Confused and Navigating Life
In a long-term relationship. I am in my later 30's she is in her mid 40's. It seems she likes to go out almost every weekend. We know a few married couples and one guy asked her if she would go to Vegas with him. She texted me they booked a trip to Vegas but after I showed disapproval she said it was just a joke. How should I approach this because I felt that her radar should have went off?
@neonNest5995
No expert but maybe she feels not as committed as you..... women especially 40s and older often feel why the *** not ........and shut their radar off. it was very insensitive of her even if she was joking to tell you that perhaps you need to define your relationship more
Thank you for the advice. The text message did throw me off. She did mentioned before me she was not in a serious relationship. I need to look at matters from a wider perspective than what I want to see.
I told her I did not get the joke. She also mentioned she did not book the trip.
Question: Should a person feel iffy of the opposite sex inviting them to a place like Vegas?
@neonNest5995
I think it's important that your partner acknowledges your feelings as you guys communicate with each other. I feel like it's definitely crucial to define certain boundaries if it was simply a joke
@neonNest5995
If she didn't book the trip then why did she have to make a joke about it? that's really weird o.0. I mean shouldn't u be the only person she'd want to go on a trip with..not some other random guys?
That was the weird part for me. I did not get the joke and understand why one would say booked a trip unless it happened. She later said it was just a dumb text.
Thank you for message for I did not want to come off being hyper-sensitive.
@tealLion9329 She wants me to travel but Vegas is not my speed. I am not into that scene.