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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

sia1325
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-Inactive- Feel free to click here to check my farewell post!  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/DiscussionsSelfCareandResources_931/ListenersFarewellTakingaBreakReturningThreadSendYourRegards_37727/8/#2857905] ~Not accepting any member chat~ My name is Sia and I'm so glad to have you here! I may or may not relate to your situation, but I promise to try my best to understand what you are experiencing. I believe that having support is more valuable than having direct solutions to our problems and it would be my pleasure to support you in any way I can. I highly believe in acknowledging and reacting and once we acknowledge the problems & take steps towards them, we are two steps closer to improvement. My chats are always a non-judgmental, compassionate and safe place for everyone. I admire you so much for being there for yourself and reaching out for support. I may not be able to solve your problems, but I can surely be a companion on your path towards healing. Your feelings are valid and I truly believe in you, your inner self who believes that things will improve. You aren't alone and no matter how hard your current situation is, I am certain that you will overcome it. Stay you because you are truly wonderful. Much love! ♥  ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────   ~Few clickable resources that you may find useful~ | Crisis Resource [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis] | Runaway Safeline [https://www.1800runaway.org/] | Live through this [https://livethroughthis.org/] | RAINN [https://www.rainn.org/news/rainns-new-app-offers-support-anytime-anywhere] | IMAlive [https://www.imalive.org/] | Project Semicolon [https://projectsemicolon.com/] | Grounding Techniques [https://www.healthline.com/health/grounding-techniques] | Childline [https://www.childline.ie/] | HelpGuide [https://www.helpguide.org/] | Su*c*de Hotlines [http://www.suicide.org/] | Love is respect [https://www.loveisrespect.org/get-help/] |  Self-Harm Distraction [http://www.selfinjury-staging.com/perch/resources/distraction-techniques-pm-1.pdf] | Practicing Self-Love [https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-12428/10-wonderful-ways-to-practice-selflove.html] | The Trevor Project [http://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help-now/] | Overcoming negative thoughts [https://www.happify.com/] | Overcome Social Anxiety [https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/565957/tips-for-overcoming-social-anxiety-disorder] | Find Free Mental Health Services [https://www.healthyplace.com/other-info/mental-illness-overview/free-mental-health-services-and-how-to-find-them] | Self Help resources [https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/Resources/Looking-After-Yourself] | How To Get Control Over Thoughts [http://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/abcde.htm] | Dealing With Panic Attacks [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportShareYourStoryHowdoyoufeelrightnow_667/Panic_191059/] | Coping w/ flashbacks [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/flashbacks] | Warmline [https://warmline.org/] | Domestic Violence [https://www.thehotline.org/] | Self-Harm Alternatives [https://becausewecandothistogether.tumblr.com/alternativesforselfharm] | Calming and Relaxing Gifs [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Gifstohelpyourelaxandcalmyoudown_54192/1/] | Coping with Panic Attacks [http://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupportCommunity_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/TipstoCopewithaPanicAttack_50795/?notifyID=164697429] | Self-Care Techniques [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/selfcare] | Grounding101 [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/grounding101] | Dealing with teen depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/teenagers-guide-to-depression.htm] | Coping with depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/coping-with-depression.htm] | Showing love to yourself [https://www.7cups.com/forum/MindfulnessSupportCommunity_106/MindfulnessPracticesSkills_490/HowCanIShowLoveToMyself_101447/1/] | Self care [https://www.7cups.com/forum/BipolarSchizophreniaPsychosisSupport_63/BipolarSupport_589/SelfCare_207145/] | Boosting Self-esteem [https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/self-esteem.html] | Self-Harm Alternatives 2.0 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SelfHarmRecovery_65/InformationandResources_1079/SELFHARMALTERNATIVES_2480/] | Reducing Self- Injury [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/post/69035624465/its-not-as-simple-as-just-stop-a-guide-to-reducing] | Handling Anxiety Attacks [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/anxiety] | Self-Harm Alternatives and Distractions [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/alternatives] | Coping with loneliness [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupport_52/CopingwithLoneliness_599/CopingwithLoneliness_252302/] | Stress relief [https://www.pixelthoughts.co/] | Atlas of Emotions [http://atlasofemotions.org/] | Healthy Distractions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/SelfCareandResources_931/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317/] | Healthy living tips [https://www.anxietycanada.com/sites/default/files/HealthyLiving.pdf] | Bullying & Cyber Bullying [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/bullying-and-cyberbullying.htm] | Managing Anger [https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/anger-management.html] | Healthy sleep tips [https://www.sleepfoundation.org/sleep-hygiene/healthy-sleep-tips] | Healthy Relationships [https://www.thehotline.org/resources/healthy-relationships/] | Dealing w/ rejection [https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/a30719895/how-to-deal-with-rejection/] | (Click here to check out these resources in a document format) [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1icuMsYk9d2B1iUvDCI_nABXg-mhYMKTqzZmSuTcwxws/edit?usp=sharing] ( last updated January 2022   ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────  ~Some people I admire~ @beach120 @calmingMermaid5761 @EmmaE @Basorexiaaa @Mango3 @SillyGoose11 @optimisticMagic0014 @shiningSky3745 @considerateParadise6717 @kieran000 @Iamsidhere @mamtasha22 @ShiningStars1 @Jessrabbit7 @HelpfulGem04 @SeriouslyLey123 @itssoren @empatheticLavender2924 @VicK5123 @whenitsdarklookforstars @Greenchoice1 @BeautyOfGrace @thisisirene @MikuoniandBlueCheese @starmelon7 @HealingBrokenWIngs (in no particular order) ──────⊹⊱✼⊰⊹──────  My Past Involvements Active Listening Test 2 Grading Team, Care Team Guide, Chat Support and Peer Support, Doorkeeper, Forum Supporter, Global Chatroom Moderator, LDP Mentor, Listener Coach, Listener Chatroom Supporter, Listener Verifier, Safety Patrol Team Member, Teen Chatroom Star, Teen Community Star, Teen Quality Star and Teen Listener Coaching team Teen Star Leader  Click here to visit the most amazing person’s profile! [https://www.7cups.com/110900955]
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BearListens
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🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳 Bear's Availability ⌚ January 14th Onward: Self-Care Break until further notice January 20th Onward: I'll be prioritizing college and am unsure of my availability. Should I be available, expect us to talk for around 1 to 1.5 hours. Otherwise, expect a response from me within the same week and willingness to schedule a time that works for the both of us. * Green circles adjacent to my profile indicate that I am available to welcome new member chats and to follow up with anyone who I have already spoken with.  * Orange circles adjacent to my profile indicate that I'm occupied giving my undivided attention to someone in a member chat or am focusing on other tasks. I may not be able to have 1-1 chats at that time. Messages from new members are welcome. * Red circles adjacent to my profile indicate that I am unavailable to have member chats. I am open to coordinating dates and times for conversations. Messages from new members are welcome. Please refer to my "Categories" section for a list of topics I'm available to discuss with members as well as ones that I'm personally familiar with.  ------------------------- 🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️🏕️ Resources for Members 📨 7 Cups's Listeners: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/  Self Help Guides: https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php Crisis Resources: https://www.7cups.com/crisis/ [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/]   [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/] 7 Cups Community Forums: https://www.7cups.com/community/ [https://www.7cups.com/community/]  Experts' Articles: https://www.7cups.com/experts/   ------------------------- 🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳 A Bear's Day in the Life 🍯 Country of Origin: United States  Age: 25  Pronouns: He/Him Occupation: Second-Year undergraduate student STEM major Hobbies & Interests: Spending time with family, solving word-finds, browsing the web & going for long walks Fun Fact: Not actually a bear ------------------------- ⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️⛰️ Bear's Personal Statement 📄 My goal is to pay it forward: I am grateful for the support I received from listeners and for the support I provide for members through this innovative platform. After chats with listeners, I was given clarity, hope and joy. After chats with members, I discovered purpose, fulfillment and value for myself. From both perspectives, I found reasons to pay it forward. There's a positive cycle and a symbiotic relationship between listeners and members where both benefit from supportive conversations. Members rely on support from listeners to overcome challenges and listeners rely on members to develop a greater sense of self worth. Whether you're reaching out for support or you're providing support to someone else, you as well as the other person are walking away with something greater! By pledging to pay it forward and remembering how much I appreciate what I've gotten from 7 Cups, I hope to inspire others to pay it forward as well and to continue the positive cycle. My goal is to be a supportive pillar for members through formal conversations or through casual conversations. Formal conversations prioritize emotional support and active listening. Casual conversations welcome lighthearted chats about everyday interests and ideas. I also aspire to take on leadership roles such as Quality Mentor to support my fellow listeners too. To develop as a listener, I've undergone verification, graduated from the Quality Listening Program and started the internship program on 7 Cups. Listening to you,  Bear 🐻 🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳
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PurpleFlower40
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Uni student and in her last year. Does have experience with family members of mental health.
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Charlie40
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Active listening is like kindness and empathy, simple enough in principle. and a life time task to master fully. Because of my background I feel more naturally able to help people struggling with stressful emotional situations, toxic or difficult family situations, or with anxiety, PTSD, depression. Many times in the past I could overcome hardships and difficulties simply by having a chance to talk to someone who really listened. I'd like to "pay that kindness forward" now by listening to you on 7Cups. Don't be fooled by all the topic training badges on my profile page: that only means I got acquainted to the topic, not that I am an expert! But I will be happy to try and help you regardless, as a fellow human. If I am online, feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, you can send me a message so we can set up a time to chat. I look forward to it. I have work and life commitments, so I don't have as much free time as I would like, but I will do my best to be available several times a week to help out.
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sheanemone
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I’ll 🐝 here for u <('o'<) 我中英文都通~ she/her  trying to wrap a bow on senior year visceral movement hmu anytime if u wanna talk <3
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wonderfulHope749
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I seek ways to improve life quality. It is not always easy, it is a process and I will be happy to help anyone with that.
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RomanticJ
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"The mind is its own place, and in it self Can make a Heav’n of Hell, a Hell of Heav’n.”  
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calmSoul1174
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Hello! I'm calmSoul. I'm a really caring and empathetic listener with an open mind who doesn't judge people. No matter what you are going trough, I'll do my best to help you. I am open to chats. Feel free to leave me a message if I'm not currently online. For live chat session, I can only do up to an hour for each member. Thank you for your understanding. I don't take chats that are sexual in nature. If you are currently in a mental health crisis, please reach out to the crisis resources at https://www.7cups.com/crisis/
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Antonlistens93
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QuietMagic
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Hi, my name is Josh. 💜 If you'd like to chat with me in real-time, you can use my booking form HERE [https://quietmagic7cups.youcanbook.me/] to schedule a 60-minute chat. Alternatively, if you'd like to chat via offline messages, can send me a PM and I’ll try my best to respond within 24-48 hours; my responses may be slower over the weekend. I don't specialize in any particular topics and am willing to talk to anyone about anything.
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JackMorland94
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Just a down to earth, honest kind of conversationalist who's here to help. Whether you're after someone to chat with or need someone to listen I'm your guy 🙂
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Averyjr23
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Hello, I'm Avery or Ave which ever you want to call me and welcome to my profile! Here as you chat with me you will find a non-judgmental space and only a kind hearted chat!  I hope you have a wonderful week! :) ------------------------- * My chats are only an hour long, but we can also schedule something later! *  ------------------------- Topics I am comfortable discussing/can take on  Depression Relationship Stress Family Stress Anxiety Breakups Panic attacks Social anxiety Self harm  Addiction  ------------------------- * I can discuss some chats that are not listed, but please be respectful if I don't feel comfortable with that topic. *  * I can also do offline chats and live chats. * ------------------------- My roles here at 7ucps Verified listener  Peer support  Room supporter  Listener chatroom supporter Listener Verifier Team Chatroom Mentor Active Listening 2 grader ------------------------- My availability  Monday - Thursday ( 4:00pm to 9:00pm MST ) in EST is ( 6:00pm to 11:00pm EST )  Friday night ( 7:00pm to 10:00pm ) MST in EST is ( 9:00pm to 12:00am ) Saturday ( I am offline )  Sunday ( 10:00am to 2:00pm MST ) in EST is ( 12:00pm to 4:00pm )  ------------------------- My listener twin! :) 🩵 Kristynsmama 🩵 🩵 AuRewolf 🩵
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