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Abandoned issue

User Profile: Mit2019
Mit2019 May 16th, 2024

Anybody can suggest fear of being abandoned in any type of relationship.

This feeling make me ask other people often to assure their feelings or care genuine n whether they will long term or not. V early stage i do this. Else I keep running. 

I won't to overcome it badly . 

Other than self love suggest something else 

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 May 19th, 2024

@Mit2019

I know it sounds hard to let go of those feelings but it is a cycle .... those who really fear abandoned often add to it ..........by being clingy and needing constant reassurance ...... this drives many away faster Ever have the "i did not see your text"  or "phone died"  ....because at that moment they were not up to the clingy  or needing to prove to you all is ok. 

I found being my own best friend and learning to like being more independent.    It helped me from letting my past of being a bit clingy  go and  dissipate.  Taking the idea that the world is full of people i will make new friends instead of trying to hold on to others forever ... it does not work.

I feel people come in to your life and serve a purpose maybe a lesson in life and sometimes they move on ... it is NOT a reflection or rejection of you but growth.