23, graduating, need to get put of toxic family, scared to get a job
Hi, im graduating which means i have no more health insurance and no more child support from dad. Mom's toxic. I need to get out but scared if i get a job with my unstable mental health and physical health. My boyfriend offered to live with him but we're not sure, im anxious there, it's my first boyfriend, i don't feel ready, I'm scared of sleeping with him. Every time i tell him mom's abusing me, he tells me to live with him. But he's financially unstable, doing weed and so. And i want to be independent. I would have to work either with him or alone, just if alone it's a must and i will be alone with my demons. Don't get me wrong i love him, i just feel 13 not 23 - not ready to move out with a partner and work. But my age and toxic mom are pressing me to
@intellectualGrapefruit6085
Jumping from one bad situation to another is something anyone would be nervous about. if you need stability and can find a way to deal with mom ... then get a job and work on you until you feel ready to move / etc. A boyfriend who is not financially stable and using weed is not a good situation who is paying for what .......... the stress will only increase your insecurities and other issues ...
Always work on you first take your time to tackle items you are scared or nervous about if you feel pressured somewhere down the road ... you may regret choices made with pressure from others.
Thank you, with that anxiety I'm really concerned about my choices
Hey, dont be afraid...