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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

starryCandy6123
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I am 67 year old male i live with my 3 cats I am I a relationship with a wonderful woman . I have just been passed as a verified listener. I have began to reconnect with reiki this week
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DanCat1128
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╭──────༺♡༻──────╮ 𝐻𝑖 𝐼'𝑚 𝐷𝑎𝑛𝑑𝑎𝑛!  𝐼 𝑤𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑠𝑎𝑦. 𝑀𝑦 𝑏𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑎𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑠 𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑙𝑢𝑑𝑒 𝑛𝑜 𝑠𝑒𝑥𝑢𝑎𝑙 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑡𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑎𝑛𝑦 𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑑, 𝑛𝑜 𝑑𝑒𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑡𝑠 𝑎𝑠 𝑖𝑡 𝑒𝑓𝑓𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑠 𝑚𝑦 𝑚𝑜𝑜𝑑𝑠. 𝑀𝑦 ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑓𝑟𝑜𝑚 𝑚𝑖𝑑𝑛𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑡𝑜 8𝑎𝑚 𝑒𝑠𝑡. ✧༺♥༻✧ 𝐼 𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑦 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑔𝑢𝑖𝑡𝑎𝑟 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑝𝑖𝑎𝑛𝑜. 𝐼 𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑦 𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑛𝑖𝑠. 𝐼 𝑔𝑟𝑎𝑑𝑒 𝑝𝑎𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑠 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑚𝑜𝑚, 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑘 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑜𝑙𝑑𝑒𝑟 𝑔𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑤ℎ𝑜 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑑𝑖𝑠𝑎𝑏𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑒𝑠. 𝐼 𝑎𝑚 𝑎𝑛 𝑎𝑟𝑚𝑦 𝑏𝑟𝑎𝑡. 𝐼 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 8 𝑠𝑖𝑏𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑠 𝑎𝑛𝑑 1 𝑛𝑖𝑒𝑐𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 1 𝑛𝑒𝑝ℎ𝑒𝑤. ✧༺♥༻✧ 𝑀𝑦 𝑟𝑜𝑙𝑒𝑠 𝑎𝑟𝑒 🐱 𝐴𝑐𝑎𝑑𝑒𝑚𝑦 𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑜𝑟 (𝐼𝑛𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑛𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑝)  🐱 𝐴𝑐𝑎𝑑𝑒𝑚𝑦 𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑜𝑟 (𝑞𝑙𝑝 𝑞𝑢𝑎𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑦  𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑝𝑟𝑜𝑔𝑟𝑎𝑚)  🐱 𝐴𝑇𝐿 (𝑎𝑑𝑢𝑙𝑡 𝑡𝑒𝑒𝑛 𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟)  🐱 𝐶ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑆𝑢𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑒𝑟 🐱 𝐿𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟 𝐷𝑖𝑠𝑐𝑢𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑇𝑒𝑎𝑚 🐱 𝑃𝑒𝑒𝑟 𝑆𝑢𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑒𝑟 🐱 𝑅𝑜𝑜𝑚 𝑆𝑢𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑒𝑟 (𝑃𝑜𝑠𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑣𝑖𝑡𝑦 𝐶𝑜𝑟𝑛𝑒𝑟)  🐱 𝑉𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑓𝑖𝑒𝑟𝑠 𝑇𝑒𝑎𝑚 ╰──────༺♡༻──────╯
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JustSophia
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I'm an older woman with lots of compassion, and I'm comfortable talking about a variety of mental health issues.  I've been through a lot with my own bipolar disorder so I can offer real empathy.  Message me if you'd like to chat.  Please note:  I will not tolerate explicit or inappropriate sex talk. Green status indicator = Available to chat.  Orange status indicator = Online but busy. I will respond as soon as I can.  Red status indicator = I am unavailable but you are welcome to leave me a message.  "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."  - Thomas Edison
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ChillingRain
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Back from my long self-care break.  Please read my bio before messaging me. Heya. I'm Rain. It's very nice meeting you! I'm a college student from Turkey. Despite my young age I have been through a lot journeying life, so I promise to offer a compassionate and judgment-free environment in our chats. I commend your courage and strength: reaching out for support is never easy!  **As listed on my profile, I only offer support chats in English. Although I am fluent in more languages, I have taken my training in English, thus I feel comfortable offering support in that language.** **I am quite busy lately and most likely won't find the time to reply to any new member requests.** Topics I am most comfortable offering support with: - Anxiety & Anxiety Attacks - Depression - Panic Attacks - Break-Ups - Self-Harm - Domestic Abuse - Relationship Stress Topics I prefer not to discuss: - LGBTQIA+ Issues - Personality Disorders - Schizophrenia - Grief - Politics or religion.  **Please note; I prefer not to discuss these topics since they are triggering for me so I am not equipped to offer support with them.** Graduate of Quality Listening, Leadership Development, and Internship with honors.  Listener Twins: @Ralien! Amazing listener and a great friend! Ralien is super supportive and always willing to improve. Like an Oriental Lilly!  ✧⁠◝⁠(⁠⁰⁠▿⁠⁰⁠)⁠◜⁠✧(⁠´⁠∩⁠。⁠•⁠ ⁠ᵕ⁠ ⁠•⁠。⁠∩⁠`⁠) @LittleBirdie30 Best team leader ever! One of the nicest people I've talked to. You're a Lilly of the Valley! (⁠◠⁠‿⁠・⁠)⁠—⁠☆(⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠) @Lunaire00 Extraordinarily kind person! And an excellent Listener Verifier. You're like an Azalea flower! (⁠♡⁠ω⁠♡⁠ ⁠)⁠ ⁠~⁠♪(⁠ ⁠´⁠◡⁠‿⁠ゝ⁠◡⁠`⁠) @SirenOfSerenity If Siren was a chemical substance they'd be Thaumatin. Extremely sweet! (⁠。⁠・⁠ω⁠・⁠。⁠)⁠ノ⁠♡(⁠人⁠ ⁠•͈⁠ᴗ⁠•͈⁠) @KindnessMatters2020 Best Mentor I could ask for! If they were a flower, they'd be a Jasmine; graceful and sweet. (⁠☆⁠▽⁠☆⁠)(⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠♡ @Suryansh I don't know how a human being can be so sweet and easy to approach. Surya is amazing, like a Nicotiana! (⁠ ⁠ꈍ⁠ᴗ⁠ꈍ⁠)(⁠*⁠˘⁠︶⁠˘⁠*⁠)⁠.⁠。⁠*⁠♡ @AuRewolf My amazing peer, Wolf. Like a Sweet William, your presence lights up each group support room you're in! (⁠◡⁠ ⁠ω⁠ ⁠◡⁠)⊂⁠(⁠´⁠・⁠◡⁠・⁠⊂⁠ ⁠)⁠∘⁠˚⁠˳⁠° @FaithfulZareia Your presence in TL lights up the room! I'd say you're like a Anise Hyssop! Sweet, super helpful and kind, and just gorgeous! (⁠☆⁠▽⁠☆⁠)⊂⁠(⁠•⁠‿⁠•⁠⊂⁠ ⁠)⁠*⁠.⁠✧ My Leadership Roles: - Adult-Teen Listener - Care Team Project Agent - Chatroom Mentor (for adult and teen side) - Chat Support (for adult and teen side) - Peer Support - Doorkeeper - Listener Community Discussions Host (on break) - Anonymous Evaluations Team (former role) - Listener Verifiers' Team (former role)
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CaringSub
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Hello everyone! I'm here to give a safe, non-judgmental space, where you can be yourself with what is going on for you - past. present, future(?). We go where you want to go, at your pace. Anxiety, depression, general mental health support, etc. Please refer to my general list of areas of support. *Providing a few words, of what/why you are seeking support for, when requesting a personal request is very helpful, to try and determine a good fit for support.*    I do not respond to personal requests of  just "hi" or "hello", without a few  words of 'why' you are reaching out (as just stated).  I have lived with GAD, depression, grief throughout my life.  I am LGBTQ2S (She/Her, They/Them), trans ally, nominal kink/bdsm aware,  sex-positive, pineapple support friendly, First Nations/Indigenous ally (Canada), older persons aware. I have volunteered on a community phone line (LGBTQ-focused, but open to all), assisting callers with a variety of issues. I hope my experience can help with whatever you are facing, no matter how you identify, or whatever you may be facing....anxiety, depression, loneliness, LGBTQ2S, general kink issues, alcohol issues, work /career issues, general mental health, etc., in a supportive environment.  I am here to listen & help you through whatever you may be experiencing.  
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TheOnlyChresser
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Hi, im Chresser. ^_^ I like to read psychology books, play Hypixel Skyblock, learn, chat and hear music :P. *insert funny about me*
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sky2Ocean20
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Response time for New member/listener-PM: 24-48 hours (Avoid sending just "Hi". Let me know why you want to connect) I might not be available for live chat. Please reach out to live-available listeners whenever you need. You deserve it. 💛 Response time for previously connected member/listener-PM: I will be looking forward to your updates. Feel free to leave one.  **I DO NOT TAKE SEXUAL CHATS** ------------------------- A little "appreciation" sometimes does quite as much good as all the conscientious "bringing up" in the world. Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Use the button down below and you can appreciate the peer you admire or yourself for providing so much love and support :  Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] ------------------------- 🍀 My roles here on 7 Cups 🌼 Internship- Academy Outreach project Agent  🌼 Peer appreciation team 🌼 Gratitude Rain team 🌼 Room supporter for "support room 24/7" 🌼 Community Mentor for  "General support" 🌼 safety patrol team ___________ Background I was a previous member of this community. when I had no one to rely on, people I have met through this app supported me and gave me immense hope that tough times are temporary and we can go through the ups and downs of life. Quitting is not the solution.  After my recovery and ongoing healing, I decided to come back here as a listener and do my part as a form of giving back to this universe.  ------------------------- 🌻🌻 You are worthy of happiness and peace of mind. 🌻🌻 💛 🌻🌻Taking care of your mental health is an act of self-love. 🌻🌻
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daydreammemories
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Hi ~Just a human being 🌿 (Currently accepting new member buddies, feel free to reach out. It's a pleasure to talk to you all😄) ------------------------- I'll be there for you              When the rain starts to pour ; ) " There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? " Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧ ------------------------- Dear fellow reader, how have you been? 😊 I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile. We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow. I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones. I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise. ------------------------- Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol) ✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story. ✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy. ✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s. ✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them. ✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually. ✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can. ------------------------- About me: 🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college.  🕊️I love learning new languages. 🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking. 🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre.  🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows. 🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷. 🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚.  🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better.  May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇 “Message in a bottle is all I can do Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕
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iPHOENIX
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"Whether we remain the ash or become the Phoenix is up to us." - Ming-Dao Deng. ------------------------- Hello, this is PHOENIX. Pronouns: He/Him/His. Personality Type: Mediator Personality, INFP-A / INFP-T ------------------------- ഏവർക്കും സ്വാഗതം  ------------------------- I am a trained active listener in 7cups, very passionate about Psychology, and always open to learning something new. If there is any way I can help I'll gladly do that and/or stay there and listen, I can assure you that I won't judge even if I have a different opinion or belief. ------------------------- On 7cups, I am: * Verified Adult - Teen Listener (ATL)  * Quality Mentor * Chat Supporter * Anonymous Evaluation Team Member * Safety Patrol Team Member & SPOT Grading Team Member * Quality Listening Program Graduate (with Honors) 🎓 * Leadership Development Program Graduate (with Honors) 🎓 ------------------------- I might be seen online most of the time even when am at work. But it may take me some time to respond if I am at work. Please don't expect immediate responses. ------------------------- Time for me right now [https://time.is/IST] ------------------------- 𝘔𝘺 𝘈𝘸𝘦𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘓𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳 𝘛𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘯𝘪𝘦:  @YourCaringConfidant ------------------------- “It always seems impossible until it is done.”  - Nelson Mandela
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crypticwhisperss1
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Hello everyone! My name is Xaverie. My pronouns are she/her. It's nice to meet you!  I have decided to join this community to offer emotional support to struggling individuals and make a difference in people's lives. I am deeply passionate about psychology and learning about nonverbal language. My hobbies include writing; reading; singing; watching horror/mystery TV series; and sometimes sketching. My favorite color is wine red (as you can probably tell), and I absolutely love savory food! 🌹✨ So far, I am a Verified Listener! I am working hard to acquire different skills and interact with as many community members as possible. If you are a Member who is interested in texting me for support, then please read the following!:  ♫ I am comfortable with all topics except Domestic Violence, Sexual Health, and Sexual Abuse. Please refer to other listeners if you are encountering any problem related to these topics. We are here for you! 🥰💖 ♫ My texting style is very formal, and I am interested in supporting others by typing them paragraphs. However, I ask every Member at the beginning of our conversation if text walls trigger them. Kindly answer the question truthfully so that I can adjust my texts and make you feel convenient while we are progressing through the conversation. I highly appreciate your collaboration. 💞 ♫ For any Member who is reading this, all my texts will show empathy, validation, and support. You are welcome to discuss any matters with me, so long as you avoid the topics that I don't feel comfortable discussing! Additionally, I sometimes send videos or websites related to your problem so that you can have a wider perspective of it and think of solutions. 😊 ♫ I hope that you don't send me short responses like "ok", "yeah", "sure", "idk", etc. If I ask you any thought-provoking answer and you don't have a definite answer to it, please inform me so that I can ask simpler questions. However, please do not be too brief because I am here to understand your problems and help you. I would appreciate even the slightest elaboration! 😁🌷 A message to anyone reading this:  Life isn't meant to be a linear path. Sometimes, you have to reach the peak of a mountain of success only to find yourself drowning in mistakes once more. That is completely alright, and it does not define your intelligence or worth. You are completely valid, in this community and everywhere you go. You are worthy of support, attention, and a listening ear. You are a very strong individual, and there is nothing that can stop you from proving your power to everyone. I am immensely proud of you because I know that you are trying your best. Keep your head up, and don't lower it for temporary problems! I believe in you. 💗💗 “He who knows no hardships will know no hardihood. He who faces no calamity will need no courage. Mysterious though it is, the characteristics in human nature which we love best grow in a soil with a strong mixture of troubles.”  Harry Emerson 
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LOOPHOLE
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" You are you , now , isn't that precious??!!" 
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quietlistener2023
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If I am not online just leave a message and I will try to get back to you as soon as possible  تحياتي أتمنى أن تكون بخير. أنا مستمع مدرب عبر الإنترنت وقد أجريت دورات وحصلت على شهادة في الدعم النفسي وقمت بالتدريب كمعالج. لا تتردد في مناقشة كل ما يزعجك. أنا مؤهل أيضًا في الدراسات الإسلامية ، لذا لا تتردد في مناقشة الموضوعات ذات الصلة
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