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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

KindnessMatters2020
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Sometimes you just need someone to talk to about something difficult, sad, frustrating, or emotionally-charged. I am happy to just listen or to help brainstorm solutions.  Besides being a verified active listener, my other roles here include: -Quality Mentor -Listener Coaching Team -Safety Patrol Outreach Team -Verifier for Verified Listener Team
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resourcefulTruth84
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It’s not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me. A Silent Guardian,a Watchful Protector,A Dark Knight. A hero can be anyone, even a man doing something as simple and reassuring as putting a coat on a young boy's shoulders to let him know that the world hadn't ended.
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allnaturalUnicorns70
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I'm an ordained rabbi (and verified LISTENER!!), from a secular upbringing. Every human has an important place in this world, which means... YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!  If you're looking for an intelligent, kind and thoughtful ear, you've come to the right place!
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InsightfulInsomiac
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I will try my best to provide you the safest and the most non-judgemental place ...  I am not good at giving advises but I assure you that whatever it is ..we will sit together and talk ... Least I can assure you is ...you will not be alone!  If you are not feeling well and need a shoulder to lean on ..please drop me a text ... We will sit together and talk about things ...we will cry together if we will have to ... Eventually we will make you smile ..and yeah you are going to get chocolate 🍫 at the end. If you are feeling alone, and dont wanna overthink for a while ... reach out to me ... We will talk and have laughters together because I believe sometimes we dont wanna share anything but we have to pass that specific moment...I will help with that.. and yeah you are going to get chocolate 🍫 at the end as well ITS JUST... WHATEVER IT IS ...REACH OUT ..WE WILL FIGURE THINGS OUT 💜
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AfroLatino1959
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I just retired this year ( January 2020 ). Looking to get involved in some meaningful volunteering. I've suffered from severe anxiety all my life, but with that said there is hope, and enjoying life. I believe in giving back to society, especially in these trying times. I'm 61, happily married, and live outside of Los Angeles near the mountains. A city called Sunland. Love music( especially Latin music. It makes me happy. Enjoy open spaces like beaches, and parks. Also, enjoy to travel. Have been to South Africa, London, Puerto Rico, and The Bahamas ( my favorite place ). Once this pandemic is over,my next stop is Cuba. It's all about living your best life!!!
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Sunshine0023
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Hello ! I am committed to uplifting and empowering people to enable them to lead their best lives. I am keen to support people dealing with any personal problems, family issues, emotional issues, relationship problems, Work place issues, loneliness, sadness, stress, depression etc. As life pushed me to rise from various challenges, would like to use my learnings and insights gained from higher awareness to support others in similar situations. If I am online then please feel free to start a chat. If I’m offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Hope we can find a solution for whatever it is, you are going through !!!
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joshcrs101395
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~ Hi! ~ I'm a recent college graduate with a degree in English & Communication, a writer and proofreader, a music enthusiast and TV/film buff, and a former college radio DJ. A few years ago, I had some people come into my life who had been struggling with some things, and I was able to be there for them and support them in ways they seemed to appreciate greatly. I came to realize how passionate I am about making others feel good, and how much I always want to offer support or help them feel better when they're down; and I became a listener on 7Cups because I wanted to extend that to some of you. I've been a listener here for just over four years now, and I still love doing it. I can talk with teens as well as adults in their 20s or 30s, and I offer long-term support. If you'd like for us to chat, please message me a brief description (it doesn't need to be more than a few words long) of what you're struggling with/looking for support with, and I'll get back to you when I can! These are the topics I have the most experience talking with people about: Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, & Body Image Strategies & exercises to help you accept yourself & your body, & take steps toward self-love Abuse Recovery Helping you recover & move forward from physical, emotional, and/or sexual abuse, work toward blaming yourself less, & manage symptoms of PTSD Anxiety Strategies to help you manage & overcome your general anxiety, social anxiety, or panic attacks Depression Learning self-care strategies, healthy coping skills, & ways to counteract the thoughts & beliefs that fuel your depression Breakups Strategies to help you manage & work through your emotions, & move forward from a difficult breakup Something I like to remind people: There's more to you than just your struggles or your mental-health issues; there's more to you than just the worst things that have happened to you, or the worst ways people have treated you; there's more to you than any one aspect of your life. Let's chat about what's been difficult and see if we can find some strategies to help you feel better. Sending you lots of love and positive vibes (and a hug, if you'd like one) and I'm looking forward to talking with you soon! ~ In memory of Ana ~
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creativeOcean42
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Hello and a warm welcome from New Zealand. It takes a lot of courage and strength to reach out and talk about painful things that matter to you. If this is the first time you’ve talked about your story, you’re doing an incredibly brave thing that will put you back on the road to life and wellness. I am currently in my third year of completing my counselling degree. I am devoting my life to helping people get through all types of mental illness and relationship struggles because I know from first hand experience the power of talking openly and vulnerably. On a personal note, I’ve struggled with anxiety, depression and panic, but through reaching out like you, I’ve learned to be more self-aware and equip myself with the tools I need to manage myself so that I can be functional and in good relationship with myself and the people I encounter. Please note, at the moment I am only able to offer what's called "Brief Intervention" which is designed to help people ground and centre themselves for issues that are based in the present, here and now. If it becomes apparent that your issue are based in the past or require deeper, more long term care from a qualified professional, it's better if you reach out to a face to face therapist. I'll let you know if that's the case as we chat. If I am online, please feel free to contact me. I’m glad you’re here, let’s get through this together.
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WhimsicalWhimsy
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Hello and welcome to 7 Cups.  I'm glad you're here.  We all need to talk about our concerns from time to time.   I'm here to listen.  Let's discuss what's on your mind.     
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calmMist11
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freshLight64
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Hi I'm a guy and from the United States, I'm glad you have found me on 7cups of tea, feel free to contact me when I'm online. Even when everything seems dark, there's always going to be a light called hope. "Sometimes we need to cry to let everything out, focus on other things to clear the mind and focus on other people to heal the heart" "From now on the rain will seem less, and things will smile upon you. A new stage begins; doors of tomorrow" "Always believe because you are truly are like an aurora, rare but at the same time unique that should always be shown" "Look up to the sky and reach beyond it to see the unknown and even find a shooting star and with all your heart wish everything you set out to do comes true" "Take a chance, take a chance and the path will clear, step over the horizon and know it was worth it" "I want to be beautiful, beautiful as the stars seen up above at night. Shine like them because deep within my heart I know I can be beautiful" "If by watching the stars can become shooting stars and the wishes from deep within would come true in an instant then my wish for you is to be yourself and be happy" "In this world, we often see and face the cruel nature of things while our compassion emerges like the sun behind the dark clouds" "One step at a time, I'll find my worth while knowing I can make it through this, crossing the ocean, climbing the mountain won't tire me" "You are like a butterfly trapped on a cocoon, waiting to emerge out of it to fly and show your colors and beauty" "You don't have to be perfect, you don't have to be special. Just be you and let everything unfold" "Your strength is the feelings you carry from deep within, your light is the will to continue" "Every step you take it leaves roses behind, within every action you show your light" "Pain teaches us the greatest lessons on life, it can break you or can make you stronger" "Sometimes others see what we don’t see in ourselves because of our insecurities" “At times we will mess up, but will you let it define you or rise above it” "There’s not a person you should be better than yourself" "You display toughness, but I can feel pain inside of you. The world may have many mysteries, but I feel you could have more" "Someday the stars may fall, meteors might impact the earth, but before it my time will come while I start to frequently knock on the door of destiny for my own call" "Don’t fall, don’t stay down even if things fall apart. Deep inside wishes of overcoming all of this, staying strong even against the strongest of winds or if the sky falls" "Your beauty is all around, it can’t be explained in words, I feel it in my soul, I see it with my own eyes each time" "You are perfect with mistakes and flaws, the world will soon rotate in your favor" "The night is made of dreams of escaping, opening the lock of this dark prison. The more I want it, the higher I want to fly…The higher I get the more freedom I will start to feel" “Your kindness and strength are able to move mountains, and reach the most darkest of places as a light to guide the way" "Believe in yourself, in the person you are because that’s the only way you can break his vicious cycle you created with your insecurities and fall outs" "My faith is my prayer to go forward, even while in pain and suffering. Wishful thinking would be no negative things in life, but without it then positive things won’t come out" "The bad moments don’t last, but the good moments last forever. I may have a mountain to climb, and my feet could hurt from walking, but I know in my heart I will always fight" "I face my fear, embrace my feelings while turning the flame inside of me. I’ll be able to fight with every ounce of energy and strength without giving up" If you ever feel sad or mad always look up to the sky and remember tomorrow will be a brand new day. There’s going to always be a light called hope in every turn. You’ll always live inside of me Through my eyes you’ll see the world Your strength will become my strength When I look to the sky I’ll smile knowing I’m not alone…  
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gentlewillow2
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Hello there (: I'm here if you ever need someone to talk to.
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