Breaking out of loner life situation
Hi, uhm, Im 22, ever since I entered uni, I have started to struggle with fitting into local communities. As the days and months go by, things don't seem to change, I live basically isolated. I hate it with all fiber of my body, and Im creating this thread to help gather advice or find supportive friends maybe, hopefully🤞😊
@Krisztian
Welcome 🤗Â
I'm sorry you are struggling but you will not be alone here 💜 🥰Â
You can't fit because you're unique because deep down you understand how everyone is, how people are and dw it's not you. We can be friends if you want, talk, rant and have fun like friends do. Just a message away!
@Krisztian here to support you <3
@Krisztian hey kris! If people around you isolate you, then you never deserved such people who would end up isolating someone, you deserve better people and better friends. Hopefully someday you'll meet real friends, and people who are actually good- not isolating those around them. 🌸 be kind to yourself 🌸
What things interest you? Hobbies, volunteer work, creative endeavors, physical activities?
Find local communities for that. If it doesn't exist, try creating it yourself or travel a little further out to find it. Or try something new that you don't know much about but would like to learn how to. Online spaces count too especially if it's something niche that you don't expect to find any real-life folks interested in.
I really relate to this. Those first years at uni can feel so lonely when connections aren’t happening naturally. Just know that a lot of people feel this way even if they don’t show it.
Hey facing a similar situation yaar!
Hey facing a similar situation yaar!