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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

chyni
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“success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” —winston churchill 🦋🦋🦋 IMPORTANT NOTICE 📣  please DO NOT send me a message saying "hi" or "hey" as i normally overlook these messages as spam/nothing serious, and rarely reply or never. i also ask users to do this as it helps me to understand better about the topic we’d be speaking on, as i’m not comfortable discussing certain things. if you have an issue that you'd like to speak on, please send me a brief message stating your issue/s and I'll get back to you ASAP when I'm available, thank you. also, my chats are normally 30-60 mins, depending on you 😊  hello there, my name is chyni. welcome to my profile and to the 7 cups of tea site. there are a range of issues that i’m comfortable offering compassionate support for. these include:  anxiety •• breakups •• bullying •• chronic pain •• depression •• domestic violence •• loneliness •• managing emotions •• relationship stress •• social anxiety •• student life •• exercise motivation •• family stress •• forgiveness •• financial stress •• getting unstuck •• grief •• obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) •• panic attacks •• self-esteem •• spirituality •• work stress i am a trained and verified listener, my goal here while serving my time on the 7 cups of Tea site is to, change or help change patterns of your thinking or behavior that are behind your difficulties, and so, change the way you feel.  🦋🦋🦋 my leadership roles: peer support verified listener room supporter — depression support  forum supporter — motivation & accountability community  forum supporter — 7 cups academy community  🦋🦋🦋 i don’t have a specific time for my availability, it’s whenever my status indicates that i’m available. if the status color is green, it means that i’m online, yellow– busy, and red– offline.  i look forward to chatting with you and understanding how best I can help you.  best wishes, chyni 🤍
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catlover58
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Please don't hesitate to message me if you're lonely, have problems with a friend, struggle with self harm, an eating disorder, your sexual orientation, or handling student life <3 NO INTEREST IN SEXUAL CONVERSATIONS
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varunk
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Good, bad ---happy or sad--  i got you. Humans are creatures of emotion and not logic. I can understand the darkness every human possess.  Come here to open up. Say all you have.
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EmpathicSunshine22
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Hey there! I'm a resident in Emergency Medicine, chemist and active researcher. It's my pleasure to help you passionately in your most crucial moments. Your mental health values exactly as your physical health, that's why you should never suffer alone. We can sail through this storm together! I myself have been through a lot and want to make hope possible for those who lost it. Maybe my experience can help you build yours and love yourself more. P.S. I don't give any medical advice or prescriptions. I'm a verified trained active listener and will provide help only with the listed topics in my profile.
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Benz13
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                Not taking conversations. There is always a way out! I encourage the visitors to read my answers when in doubt and I'm glad if that helps. I don't handle issues related to anxiety, depression  self harm suicidal tendencies  sexual health  relationship stress and breakups Thank you for stopping by!
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RoxanneChristiana
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I am retired and have two cats, Hansel and Gretel.  Besides cats, my interests include writing, painting, science fiction, UFOs, art, music, reading, spirituality, and paranormal phenomena.  I am also a news junkie.   I believe that forgiveness and gratitude are two big components of mental health.   I try to be on here every day except Sunday from 9:00am to 1:00pm, Central Daylight Time, USA.  If you would like to chat with me during those times then please leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I'm able.
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positiveOasis4284
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تشرب شاي؟ Hi, would you like to have a cup of tea with me ? There is no inhibition on what we can discuss 
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comfortableNight4463
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Hi! I'm Night. I am here to provide support by listening to you.  I am available on; Tuesday (10PM to 12AM EST) Wednesday (8PM to 10PM EST) Thursday (6PM to 8PM EST) Friday (10 AM to 2PM and 8PM to 10PM EST)  Saturday (8PM to 10PM EST) Sunday (10AM to 2PM EST) *All times are in EST (United States)
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audienta
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Bio in German/auf Deutsch [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YWfxu7AqLNtqkRbzt_u5kePsWKYc6s4jVEkxXFrFdrk/edit] ------------------------- Due to my health, I might be offline for some days without a warning from time to time. But don't worry, eventually I'll come back. ------------------------- About me Hey, I am audienta (they/them). I have been here on 7 Cups since 2017, so I have had the chance to gather a lot of experiences I am very grateful for. Sometimes life just does not work like we would like it to, but the conversations showed me again and again how resilient we as human beings are. My own mental and physical health have been challenging me for a while now. I have had to learn how to set boundaries and listen to my own needs. There are days when I can do that and there are others where it does not work. And that is okay. We all give our best to accept and live our life. I had the honour to be interviewed for the Living with Leaders series [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/InnerWisdomandLight_280987/], so if you want to know more about me, that might be an option. ------------------------- Offers and Boundaries My Offers: Trained, verified active Listener: I take 1-1 member chats which take between 30 and 60 minutes and listen to you. I am a patient and non-judgemental listener. I cannot give you advice, but I can ask questions and am open to offer peer support and share my experiences if you wish that. Adult Teen Listener: I can take chats from adults as well as from teens. Chat Topics that I have experience with and am okay to talk about: * Anxiety * Autism Spectrum Disorder * Bullying * Chronic Illness * Dissociative Disorders * LGBTQ+ * Self-Care * Student Life Languages: I can listen to you in English, German and Swissgerman. My Boundaries:  Only offline chats: I'll respond to your messages within 1-3 days, but I'm currently not able to do live chats. Chat Topics that I am not able to provide support for because of a lack of experience or trigger risk: * Family Stress * Financial Stress * Parenting * Relationship Stress/Breakups * Self Harm * Sexual Health * Weight Management ------------------------- Projects Trauma Support Community Mentor Leader: I support the trauma support sub-community as a community mentor leader. If you have feedback, questions or ideas regarding this community, please leave me a pm or use this form:  Trauma Sub-Community Feedback Form [https://forms.gle/tvajKJmLKhqfxwrH9] Anonymous Evaluations Outreach Team Quality Mentor Leader: I make sure that people who had three good evaluations get a chance to be verified and listeners who need help get connected to the Listener Coaching Team. Sub-Community Leadership Team (PA): I'm helping with recruiting and onboarding new forum supporters. Quality Mentor: As a mentor, I can take you as a mentee. I can help you improve your listening skills, do mock chats with you, give you resources, provide emotional support, and answer your questions. Chat Supporter: If you struggle with an ongoing chat, I can provide tips and resources to you. I can do that either in the Listener Support Room, or, if you need to describe the chat with more than 5 words, in the pms.  Adult Teen Listener with the Peter Pan, Teen Chat Support, and Teen Quality Mentor badge: I can provide support to adult and teen listeners. Doorkeeper: You can pm me if you want a room opened or closed. ------------------------- Most Important Resources Suicidal ideation, self harm: On 7 Cups we cannot offer crisis support.  7 Cups Crisis [/www.7cups.com/crisis] Chat Support: If you are a listener and need help with an ongoing chat, take a look at the linked document. Chat Support [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit] New Listener Links: If you are a new listener, the following document with a bunch of links might be helpful to you. New Listener Links [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LTMvBFOgWICNHLlfNvzeQf2vkF3PPRn_jQUxJxjASOk/edit] ------------------------- Smile and take care everyone! :) audienta ------------------------- PS: A big thank you to my great peers who showed me so much love, acceptance, and appreciation during the last couple of years! You really made my life a little brighter. Tagging my twinnie @MelodyoftheOcean.
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ClairePotato
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Hey, I love talking and I'm always ready to help people..
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incognitoknight0101
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On Break! Responses could take 48 hrs or more. Till then have chocolates 🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫 Glad you are here. :) “The moth prefers the moon and detests the sun, while the butterfly loves the sun and hides from the moon. Every living creature responds to light. But depending on the amount of light you have inside, determines which lamp in the sky your heart will swoon." “Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars." “Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror. But you are eternity and you are the mirror."
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Jenna
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I only support the topics listed. All other topics will be referred to Browse Listeners [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners]. Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Grief, Sexual Assault (PTSD/Trauma), Terminal Illness ------------------------- ➼ All of my chats are 1 hour long and I offer short-term support. ➼ If you would like to chat with me, first please message me with a brief description of the support you are seeking and days/times that may work for you. I will then respond within 48 hours to let you know if I can take your chat and the times that may work for me. ➼ I follow the community guidelines and I expect you to as well. No off-site contact or sharing of personal info of any kind. ➼ I cannot take any kind of crisis chats due to not having the training or tools. We are also not a crisis intervention website. You will be referred to a helpline. We all battle things, and thankfully we don't have to do it alone even if it's just someone on the other side of the screen offering support. ------------------------- Hello, my name is Jenna and I am in my early thirties. I have been a part of this community for ten years. During this time, I have found that being here has positively impacted my well-being and given me the privilege to support others. In my free time, I enjoy attending church, spending time with my four dogs, listening to different genres of music, DYI crafts/projects, indulging in tacos, enjoying the outdoors in good weather, sleeping, and drawing. ------------------------- Twin Brian AnnaSilverberg Left-handed Pal BlueRivercares Listener Twins Kristynsmama, Teagan, Vivelespatates
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