Anyone going through a breakup?
Hey there :)
My partner broke up with me two weeks ago and I'm currently trying to come to terms with it.
Is anyone else going through a breakup at the moment?
@Ghosthost25
I'm currently going through the ups and downs of a breakup as well.
If you need some support, don't hesitate to reach out!
Hey Lisaisherenow, thank you for your message!
How are you dealing with the breakup?
My partner broke up with me 2 weeks ago and I'm finding it hard to let go of hope, which is probably holding me back.
@Ghosthost25
I'm taking it one day at a time. Trying to process each emotion and memory.
I've also reconnected with my support system.
Even so, it's still quite challenging to let go of the possibility/hope.
I, maybe, it's been about 3 months since I broke up with my ex, I was the victim of betrayal, if it can help you don't hesitate to contact me even telling your story can help
Hey Simonzez
Thank you for your post!
I'm sorry to hear that!
How are you holding up?
I wasn't a victim of betrayal, my ex and I just had different plans for the future that didn't align...eventhough I still muss him, I can understand that perhaps the breakup is for the greater good...but I'm finding it a bit difficult to adjust to being on my own a lot of the time, sometimes I feel like I'm missing out or that my ex ist probably having a great time without me.
Anyway, hope you're doing alright and sending you lots of encouragement! :)
It's been 2 days. I can't even breathe. How are you holding up?
Hey there!
I'm really sorry to hear that...
I felt that way too right after the breakup...but after 3.5 months I can say it doesn't hurt as much as I did to begin with!
My friends and family really help, they listen to me and just being around them helps me to feel better. Are you getting any support from friends and family?
Sending you lots of love and encouragement!
@Ghosthost25
Yes it's been now 30+ days now since she broke up with me as we were on and off for a year and 2 months. I was the one that broke it up each time in the beginning since I knew me and her were not compatible in the sense of lifestyles or values and what we want in life. But she would come back and I would accept her in since I was lonely and LOVED how she was always there and called me up or hang out with me. The break up was hard but I knew I had relief but I miss so badly having someone to love and someone that loved me. I miss that more than her as a person. 🙄 And it was my first woman relationship as I usually date guys since I am a woman too. She persued me as well relentlessly when I had said I was not interested but she wore me down and I gave her chance Last March 2024. 😮💨 So sorry we are in this breakup boat now
@SkyGazer13
Hey there, I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this too!
I can really relate to the feeling of missing being in a relationship more than the actual ex.
But perhaps this is good news in a sensce, because this means we were able to create those feelings by ourselves and not our ex partners, so it seems likely that we will be able to have these feelings with other people or perhaps even by ourselves.
I hope your ex is giving you some time and space to recover and won't pressure again this time.
Sending you lots of love and strength!
@Ghosthost25
Well now she is giving space since June 5th but she was so not being cordial or respecting my boundaries in the relationship and out of it and all the times I tried to set it up as friendship she would mock it and make it feel like she could not even be a friend to me. I am super happy that I do have the ability to have this love for someone else and it was not to my ex only (she has her own traumas that I now can see and had started to see later in the relationship but she tried to hide it or have me guess and hint and ask the right questions). Weird, I know but I tried my best but could not get what she was trying to hint at so she would have to break it down for me as we got closer. Thank you for also understanding as sometimes people say you miss the person and I'm like no. I see this person was not right for me and I want better as I should get basic respect of my boundaries and other things but basic human decency the bare minimum here 🙄🙆🏽♀️ What I miss so far the most that I sometimes check my ex girlfriend's text message conversation to see if she sent anything. I have her on mute so I won't really see her conversation, and I have her calls be sent to voicemail and she has me on block as well. But I still check to see since she would speak to me everyday for a year and two months. She was constant in that and I enjoy that very much and love having someone to see and check up on me. Now I try to create a support group and I am going out more and I do have three other coworkers that check up on me as well and have deep connections. But it hits differently when it is a significant other that loves you (the eros love) and is committed to you just as I was to her but now I am going back to guys so it will for sure be a guy now 😂😅 what do you miss about your habits with your ex? And this can be for anyone in the chat too!
Sorry for my Kate reply, the last few days habe been very busy...
Sounds like your last relationship was very demanding! I'm really glad to hear that you can der that she wasn't right for you, but understand that doesn't make you forget about the habits you had formed together and miss them...
I can really relate to your post, I enjoy talking to my friends and family, but it's not quite the same a es a realtionship.. Personally I miss the daily conversations, having insider jokes and the comforting hugs. I try to keep busy top and occasionlly go out, but I miss the comfort his presence used to bring me... I guess that pinpoints my lack of self-confidence, which I need to work in 😅
Unfortunately I too check if he's online on WhatsApp or to see if he's writing to me...it has gotten less though and I'm trying to resist that urge more now 😄
I hope you will find a guy (or girl, although you did write you would prefer a guy after your experience with your ex 😅) who will respect you and is comitted to a healthy relationship with you ❤️