Am I crazy ?
So what would you do if you feel like your forcing every step in your relationship but when you break and want to leave he doesn’t want to let things end and starts his promises and makes attempts for about two weeks then it’s back to the blow ups when you bring up money issues or “how your feeling “ alone or even when you ask to take out the trash he gets upset and says why don’t I ask my oldest child to have some responsibility!! Mind you he’s have been holding us done financially for 10 months when it comes to food bills etc in a house hold of 5
I’m tried of explaining “where I am coming from” I’m sick of expecting him to step up and he comes with excuse after excuse because he knows I will handle it ! Why won’t he just leave ! And I know he just doesn’t want me to be happy with someone else but at this point I rather die with 20 cats than a man child !!
@loyalComputer9070
He does not leave because it is uncomfortable enough.
To leave when he knows a few promises or doing things for a short while until things go right back is less hassle than finding a place to stay. set strong boundaries and financial expectations no more moving the goal post after a few promises of change. Remind him others simply will not put up with this, and he has lost your respect. Sometimes we just have to be brutally honest and not hope they catch a clue.
Very true Im at the point of no return and trying not to get to out of character but he is definitely going to see my change in attitude
I just feel like men want this perfect wife and life but aren’t willing to actually put in the work and carry there role as a man because I definitely don’t need another child
You’re not crazy. That’s not fair to you.
@Lexdairies I feel that some don't leave out of being comfortable. When you leave it creates a sense of anxiety cause you dont have that security anymore. So they try to keep things as they are even if they know it's hurting someone else
@lexidairies
I can totally relate since I deal with similar issues on my own relationship.
I agree with what everyone said in that he is comfortable and knows you will fix things.
If you really want out you may want to state that in a “here is what has to change or we are done” kind of manner!
Otherwise at least in my own world, they know we don’t really mean it so they keep pushing the limits!
Also are you really done or just tired of him expecting you to do everything for him?
Things to ponder and then act on what you think is best for you!
Sending good vibes!
Also 20 cats isn’t a bad thing 🐈🐈⬛🐾😂❤️
But they don’t help around the house either LOL
YES ABSOLUTELY YES, THIS MAN IS A GOOD FOR NOTHING PEICE OF YK WHAT! HE IS NOT DESERVING OF YOU!! 🤎🤍
