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How do you get over the past?

User Profile: brightDay6709
brightDay6709 April 4th, 2025

I've spent my life trapped in the past, never truly focused in the present. At the slightest trouble, my mind instantly drifts back, reliving old wounds and regrets.

The memories, the time, the situations, the bullies, the friendships, the love interests, the mistakes, are all still there. I can’t seem to move on, nor can I make peace with them.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 April 4th, 2025

@brightDay6709 aww I'm sorry sweetie 🙁 I know how hard that can be🙁 what helps me the most with this is gratitude, it's taught me to live in the moment and appreciate the small things 💖gives you a giant tiny hug 💗 I hope you find something that works for you too 💗

User Profile: mindfulofthoughts
mindfulofthoughts April 4th, 2025

@brightDay6709

Give yourself time and space .

Be understanding and kind with your emotions.

...and lastly Acceptance 

hope it helps<33

User Profile: Myaam
Myaam April 8th, 2025

I have the same thing in my relationship, may be that because this past wounds is not healed yet, may be talking with your partner about it will help, but don’t keep your feelings inside

User Profile: calmgalaxy
calmgalaxy April 9th, 2025

I don’t.

User Profile: calmgalaxy
calmgalaxy April 9th, 2025

I don’t.

User Profile: DivineKarmainfinity
DivineKarmainfinity April 9th, 2025

@brightDay6709

healing takes time and it’s okay to carry pieces of the past... and you’re allowed to grow beyond what hurt you 😊