Darkened Mind
Hello 👋
It's been awhile that I'm back here. Tried to upgrade this life of mine but seems when every step I'll take, there are always distractions.
Loneliness and struggles made me feel demotivated.
My mind don't want to think esp in applying for a job or any ways to improve my life. I'm not also lucky in relationship, feeling alone.
I need light. 37 already but still unsuccessful in all aspects.
@Uncertain20 awww sweetie I'm sorry your struggling so badly 🙁 mental health has a nasty way of bringing us down all the time🙁 and lonliness is a terrible thing. But it's ok to not have all the answers, age is just a number I know many people in their 60s who still haven't got a clue what their doing in life so your not alone 💖 just try your best that's all anyone can do💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗 try not to be too hard on yourself 💖
@Uncertain20 thanks for your honesty and sharing your vulnerabilities with us, it's not easy at all. Don't try to have it all figured out, what works for me is slow and steady and breaking things into small and manageable chunks, working on one thing at a time, that builds up confidence and also stops you being overwhelmed or daunted. Focus on what you do have and let what you cannot control go for now. Welcome and genuinely rooting for you 💜🥰
@Uncertain20 Sending lots of love to you!❤️❤️
Our brain is pretty tricky! It always wants us to become better no matter where you are in your life. Doesn’t matter if you are employed or unemployed, have no money or have a lot of money, been a 27 or 37. People can still feel sad and unmotivated. For instance. The one employed may think his/her job is not good enough in certain way. The one unemployed may stressed about finding a job. I think it is important to realize that and once you think about this way, it can at least boost a little bit your energy. I hope it helps!
A ball doesn't bounce till it hits the bottom