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i never learned how to make friends.

User Profile: lavenderMoon987
lavenderMoon987 August 28th, 2023

i'm a 21 year old college student, and i've had social anxiety for my entire life. i deal with that by isolating myself from others, and unfortunately that means i never learned how to make friends. i try to be okay with it and tell myself that i don't need others to make me happy, but that is not true. loneliness is so hard to deal with. i have one friend irl, (who initiated our friendship) but she is always busy, and she already has a best friend.

i'm studying english and have a love for books. i also really enjoy cooking/baking, kpop girl groups, cozy video games, musicals, and *** reality tv. i tend to be more comfortable talking to other women (or non-men in general) due to past experiences. if anyone else relates, i would love to try to become friends :)

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User Profile: faithfulStrawberries6920
faithfulStrawberries6920 December 9th, 2023

@lavenderMoon987

Hey im 24 and in similar situation so if you would like someone to talk to and be friends I'm open to it 

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User Profile: lavenderMoon987
lavenderMoon987 OP December 9th, 2023

@faithfulStrawberries6920 would love to be friends :)

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User Profile: AnonyMoon1407
AnonyMoon1407 December 11th, 2023

Hey there! I'm in a similar situation. So you are not alone. I would be glad to be friends with you!

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User Profile: lavenderMoon987
lavenderMoon987 OP December 13th, 2023

@AnonyMoon1407 hellooo

of course i want to be friends! your pfp is super cute btw

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User Profile: AnonyMoon1407
AnonyMoon1407 December 13th, 2023

Aww thanks for the complement! Yours is cute too😍 Hope you're doing okay with your stuff. I personally know how hard it is to study with anxiety, but hey, you got this! Anxiety is tough but you are tougher! If you need a friend to talk I'll be there. Sending lots of love❤️❤️

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User Profile: lavenderMoon987
lavenderMoon987 OP December 13th, 2023

@AnonyMoon1407 finals were definitely really difficult this year, but as of this afternoon i am officially done! looking forward to enjoying the holiday break. what about you?

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