Need some relationship advice
Hey there guys.. really could use some advice! :(
Hey there.. so I am in a tricky situation that makes me feel like a dirt bag, and I don’t know if it’s my heart telling me something or self sabotage.. so basically I’m with this amazing person who fits everything I thought I’d ever want, although after dating a bit, and moving very fast, we now live together and there have been things that came up that just makes things a little weird because they want something that isn’t me, but I try to look past it. Now I’m realizing the spark just isn’t there on my end and hadn’t, but since they check all my boxes I wanted to make it work. What should I do? Idk if I should leave because it’s not fair to them. They are an amazing human and never did anything wrong to deserve being hurt, but I also know that connection isn’t there on my end like I thought it was in the honey moon phase. Am I just a pos or is this something that is a normal emotion that happens sometimes? I should mention my only other relationship was over 8 years long so I’m new to the short term stuff
@agreeableNectarine9205
one of the downsides of moving fast in relationships is we find out things we may have missed seeing.
If you are not feeling the spark or the special feeling that is deep ... even though they meet your checklist on what you want .... sometimes that is not enough and not worth settling for. The sooner you accept it and tell them the better ... it would hurt to hear but it would be worse if i found out it was a long time that you knew.