ Estoy para vos ❤️ ❤️ Hi! ❤️ ❤️ My name is Daf. ❤️ ❤️ I'm a girl who loves to be here for you. ❤️ ❤️ I can't solve your life, but I promise to support you as much as I can. ❤️ About me: ❤️ I have been through many things, so I understand and validate that you feel the way you feel. ❤️ ❤️ Among other things, I have symptoms of depression, anxiety and stress. ❤️ ❤️ I know and understand that it is not easy, and I will not try to convince you otherwise. ❤️ ❤️ Basically, I'm the weirdest in class. The introvert, the one who sings when nobody listens to her, the one who devours books, the best friend of cats, and the friend who is respectful and always there to support you. If you allow me, I will be that friend. ❤️ ❤️ My conversations have only one objective: to support you in any way and as much as I can. ❤️ ❤️ I understand that you are having a really difficult time, with all that that brings. ❤️ Status: ❤️ When my status is represented with red, it means that I am not here, and I will not respond immediately. However, you can send me messages! I will love to receive them, and I will reply whenever I can. ❤️ ❤️ When my status is represented with orange, it means that I am here, although there are chances that I will not respond immediately. ❤️ ❤️ When my status is represented with green, it means that I am totally here: message me! I will love to read and respond to you. ❤️ ATTENTION!!!! IMPORTANT: ❤️ I am here for you ❤️
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Jackpot1066
L Discoverer 6 587
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Whats up guys! I'm Jake, I’m 21. I know life stinks sometimes, if you need to talk, I'm here. I love all you guys. I'll take any chat, I might not be able to help, but I promise I will listen and be your friend. If you just want to talk or make a new friend, I'm here for you guys too. I specialize in student life, relationship, and abuse topics, but I will talk about anything! I just want to see you happy. If you need assistance immediately, call 1-800-273-8255
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dtanushree
L Virtuoso 9 2231
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“Gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul.” – Henry Ward Beecher Would you like to appreciate a fellow listener/member? Click on this button below 👇and appreciate them for spreading love, compassion and kindness in their own unique ways in this community. Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Chats which I do NOT take: Loneliness Sexual health Self harm *Please pm me to schedule a chat* Warning: If you're here for inappropriate chats, you're on the wrong site. This place is not for those purposes. Thank you for reading my bio. You're always welcome to pm me and I'll try to reply you as soon as possible. I hope you find all the help you need on cups.  🍁 About me: I'm a Listener since 2018. I've been in to many leadership roles. Now I only focus on being a listener here. I love to listen without judgement, validate your feelings and be there for you as a friend. 🧸 *sends bear huggss to all those who need one*
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softBubbles64
L Scholar 1 353
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"When lyf gives u lemons, make Fanta and party!" Hello! How you doing! Good? Bad? Well if it's good, tell me all abt it! Afterall, happiness doubles up when you share! Bad? No worries! Rant away to me as much as you like! I can't promise to solve your problem for you but I can definately be your support as you work your way through on your own! #IGotYourBack ### I love helping and caring for people but I also care for my own mental health too. I don't want to sound disrespectful but I do not encourage chats involving sexual problems. And to those, who are here for sex chats and trolling, please don't. There r a lot of other sites out there to fulfill your fantasies. Atleast leave this place for the vulnerable ones.😊
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carefreeNarwhal88
L Connoisseur 7 965
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Hi. I'm here to help you feel better. This is a judgment free area, only love and support is offered here. Your feelings are valid, whatever reason has brought you around here is tremendously important.  Not going anywhere until I see your smile! 😃 When your dreams come alive you're unstoppable take a shot, chase the sun, find the beautiful, we will glow in the dark turning dust to gold and we'll dream..it possible
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FrenchToast
L Virtuoso 2 1460
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Please note that I am no longer an active ambassador. Hello everyone, I'm Toast! Welcome to 7 Cups and my profile :) I try my best to contribute positively to the community. Unfortunately, at this time, I do not have the time to take up regular member chats. I do have some occasional times that I might be able to, but my status will be green at that time and I only take one-off chats so if you are looking for long-term support, please reach out to another listener. I also only do 60-minute-long chats. But otherwise, my other life commitments restrict me from responding in a timely manner. Please look at my profile for topics I am and I am not comfortable with. That being said, my PMs are always open! I will get back to you as soon as I can, please bear with me on my response time. Feel free to always resend a message if need be! ------------------------- {the undercurrent pulls my body it sweeps pulling my out its anger it keeps the undercurrent draws a turbulent tempt it tumbles my heart with vehement intent the undercurrent rages But I'm sturdy and strong adept in the water for that's where I belong the undercurrent subsides I'm floating serene my eyes see the sun I still live, I still dream -Eileen Manassian, "The deleted poems". } ------------------------- "Our wounds are often the openings into the best and the most beautiful part of us." -David Richo
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Eloja3
L Apprentice 7 158
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Hello! My name is Eloja :) A chat with me will be without any judgment and don't be scared to talk to me about anything! (Except the topics mentioned below) I am experienced with several mental health issues, which you can see under my profile. However, I can always provide a listening ear, when you feel like no one else will, experience or not. I only want the best for you  If you see that I'm online, I'm available for chatting with you! Topics I can't provide support with: - PTSD/trauma - Domestic violence - Addiction issues  
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YourFriend247
L Proficient 4 728
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Namaste🙏  You can call me "Friend" or whatever you want. I'm just a text away, I will try to reply asap. (not taking serious chats) Thankyou.  
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YellowButton223
L Intermediate 8 226
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CURRENTLY UNAVAILABLE I am a highly trained, verified active listener happy to support you. Please be aware that I am based in the UK so due to time zone restrictions I might not be the best listener to support you right now.
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herealways27
L Pinnacle 11 559
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Hello there, I’m Herealways27! I’ve been a Listener on 7 Cups since October 2018, and I was or currently am having the following roles in the community: ·       Verified Listener: I have been Verified by the community based on my commitment to active listening skills and quality chatting. ·       Listener Verifier: I can conduct mock chats with Listeners who want to be verified. I can help prepare, offer resources and tips before the actual mock chat. ·       Safety Patrol: I can flag profiles with an inappropriate profile picture, username, or bio text. Please give me a message if you know one and need help reporting! ·       Quality Teen Star: I can mentor Listeners who have difficulties with any active listening skills on 1-on-1 chats with members. My goal is to improve listener quality and confidence. ·       Translation Project Proofreader: I’m helping to translate 7 Cups to Vietnamese! ·       Intern Graduate: I’ve graduated from 7 Cups Internship Community Track on June 2020 with Honors. ~ A little bit about me: ·       I’m currently 17 years old and a senior in high school in California, US. ·       I’m 150% fluent in Vietnamese!! 😊 I'm also self-learning Korean currently 😊 ·       I enjoy reading and writing about true crimes! I also write a blog about them! ·       I aim to be a future PA! <3 ·       My favorite singers and bands are Sunmi, Stray Kids, Blackpink, (G)I-DLE, Travis Scott, The Weeknd, The Neighbourhood and Don Toliver <3 <3 <3 Please reach out to me with any questions you might have and I will try my best to reply as soon as possible! 😊 Also, feel free to drop in to discuss any interest <3
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