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35+ Community check in - June 7th - June 10th 2021

User Profile: pamharley003
pamharley003 June 10th, 2021

This discussion is on : Is Social Media Use Affecting Your Mood?

Do you feel safe when on any Social media account ?
When on 7 cups is this site making you feel safe ?


Social media can be a positive force and resource for people who have common interests, goals, lifestyles—and health conditions. It’s a way to share stories, experiences, and information. And, for us, it’s a way to connect with our bipolar community for messages of hope and resilience represented by hashtags like #hope, #BipolarStrong, and #MentalHealthMatters.

But research shows that when we rely on social media too much—and compare ourselves to what we see within carefully edited posts of other people’s seemingly perfect lives—we become at risk for increased loneliness, depression, and anxiety.

“The less you are connected with human beings in a deep, empathic way, the less you’re really getting the benefits of a social interaction,” says Alexandra Hamlet, PsyD. “The more superficial it is, the less likely it’s going to cause you to feel connected, which is something we all need.”

It’s important to know that excessive use of social media is common with for people with bipolar, especially at night, which can disrupt critical sleep routines and trigger symptoms.

It doesn’t help that Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram are designed to be addictive, activating the release of dopamine—the brain’s feel-good chemical connected to pleasurable things. (In one survey of teens in the United Kingdom, Instagram was deemed the worst social media network for mental health and well-being.)

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User Profile: Orthrus
Orthrus June 10th, 2021

@pamharley003

Do you feel safe when on any Social media account ?

No, initially it didn't used to be that way though.

- Tollerance towards moderation took a sharp dive at a certain stage and too many compromises were made.

- Commercialisation of data has seen a decline in trust of both sites and browser vendors due to more and more private information being stored online, for no real reason other than demographics mining to feed the new virtual commodity, data.

- Uncertainty about and the lax, often lacking moderation on some platforms and privately owned groups leaves one feeling exposed in regards to one's emotional/mental safety.

When on 7 cups is this site making you feel safe ?

Health related sites/platforms do tend to keep tighter reigns on things for the most part and I feel safer and more comfortable with them, that is so long as I can keep my mind in check and rational. There are certain aspects of open communication these days, that has me shying away from chatting live though as there's a double edged sword that is unavoidable.

All said, thus far I have no reason to distrust or feel unsafe on 7 cups and my experience has been very much pleasant and helpful to me heart

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User Profile: pamharley003
pamharley003 OP June 10th, 2021

@Orthrus
I am glad you feel safe on 7 cups. The site is to keep each person who comes here whether Member or Listener as safe as possible. I am here to keep our Sub Community 35+ & over as safe as I can make it.

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User Profile: NikkiCar
NikkiCar June 11th, 2021

For the most part I feel pretty safe on social media. That is in part due to me not divulging certain information. Of course some social media sites are less secure and safe than others are. It helps to stay educated about safe ways to use the internet. As far as 7 Cups, it feels very safe and monitored. I have had no issues or problems.

User Profile: Rebekahwriter13
Rebekahwriter13 June 12th, 2021
Do you feel safe when on any Social media account ? Most of the time, not really. . . I keep getting random scammers using military overseas or kids to think they can lure me. The thing is I am not that gullible. I also watch a lot of catfish so I know what to look for.
When on 7 cups is this site making you feel safe ? This is how I think. . . If you really want to mess with my mental problems, and deal with me. . . they might want to stop and think why would this person be on a therapy site?
User Profile: mutter3
mutter3 June 13th, 2021

Social media us like a magic time machine. I say gonna check real quick then I look and it's been 4 hours and laundry has built up garbage is full, to late to sleep. I'm better in the here and now so set an alarm now when I go online.