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User Profile: sincereFarm4944
sincereFarm4944 February 7th, 2023

I had feeling for the girl. My best friend introduced once and from that day i had a big crush or attraction towards her. Its about 1 and a half year since we became friends and *** she friendzoned me by saying mee a best friend and sending that type of reels in my dms. Sometimes i think ishould made a confession but i don't have the courage to to say and my biggest fear is that if she would say i done all those things in respect to a good frnd then i'll be completly broken from inside.

So please help me by giving suggession what to do about it should i make a confess or should i wait more to devolp feeling against me inside her.....

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User Profile: purplelady568
purplelady568 February 8th, 2023

@sincereFarm4944 It sounds like this relationship is really important to you!

I cannot give you advice, because I wouldn't want to steer you in the wrong direction. Only you know what is the best thing for you to do. That being said, it seems like you have 2 options - 1. stay in the friend zone, or 2. tell her how you feel, and come clean about these deep feelings you have for her, but risk losing the friendship.

If you'd like, you could write down a list of pro/cons, and see which option has more benefits in the long run. But in the end, only you can decide where to go from here.

If you want to talk 1:1 about what you are going through, you can find a listener here: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ Just please keep in mind that listeners are there to listen, and are not able to give advice.