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Friendship Advice

User Profile: sunset85
sunset85 May 26th, 2023

It has been over 3 months of no contact with my best friend. She said she wanted some time and space apart - which came out of the blue. Still to this day I can’t make sense of it. Even though I want to be angry with her I can’t, I still care so much about her. She ended the last time we spoke as more or less I shouldn’t reach out and she will when she is ready and if I want to be friends then great but if not she understands.


Her birthday is in 2 weeks. I absolutely love birthdays and am torn what to do. Do I send her a card? Any and all advice (even in general) is appreciated!

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User Profile: 7motivation
7motivation May 27th, 2023

@sunset85

Regarding your question:

  • Her birthday is in 2 weeks. I absolutely love birthdays and am torn what to do. Do I send her a card? Any and all advice (even in general) is appreciated!

    - Maybe you could send an anonymous card?

In general:

- If you eventually do make contact,
maybe setting healthy boundaries might help
the relationship start up again in a slow
acceptable way for both of you.