How do I fix my relationship?
My bf has had trust issues from past relationships and I lied to him about meeting a friend, who I met just to cut him off so that there won't be any problems in my relationship in the future. And now his trust issues have gotten worse and we've broken up. We both miss each other but he's scared and keeps saying that even if we get back together, it won't be the same. How do I fix this?
@sociableTortoise5071
What do you mean by Fix ? you may want to move forward and put this in past build trust again but you can not fix something that is in past.
The reality of human relationship is that we cannot undo deeds done .....we can apologize but we cannot erase. instead we move forward with the scratch and scars visible. moments in time to me are like waves when you see one come to shore it is over.... the next ones although look similar are a different wave the original one is gone.
So there's no hope for us to get back together?
@sociableTortoise5071
i cannot tell you that no one but both of you can ...
what i am saying is you will not go back to what it was
but start new after dealing with your lie and meeting up with your friend/ex.