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Question About Minor Tension

User Profile: BusyBird
BusyBird July 3rd

Do you guys think it is normal to start shaking the moment there is even the tiniest bit of tension coming from someone?


For example, you ask a question and the person you asked replies with obvious irritation. So, you start shaking, even just slightly. This can happen due to online or real life interactions.


I do this. I also get this impending doom feeling, like there is no possible way for me in particular to fix the situation, and the potential for the other person to explode at me is imminent.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 3rd

@BusyBird

I can understand such an extreme reaction if you've suffered with a toxic environment and constant fighting or criticism 💛

It's understandable, conflict can overwhelm us!

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User Profile: BusyBird
BusyBird OP July 4th

@Amanda84 At least you understand! 🧡

*hugs gif because the gif button isn't working right lol*

User Profile: BusyBird
BusyBird OP July 4th

@Amanda84 I got the gif to work! hug.gif

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 4th

@BusyBird

Yaaay, your first gif, hug accepted , vigorously 💚😁

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