My sex life is dead
I love my husband so much . However recently for a few months I have lost interest in him. I find it irritating when he touches me and kisses me and when he asks for sex I always say I am tired . My work has taken over my life , more responsibilities more stress and I am studying on the side. I feel so bad for him because when we use to have sex it was everything! The best kind of sex ! And now I don’t make any effort I just want to lye in bed or go gym or watch tv or play games . We have also tried to sit down and talk about it but it’s not helped. I want to feel that spark again what should I do ? I am scared he will divorce me or cheat on me because sex was everything to us :(
@poppy1997
when you say you lost interest in him .... is there any underlying issues or anger about anything? perhaps if you are stressed with work and study is he helping with that and being supportive? there are many possibilities of situations where you may be not happy but it is little things so you shrug it off but those little things left alone fester IMO.
I ask these because i too have lost interest and i am working on the underlying issues although the "spark " is not back exactly we are getting better then we were.
Im so sorry to hear you’re going through this, I also have this issue at the moment, that’s why I’ve downloaded this app. Have you managed to find anything since you posted this to help you?
