“How Do You Remind Yourself Who You Are When Everything Feels Heavy?”
Heyyyaaa My Young Vibing Souls💓
There are times in life we go through while transitioning to adulthood when days feels heavy.
Sometimes we find people who help us navigate with ease but sometimes, we need to do it all by ourselves.
“How do you remind yourself who you are when everything feels heavy?”
I tell myself, how far I came from where I started, how I still kept holding even when everything was scattering, how I filled myself with love than with negative beliefs and judgements.
It's so easy to judge ourselves and others and assume that we or they are defective in any way, but trust me, when you learn to listen to yourself, start understanding yourself and talk to yourself just like you would do it with your best friend, that is when life becomes happier for you and for everyone around you. That is when you embrace people as they are and support them with all generosity and kindness.
Happiness is a daily practice, and we need to snatch moments from the day that make things feel lighter.
Above all, why not start with yourself? Why can't you be that ray of hope, light and positivity? Why expect others to do it, can't we start the chain of goodwill and compassion? Can't we be the anchor for it?
Change is gradual and slow, but it happens when you chose faith over fears.
After a not quite long way into this age, I learnt that other's reactions, decisions and behavior is not something under your control.
What you can control is how you perceive, decide and respond.
I just had quite an uncertain and a plot twisting day, but it's okay, we can soften the chaos gradually.
I just want to give you all a big reminder that, be honest with yourself, don't resist, accept, see what you can change for the better and then take action accordingly.
We need not be so harsh on ourselves and others. Be gentle, be kind with yourself and with others as well.
Birds don't just fly; they fall down and get up. Nobody learns without getting it wrong.
Regards,
Resilience (Resii)💖
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@resilience2025🥺🥺
It's truly inspiring 💕 to see how you reconnect with your inner self during difficult times 🤩🌷Your method of reminding yourself of your strength and ability to overcome challenges is a beautiful example of resilience and inner power we all need to cultivate. Focusing on self kindness and accepting mistakes as a part of growth is the key to personal happiness and compassion for others. I completely agree that happiness is a daily practice and we must be our own source of light and hope before we look for it in others. Change always begins from within in those small moments where we choose faith over fear 🙏
@Tulipsmile
Ohhhhhh😍🥹❤️so beautifully restated everything in such simple words. Thank you Tulip with a pretty smile for your encouragement and support. It means a lot to me😇Thank you for all the appreciation as well. I certainly agree with you small steps matter a lot in life. And kindness takes us a long way than being harsh and judgemental. I wish you lots of love and happiness on the way.
@resilience2025
Ohhh, you are so welcome 😇Your kind words truly warmed my heart. It's my pleasure to be a source of encouragement, and I'm genuinely happy that my words resonated with you.your postive spirit is inspiring, and I wish you all the love, happiness, and success in the world on your journey. Keep shining