What do women usually feel towards men who are virgins at 22-23?
In need of some advice , I'm a 22 years old male who is turning 23 in 2 short months in November I am still a Virgin and don't know if I should even bother entering the dating scene now afraid I have lost my prime time for having normal chances I live in very rural Pennsylvania (USA so western culture) so Every women I'm around my age are sexually experienced, been in long-term relationships and in fact many have already are having families I know many 22 year old women on the second child, and i feel so fundamentally behind that when most women do find out I'm a virgin at this age they will find it highly unattractive and leave and reject me ? Also I was diagnosed with PDDNOS (now known as part of the autism spectrum which means you have very low traits but don't naturally do well with the social stuff which I have improved as I've aged ), and I also had substance use issues for most of my teens and early 20s so I dedicated a lot of time to that, but I've working through that so I don't have much relationship experience either . now I feel I'm at that age where most women wont understand my situation or want to help me become . So what age do most sexually experienced women generally find it unusual or become wary to the point passing up a virgin man In the US western culture , are my options likely limited now ?
@charmingAcres779
I'm pretty sure being a virgin is quite attractive to many, many men and women.. I believe you have nothing to worry about in that regard. Often times women don't appreciate a experienced sexual mate at all, they avoid men with too much experience. 🌲
@charmingAcres779
Your options are not limited... it does not really matter and if it does that is their issue not yours.
No one is keeping score and if anyone asks, tell them you are picky about whom you associate with.
Hey :) I'm not American but I don't think the right person will really care if you're a virgin or not. I think working on yourself is the best approach. Sex isn't everything in a relationship and I know alot of women who value companionship over intimacy. I know personally it would be nice to not be sexualized and be liked for me. Anyways, I'm rooting for your journey.
@charmingAcres779 Not American so I can't vouch for that specific culture but basically your age and in your same situation. First of all I understand your pain, I feel insecure about these issues as well. One thing I will say though is that if you do truly find the right person, they will not care about this. Yes I know, it's cliché, but It'd be dehumanizing to stay with someone who cares more about your "body count" than you. You deserve better than that! Stay strong and work on making yourself happy first and foremost, that always impresses the right people.
