Help me with my relationship
Hello everyone.I just wanted an opinion.
I have been in this situation for 1 month and I feel terrible.
I have been in a distance relationship for 6 years.My boyfriend is the first guy for me,for everything.
But one day I was with my friend and we hang out with some guys and decided to play truth or dare.In this game I just kissed someone but just a baby kiss and it was gross.The second time the dare happened I refused him because it was gross.
I felt guilty and I couldn’t hold it anymore so I decided to tell my boyfriend the truth.I told him the truth but except the kiss,I just told him we hang out and he forgave me.Now I feel very bad about the kiss woth the other guy.I couldn’t see myself in the mirror.It will never happened again I know this ,but I feel very guilty.I just need an opinion.
@Melisaaaaaaa Relax. Breathe. Guilt is an unhelpful companion.
@Melisaaaaaaa
You are punishing yourself for nothing IMO .... a simple kiss and you obviously disliked it was a experiment did not work move on ... do not think playing truth or dare games is a good game as they often end with some sort of kiss/ hug etc and easy way to make an error in judgement
@Melisaaaaaaa
i will just forget and move on without any baggage of guilt
I've never been one to sugar coat things so I'll be honest with you. You feel guilty because you cheated. Whether it was a game or not it happened while you are in a relationship. Going forward you have two options either be honest with your boyfriend or never allow this situation to happen again forgive yourself and move past it. Sometimes temptations do happen and humans are fallible. Good luck!
@Melisaaaaaaa you are think too much , its not that a big deal .
For being that long with someone long distance and not even him making the move to bring things closer, the better question would be whether he is serious or not. If you have gone exploring a bit with friends it could be an indicator at a subconscious level that you want the connection in person too. You aren't his wife as to feel so guilty over such a thing. Sometimes people will give away years of their loyalty and persistence to a guy that never even deserved it. Pay attention to your needs and what you truly want.
