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User Profile: Loveyourself1982
Loveyourself1982 December 26th, 2022

how do I handle a situation where your dating someone but you feel like your falling for this person more then there falling for you. Also your putting more effort into the relationship then the other person is doing. Should you breakup?

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 27th, 2022

@Loveyourself1982

It's valid to feel upset when it seems the other person isn't exactly on the same page as us or that they aren't investing much effort and care. I see how this is making you question how to move forward from here.

How do you feel about talking to your partner about what you shared here? Letting them know you feel they aren't investing enough efforts as yourself and how it makes you feel. Or even a more general conversation about what are their thoughts currently about it's going and if they have any plans for the near future etc to know more about what they might be thinking and to communicate how you feel with them.

A lot of times people don't realise they be hurting us, when they aren't aware of what might we be expecting of them, communicating it with them clearly could give them a chance to understand and improve, I feel.

Ofcourse if things don't work out still, you'd know what to do! It's okay to take the time figuring things out at y'alls pace! ❤

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User Profile: Loveyourself1982
Loveyourself1982 OP December 27th, 2022

Absolutely true. Communication has always been the key for me. I’ve learned that in past relationships until now. If you don’t communicate your feelings or thoughts how else would anyone get a clear understanding. 🥰

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 27th, 2022

@Loveyourself1982 So true, glad you feel the same way! Hope things work out for y'all!❤

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